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Relationship with parent

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PoppyLol · 12/09/2023 16:07

I'm trying to find out if having a consensusl romantic relationship with a parent is a 'serious misconduct'. (Have never taught the student but did meet the parent through school)
I've looked through the government guidance and I tend to think not, but if anyone has any direct experience of this, particularly school leaders, I'd be grateful. Happened ages ago but ex, who wasn't even on the scene at the time, is threatening blackmail :( and says he can get me struck off. Nice

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Sinead4ever · 12/09/2023 16:19

Pretty sure not but are you in a union i would ring them

Sinead4ever · 12/09/2023 16:19

Also not a legal expert in any but blackmail is illegal

PoppyLol · 12/09/2023 16:28

Thanks 🙂
The union have been a bit vague too, to be honest, but have given me a number to call, which I shall do!
They said issues can arise if the 'relationship only started because the teacher met the parent as part of their work and then pursued a relationship only through that work connection'. It happens all the time, but mostly people don't have such a vindictive ex-partner in the mix.

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JanetandJohn500 · 12/09/2023 21:07

School leader / school improvement here

It's not illegal. It's not against Teacher Standards but it's frowned upon because it adds layers of complication.

good96 · 12/09/2023 21:42

Do you teach their child? That would definitely be seen as a conflict of interest.

TortolaParadise · 12/09/2023 21:58

I don't think it is illegal.

LondonQueen · 13/09/2023 00:48

It's not illegal and you won't get struck off but it is frowned upon as it brings a whole host of issues into the equation.

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