Hi,
I’ve just started seeing a primary school teacher. It was him that instigated getting chatting and the first date. He’s lovely and his job and commitment to it was initially one of the things that I was attracted to - a ‘people/caring’ job, with comparable pressures to mine.
However he is ALWAYS working - rearranged a couple of dates, often still working at 2AM.
I have subtly mentioned this a few times - to moy much effect, and then I came out with it, and asked if he thought he had time for a new relationship - he replied he did ‘at the weekends’.
He isn’t newly qualified, BUT has additional responsibility with in the school.
I don’t know whether I want to continue trying. Am I being awful?