I'm in the process of trying to convince DH that a pony is doable for us. We rent land 5 mins away from home ( by car) for sheep and have more than enough for a pony as well. DH is self employed in agriculture and visits the land at least once a day, and is there all day sometimes working. Im a SAMH ( possibly returning to work part time next year) to two under 2. The problem is he is a typical farmer and is wise to the (expensive,"field destroying" !) ways of horses.. so im struggling a little. I (and DC's) visit the land regularly and it breaks my heart that we could easily (IMO!) have a pony there. DH is knowledgable about horses, had his own as a kid, so could easily feed, check pony if i was unable to.
Pony would have to live out ( with rugs, shelter etc) but we have buildings for stabling if required. So tell me please how you manage your grass kept ponies (with kids!). How much time do you spend just sorting them out, doing the basics in winter?How much do you spend on hay/feed etc? I am looking at natives from about 13.3 upwards ( DH doesn't know obviously!).
I'm just trying to build my case at the moment, he's not opposed completely and appreciates that if the DC's like horses he's stuffed and there will be ponies, but he just won't agree to me having one, yet :(
sorry this is long and i'm waffling! x