OK I shared this on another thread but the thread was deleted or I just can't find it.
Last year my old uni flatmate and friend died suddenly. I hadn't seen him for a while, our lives had gone their separate ways and we saw each other at weddings or old friend get togethers, that sort of thing but we were not as close as we used to be. He came to stay a bit when my first was a baby and he didn't like the fact that I let him climb into the bath (stepstool) he was always afraid my son would fall. One Sunday night, 9 years after he first made the comment, I was letting my youngest climb into the bath by himself. I heard my friend say, "I told you not to let the baby do that!". I smiled and thought, I must get in contact with him. The following Monday I heard him all day, using various nicknames and joking (he was a real joker). I realised that I hadn't spoken to him for a long time and maybe it was my way of telling myself to get in touch. I mentioned it to a friend because I was finding it so odd and she backed up the suggestion that I should message him that very evening. That evening I was on facebook and saw another mutual friend had written a message on his wall (this I thought, was yet another sign) so I clicked on his page to read the message. I was dumbstruck when I opened his facebook page, it was full of RIP messages and tributes. He had passed on the Sunday night, in the same hour as my son's bath.
The other one is the knocking ghost and is part of the reason I kept a diary of my sleep paralysis experiences at that time. My mum took on a lodger from New Zealand. She was an odd woman and shortly after she moved in, strange things started happening. One night I was woken up at 3am by three or four loud knocks on my bedroom door. I was really annoyed, thinking it was her and in the morning I asked her, rather sharply, if she needed anything in the night. She said "That wasn't me, that was your mother, I heard her running up the stairs". My mother was away for the weekend, she'd left the night before the knocking and came back two days later.
One afternoon I came home with a friend, we were in my room listening to music and chatting, when there were 3 or 4 loud knocks on the door. Assuming it was my mother I called out for her to come in. Nothing happened, so thinking she had a tray of snacks and drinks (she often did that when I had friends) I opened the door, there was no one there and no one in the house. We went to my friends house sharpish.
Another time my mother was in the kitchen with the neighbours, she was hammering a shelf up in the kitchen and they were having a chat/helping. She banged on the wall and the bangs came back, she did it several times and even hammered out a pattern. Each time it came back. Behind the kitchen wall is shop store room. There are metal shelves across the whole wall and they are stocked with products (I have been in there). One of the neighbours has since confirmed that he went into the shop at the time to buy some whiskey to calm his nerves, and there was no one in the back room because there was only one guy in the shop and it's not the sort of area you can leave the front of the shop unattended!
The entire time the lodger was there strange things happened as well, the TV would switch off or the radio would turn on upstairs when everyone was downstairs. It had a really tough slide switch that you needed to push into the FM radio setting. Before she left she told me that she was travelling around the world since her husband died, she was lost and confused. When she left all the activity stopped. My mother still lives in the house.
Finally my parents had a party about 5 years before I was born so going to out myself but my birthdate contains only one number (repeated obviously) so like 9.9.99. She went into the kitchen during the party and there was an old rastafarian in there. He said to her "When all the numbers come together (only he said the actual number), that will be your time" and left the room. She tried to find him or find someone who knew him to ask him what he meant. None of her friends remember him and no one invited him.....When I was born my grandfather said, all the X's together for a birthday, lucky baby. My mother hadn't realised and only when he said it, did she remember the rasta at the party.