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How do I get husband to love me and feel more close to him , Idk why I feel so distant from him. We just had a first baby and he's been amazing but a part of me feels like were just not we're we need to be. He is so focused on work (owns a business) that I feel so left out and lonely sometimes. I moved cities for him but it seems like his family make more of an effort with me then he does.

I would get this thread moved to Relationships, op. This board is more for unexplained phenomena, rather than inexplicable husbands.

Don’t underestimate the profound effect having a tiny baby can have on your relationship. No matter how longed-for and cherished, having a baby takes a lot of adjustment from both parents. It sounds like you could do with trying to improve your communication with each other. Are you able to let him know how you feel?

Had no idea ! Will do now thank you!

And I have communicated several times to him about how I feel but he insists I watch him too much and if I did more with my time I wouldn't be as needy which is hurtful and I've been become fed up of bringing it up because he tells me I'm always looking for a fight or I have problems when they're aren't. So am I really the problem when I feel like I'm begging for his affection and time it's so hard to understand