Ok so long story short I have a horse and have previously told yard I’m thinking about selling her the yard owners daughter (in 40s) wants to be gifted her (due to her having some riding quirks)despite her quirks is a high quality horse good confirmation and previously competed high level the daughter is very novice particularly in the riding aspect of things horse is young un confident and can be difficult to ride (perfect on the ground) I hate conflict and am a people pleaser but can’t in my right conscience let them have her I’m now finding myself dreading going to the yard as I often get interrogated on what’s happening with said horse and how they want her we have decided to move yards for a multitude of reasons and have been told it’s crazy I’m thinking of moving her and they “will work her so much she won’t even think about playing up” as the owner I feel my decision of moving her should be respected but I cant bring myself to tell them they can’t have her and find myself avoiding the question or moving around it. also I’m often spoken to differently and in a condescending manor not being taken seriously without getting into too much detail horse has had multiple health issues and is being moved to take a break with vets advice who think it will do her the world of good what should I do?! But they believe this is crazy and won’t make any difference Any advice appreciated