Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

The royal family

Sentebale #2

1000 replies

Words · 29/03/2025 12:59

Second thread .

OP posts:
Thread gallery
29
Rhaidimiddim · 30/03/2025 18:37

MayaKovskaya · 30/03/2025 17:16

I'm just reflecting on how women get silenced
Hysterical
Bossy
Karen
Strident
Hormonal
Menopausal
Not The Full Shilling.

Dictatorial

MayaKovskaya · 30/03/2025 18:37

LipglossAlly · 30/03/2025 18:29

I also find very weird that when being investigated for something as serious as mismanaging the funds of a charity catering to the most vulnerable of children, your first reaction would be to bring up the spouse of one of the founders and using the key buzzwords and adopt key talking points of the BM( deviation tactics maybe?)rather than clearing your name and providing a precise and detailed account of who/ where these funds were allocated to. Very interesting. The truth will eventually come out once a detailed investigation report is made public and shows how the aforementioned funds were managed or mismanaged

Who are you talking to?
What is the BM?

LemonLeaves · 30/03/2025 18:39

Onestopshop11 · 30/03/2025 18:24

@LemonLeaves this is an interesting and useful post for those less familiar with the role of a trustee. I think it is worth adding that whistleblowing must meet the public interest test to afford protection to the whistleblower either in disclosing while they are a party to an nda or really for any other public disclosure. Without that protection the other party could seek any number of legal remedies, not just breach of nda but say slander or libel. The Public Interest test is specific - the reported wrongdoing must be either:

  1. Criminal offence
  2. Failure to comply with a Statutory Obligation
  3. Miscarriage of Justice
  4. Health and Safety
  5. Causing Environmental Damage
  6. Covering up any of the above.

i think the only relevant one here would be 2.

Yes. It's likely though that she would also have coverage via insurance (such as a Directors & Officers policy), which can help mitigate against some of the risks. Most trustees won't get involved without liability coverage in place.

JudgeJ · 30/03/2025 18:39

Profhilodisaster · 30/03/2025 18:02

I'm very late to the party but have just listened to the interview, Sophie said that Meghan had invited guests and hadn't told/asked anyone if it was ok to do so, resulting in too many people being on the podium and the very awkward 'choreography' of who should stand where.

As she had played no part in the event then there was no reason for her being on the podium at all, other than to get her grinning visage in the papers. If Princess Anne is presenting a trophy, as an example, you don't see Tim Lawrence up there on the podium.

Words · 30/03/2025 18:40

@jeffgoldblum . Sorry I know thé accents are irritating! I havé a new iPad and as I write in French and English am finding it difficult to Switch between

OP posts:
jeffgoldblum · 30/03/2025 18:40

AsterTurq · 30/03/2025 18:37

I know what it means, no need to mansplain, I just couldn’t find the right phrase, which I have corrected 3 x now 🙄

And yes you do get very irate and angry threads in MN, it does seem to attract such women 🤷‍♀️. Not all, luckily, but I unfortunately walked into this one.

Mansplaining is when a man explains something to a woman!
@IAmATorturedPoet , is not a man ! Odd you would assume so!

Rhaidimiddim · 30/03/2025 18:40

Rhaidimiddim · 30/03/2025 17:31

The new script is emerging.
Trevor Phillips is dodgy.
Poor Harry won't ever get a fair hearing in the Press so shouldn't be expected to answer the allegations.
We weren't at the meeting so dob't know what happened.
And the obligatory "I'm not a fan/ supporter".

There are two sides to this.
We should shut up and wait for a formal investigation.
Trial by media is not good.
Dr C is dodgy.

Lunde · 30/03/2025 18:40

This is mere speculation but I notice for the past 3 years the Senetable has submitted its accounts in April. So the annual report and accounts to August 31 2024 are due very soon. I wonder if the auditors have brought up some issues to SC or the trustees that has sparked the current issues.

In particular I'm thinking of Harry's impulsive actions to bring Netflix that meant they had to change the venue might have affected the fundraiser negatively. I wonder whether Harry paid for the additional costs of his filming or whether he expected Senetable to such it up.

MayaKovskaya · 30/03/2025 18:40

Words · 30/03/2025 18:40

@jeffgoldblum . Sorry I know thé accents are irritating! I havé a new iPad and as I write in French and English am finding it difficult to Switch between

How frustrating! It makes your posts look quite elegant, though 😊

RandyRedHumpback · 30/03/2025 18:41

LipglossAlly · 30/03/2025 18:29

I also find very weird that when being investigated for something as serious as mismanaging the funds of a charity catering to the most vulnerable of children, your first reaction would be to bring up the spouse of one of the founders and using the key buzzwords and adopt key talking points of the BM( deviation tactics maybe?)rather than clearing your name and providing a precise and detailed account of who/ where these funds were allocated to. Very interesting. The truth will eventually come out once a detailed investigation report is made public and shows how the aforementioned funds were managed or mismanaged

Her first reaction was to report to the Charities Commission and to apply to court to stop the trustees from removing her. It would have remained an internal matter had Harry not leaked a statement saying he was resigning and making accusations against SC. Which then prompted her to make her own statement on Friday in her defence. The questions she answered today about MM were just that - answered questions.

Clear her name for what? What wrongdoing has she been accused of? Can you set it out.

MayaKovskaya · 30/03/2025 18:42

Rhaidimiddim · 30/03/2025 18:40

There are two sides to this.
We should shut up and wait for a formal investigation.
Trial by media is not good.
Dr C is dodgy.

We should "shut up"?
Should those posting on here be silent, or silenced?

Serenster · 30/03/2025 18:42

From my understanding there are questions and investigations going on around the charity's funds management.

