I’m not arguing that Harry and Meghan are flawless, or that people aren’t allowed to criticise them — of course they are. But there’s a real difference between fair criticism and the obsessive, often unhinged level of coverage they get (St Justine et al) especially compared to other royals. That’s what I find frustrating.
Sure, they’re public figures, but they’re not the only ones. And yet somehow they attract ten times the outrage. I mean, Andrew did far worse and yes, there was backlash — but the fact is, the tabloids aren’t running daily hit pieces about him, are they? No one’s frothing in the comments over how often he breathes or whether his PR team got something wrong. That kind of energy just isn’t there in the same way.
As for the bullying claims — they should absolutely be taken seriously. But it's hard to ignore how quickly they were seized on by the press, especially when the so-called “multiple sources” all came from within an institution that clearly wasn’t thrilled about Meghan in the first place. That doesn’t mean she’s innocent, but it does mean we should probably apply the same scrutiny to the people making the accusations.
And on the “they’re always in our faces” line — let’s be honest, a lot of this media saturation is driven by the people complaining. If every podcast or article sparks 200 angry comments and 15 new threads, of course it’s going to keep going. It’s a feedback loop. If people genuinely ignored them, they’d fade out of the headlines pretty fast.
Look, I don’t think they’re perfect, and no, Meghan doesn’t seem like a natural business genius. But the gleeful tone some people take when discussing every misstep she makes is telling. And if we’re going to criticise them for being out of touch or entitled, fine — but let’s not pretend it’s just about their “work ethic” or PR. There’s clearly more going on under the surface in how people react to them versus others.