@nottoplan I was just thinking that I hadn't pulled The Lovers for anyone yet, and here we are. It's a card that has many layers. On the surface, if I was an end-of-the-pier type Tarot reader, I would tell you that romance wise, everything in the garden was rosy. And it can mean that. But you know what, I haven't met a person yet who asks me about relationships who doesn't have a niggle of some sort at the back of their mind when they ask the question. If I've got this wrong and there is a new relationship in your life, the outlook is mostly happy -the Gods are smiling on you; go forth and procreate.
But fundamentally, the Lovers card is about choice. If you look at the card, there is a third figure between the couple who have not yet joined their hands together -the decision is still wavering. It can be the card of eternal triangles, of affairs, of partnerships gone wrong. These aren't always romantic relationships, they can represent any type of partnership (but normally romantic).
There are all sorts of choices -there can be the choice between partners, prospective partners, lovers, family members, children, spouses. There is the choice to settle, or to leave. There is the choice made from guilt, the choice made from passion, or the choice made with the head, as opposed to the heart. Choices based on money, on suspicions, on stupid mistakes. So what this card is asking, is what choice do you need to make? Someone else may be in charge of that decision, ultimately, in which case there isn't a huge amount you can do to influence the outcome.
The card I pulled to cover this was the 4 of wands, which is a card of stability, of a happy, secure home. This qualifies the first card enormously and indicates that what might seem like a huge earthquake is just a minor wobble.