That’s the allegation made by “a source close to the patrons and trustees” to People magazine earlier this week (remember, Harry has form for emailing People directly - how handy!).

That source told the magazine that their decision to exit the charity was “based on Chandauka's handling of the charity’s finances” In response, a representative for Chandauka previously told People: "First and foremost, like much of the content circulated yesterday, a lot of information being shared is untrue and defamatory in nature."

The allegation of spending on consultants was also denied today by Ms Chandauka. So, like her allegations, that is currently unproven.

If this allegation is true, you would think the previous trustees would welcome an investigation by the Charity Commission, surely? Rather than trying to sack the individual who referred it to the regulator, and then themselves all resigning when that proved impossible?

At any rate, I presume any financial irregularities will be looked at in that investigation.

Bontonbonbon · 30/03/2025 18:42

I see the counter spin has already begun. It will
be interesting to watch the Sussex machine fall over itself to attack SC in the most hypocritical manner possible.

It’s not that they are fans of H&M, no of course not. It’s just they care so very deeply about the fairness of charity trusteeships (something they had not heard of before yesterday).

Sigh- there’s nothing like being in an online cult.

Onestopshop11 · 30/03/2025 18:42

LipglossAlly · 30/03/2025 18:29

I also find very weird that when being investigated for something as serious as mismanaging the funds of a charity catering to the most vulnerable of children, your first reaction would be to bring up the spouse of one of the founders and using the key buzzwords and adopt key talking points of the BM( deviation tactics maybe?)rather than clearing your name and providing a precise and detailed account of who/ where these funds were allocated to. Very interesting. The truth will eventually come out once a detailed investigation report is made public and shows how the aforementioned funds were managed or mismanaged

You are correct. The behaviour of the patron and his wife is not a matter for the Charity Commission. The affected person should have taken it to the Board of Tristees who would collectively decide whether to remove the patronage - by voting in accordance with the Trust voting arrangements.

jeffgoldblum · 30/03/2025 18:42

Words · 30/03/2025 18:40

@jeffgoldblum . Sorry I know thé accents are irritating! I havé a new iPad and as I write in French and English am finding it difficult to Switch between

Not irritating @Words! , I thought it looks very fancy, you could even say it elevated your post! 🤣
just wondering how you did it?

Vespanest · 30/03/2025 18:43

A Patron who is also the main fundraiser is always going to have influence on the organisation. It would be pretty obvious that losing the grounds, staff, security and connections of the royal family was going to hit the coffers of the charity. It's not rocket science to see Harry's falling out with them is pivotal in this episode. It can be seen in the loss of grace and favours earlier stated. The falling out required new income streams or more efforts of the fundraiser. The polo was completely overshadowed that if it hadn't been for the podium scenes it could have gone unnoticed as a senebale fundraiser. As for the resignation as proof of anything is flawed as scandal after scandal in the charity/aid sector shows.

IdaGlossop · 30/03/2025 18:43

JudgeJ · 30/03/2025 18:32

I dread to think what will happen to him when the penny finally drops. that all his problems with other people stem from his wife's behaviour and demands. If he is to survive the humiliation he will need the love and support of many of the people he's slagged off.

The penny may never drop.

Lunde · 30/03/2025 18:43

Rhaidimiddim · 30/03/2025 18:40

There are two sides to this.
We should shut up and wait for a formal investigation.
Trial by media is not good.
Dr C is dodgy.

Sorry are you on both sides of this argument as you seem to be arguing contradictory points compared to your post at 17.31🤔

LipglossAlly · 30/03/2025 18:45

As mentioned previously, the way the whole issue was managed is bizarre. A whole board including two founders resigning, accusations of mismanagement, giving incendiary interviews regarding one of the founders and his spouse.This is not the sort of publicity that I would want to attract for my charity especially when seeking further funding.

What is the endgame here?
Again I think the results of the investigation may bring more clarity to this whole shebang. If it comes out that she actually mismanaged these founds, then we know why she is trying to diverge the attention to the "toxic-Sussexes" talking points.

MayaKovskaya · 30/03/2025 18:46

jeffgoldblum · 30/03/2025 18:42

Not irritating @Words! , I thought it looks very fancy, you could even say it elevated your post! 🤣
just wondering how you did it?

Jeff, when you hold down the letter e for example, the different accents will appear!
Elevated 😂! Love it 🤣

RandyRedHumpback · 30/03/2025 18:46

Rhaidimiddim · 30/03/2025 18:37

Dictatorial

Angry! We are all angry women, apparently, on an angry thread!! Grrrrrrr!!!!!

mamaison · 30/03/2025 18:46

MayaKovskaya · 30/03/2025 18:42

We should "shut up"?
Should those posting on here be silent, or silenced?

The latter

Lunde · 30/03/2025 18:46

MayaKovskaya · 30/03/2025 18:42

We should "shut up"?
Should those posting on here be silent, or silenced?

Poster seems to be arguing with their own post at 17.31 - not sure what this means 🤔

IdaGlossop · 30/03/2025 18:46

Lunde · 30/03/2025 18:43

Sorry are you on both sides of this argument as you seem to be arguing contradictory points compared to your post at 17.31🤔

I'm not shutting up. There is no trail by media. Dr C is seeking out media opportunities. Understandably, people are talking about what she says.

LemonLeaves · 30/03/2025 18:47

I'm interested in the long-term publicity consequences. A PP (apologies, I have scrolled back but can't find the post so couldn't quote you) has already suggested that if this goes the right way for Sentebale then it could be very valuable publicity for attracting new donors and interest.

@GiveMeSpanakopita I'm very interested in the PR angle, if there is a positive opportunity for Sentebale?

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is not accepting new messages.
Swipe left for the next trending thread