It's one of the many reasons I don't own a horse - they're not easy pets and require a huge amount of time and input that I know I couldn't provide long-term.
The work involved has blown my mind, horses are happy and I am but [...]. Let me repeat that for 3 horses that uses as much land as a livery yard of 18 horses and let that message sink in....
I agree with you both. I believe this is a large part of the problem. People going into horse owning but not being prepared to do what it takes. I'm old and old-school. I've owned many, including some with conditions. Nothing has failed to thrive kept stabled nights, out majority of days (winter weather sometimes restricted it), groomed daily, exercised minimum three times weekly and every day if not turned out. Crucially they were all kept at least halfway to fully fit. Not bimbling around in light work at best.
When I viewed a yard, I did so on the assumption that:
(Unless it was solely full livery only) I'd end up on DIY if the standard of care didn't pass muster.
I'd be down majority of days, even if not riding, to do things like ensuring sodden rugs are hung somewhere they'll actually dry out and there's a replacement ready for tomorrow, groom my horse and check for injury, carrying out any minor first aid and pick hoofs.
I'd be mostly hacking and if I could get into any arenas that would be a bonus, so I'd ensure I was happy with the safety of the hacking facilities, even after work in winter.
I'd be riding most days in winter (anything other than in a lightning storm, basically) due to fields being closed and that if they weren't I'd consider myself lucky to have some turnout that week.
I took note of storage facilities for tack and regardless of whether I thought it'd suit, I'd be prepared for it to live permanently in the boot of my car if needed.
I took note of storage facilities for hay and bedding (sometimes a personal barn and sometimes no more than one pallet!) and checked out local suppliers (if not sold by the yard) to ensure I could organise myself to get a delivery/collection of a suitable amount in a suitable frequency.
Except on those rare occasions (redundancy etc making life difficult), I always had a stable, even if I thought I wouldn't need it, just in case I did. If I didn't have a stable and horse was on field livery, it was on my own understanding that any injuries or illnesses requiring strict box rest would possibly result in PTS instead.
To enable care of the horse, decisions would have to be made round it. Including things like:
Level of socialising - after work drinks was a strict no.
Type of job, hours of work and level of employment - which restricted or limited career choices and success.
Decisions over having DC or not and how many, where/when/length of family holidays, what car to own and when to replace it.
Availability of funds for other things not related to horse and where they'd need to be cut.
Availability of funds for veterinary care and the resulting likely decisions on treatment.
Availability of time to provide care for unwell or not fully healthy horses - ie when to cut my losses and call it quits with a particular animal/condition.
All this was considered in advance, not wait for a situation to occur then panic when there was no easy solution. Essentially, it all boiled down to how much did I want to own a horse (or that particular horse), what was I prepared to give up to make it happen and was that enough to enable it to happen?
Whereas I've seen people lately who have done things like:
Novice riders/first time owners buying a horse unseen from a page of ads as if they're picking one out of a catalogue.
People assuming that what the livery yard owner tells them at viewing is the God's honest truth and will definitely happen.
People assuming that a horse's training in good manners and skills, under saddle and on the ground, is a one-time thing and they don't have to do anything at all to maintain it (and they have no idea how they're training-in bad problems with their daily handling/riding).
People assuming that insurance for vets fees fixes anything and everything, with no additional funds or care from themselves needed and that the horse will be PTS only when very old and after a catastrophe, being unwilling to do it for any other reason even though the horse is suffering to some degree.
A belief that there's a ton of good people just queueing up to provide a home for their ancient/knackered/difficult to ride/manage horse who may need retirement soon.
A total inability to recognise signs of illness or injury or to know any first aid at all or how to bring a horse back to fitness after a break.
Those who think 10min turnout per day is sufficient exercise, then wonder why they're having behavioural/lameness issues during their 3hr 🤦 hack on a Saturday.
Yes it would be nice if there were more and varied livery yards catering for different needs. More than that though, I think a lot of horse owners need to change, to step up and raise their game, both with horsecare/riding and with being willing to pay for what they need, not always go with the cheapest yard. They also need to be facing reality and to know when things are no longer viable, instead of waiting for that catastrophe.
People also need, before they first buy a horse/pony to look into the costs and methods of PTS and disposal. The amount who "can't afford it" is shocking. Not least because if they can afford to keep the horse then they can afford to PTS, all they'd have to do is pay the vet/disposal company the livery/hay/feed/bedding money each week until the bill is cleared. Alongside putting up with their totally justified anger that the owner couldn't pay in full straight away. The PTS fee and disposal fee is the minimum amount of cash you should have in the bank for horsey emergencies.
Sorry that turned into a bit of a moan but I hope it makes anyone who needs to, think.