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The royal family

Sentebale #2

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Words · 29/03/2025 12:59

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My2cents1975 · 30/03/2025 15:01

I am always surprised by how many people assume that NDAs can prevent information seeping into the public sphere.

Donald Trump, a sitting US President, had an NDA with Stormy Daniels, and yet we all know her name. If Trump could not silence Stormy, how on earth do H&M think they can rely on NDAs to permanently silence burnt out ex-staff.

TheSecondMrsCampbellBlack · 30/03/2025 15:10

glitterturd · 30/03/2025 13:16

Just watched the interview. The main points made were that a charity needs to evolve and not stay in the same place. It was set up at a time when AIDS was the overwhelming need. Now the charity's scope has extended to a much greater field. It was also explained why the charity was set up the way it was because of Harry's youth and inexperience and it hasn't moved on from then and needs to. The longevity of board members was addressed too as well as the low attendance of one of the others who criticised her 😬. The use of Netflix film crews was talked about and how it affected even the location of the polo event in Miami to its detriment. Then there is the request to issue the statement that Meghan wasn't being a mean girl. Basically the Sussexes since leaving the UK had had a negative effect on the charity's sponsors and image.

That interview is damning - SC seems intelligent, calm, credible and well prepared. I’d be surprised if she didn’t have evidence for all her claims. I bet she’s got witness statements, texts, WhatsApp messages, the lot.

TheSecondMrsCampbellBlack · 30/03/2025 15:15

BasiliskStare · 30/03/2025 13:59

In which case she has been very clever in referring to herself as a whistleblower.

I thought that too

IdaGlossop · 30/03/2025 15:19

BemusedAmerican · 30/03/2025 14:50

I just watched the interview. Thanks for the link from @AtIusvue and @RandyRedHumpback .

I thought Trevor Phillips was very tough with his questions and SC responded well. I'm hoping that this gets the actions of the Sussex Squad out to the general public.

Iain Rawlinson has a great financial background and experience with charities. To me, he came across as calm and well- informed.

https://www.themarque.com/profile/iain-rawlinson

Here in the US, we have the phrase "diarrhea of the mouth". I think that is Harry's problem. I'm wondering how happy the new PR person is right now.

I wouldn't worry about the new PR person. As one myself (now retired) I always say that you really earn your crust when things go wrong. The real problem for the PR person is the use of friends to leak and comment in their favour. It means you have an incomplete picture and that your client/employer isn't working with you in the best way.

Hwi · 30/03/2025 15:19

I think that the BRF are amazing! They allow their dearest children to marry all sorts of fortune hunters, starting from Prince Philip and ending with the Italian gigolo! They are kinder than my sink estate family, who would have shot down all those chancers on approach! Bravo, BRF!

SirHoglet · 30/03/2025 15:19

TheSecondMrsCampbellBlack · 30/03/2025 15:10

That interview is damning - SC seems intelligent, calm, credible and well prepared. I’d be surprised if she didn’t have evidence for all her claims. I bet she’s got witness statements, texts, WhatsApp messages, the lot.

Yes she strikes me as someone who always does her homework and then some. She will have all the evidence neatly organised and she knows what to do with it.

BreadInCaptivity · 30/03/2025 15:28

SirHoglet · 30/03/2025 15:19

Yes she strikes me as someone who always does her homework and then some. She will have all the evidence neatly organised and she knows what to do with it.

I’d be surprised if she wasn’t given her profession….

SoNotaRealHousewife · 30/03/2025 15:29

I have just watched that video for the first time, it’s excruciatingly embarrassing

Thedom · 30/03/2025 15:31

I think, if I remember correctly, she said she has the evidence of Harry trying to discredit her with their sponsors.

BasiliskStare · 30/03/2025 15:35

@Lunde Does anyone even remember who the main sponsor of Invictus last month was?

I promise I didn't google. Was it Boeing? If it was I am Basilisk and I claim my £5. 😂

PS I agreed with your post - sorry to trivialise it.

GiveMeSpanakopita · 30/03/2025 15:45

IdaGlossop · 30/03/2025 11:14

It has to be true because It's so specific and detailed.

I don't think specifics and details mean that we're getting the whole story, at all. I am sure Harry and his mates has a side to tell.

Chandauka is undoubtedly being selective to make her case BUT I would agree with you that the specificity is very likely to mean that the anecdotes she is picking are backed up by documentary evidence.

If Chandauka has email trails which show that big donors pulled out because of Harry's perceived toxicity, or which show that Harry tried to turn Sentebale into a commercial enterprise by involving Netflix, or which show that Meghan was able to attempt to interfere in the charity and bend it in the service of her PR machine...well, than Harry is cooked, basically, as far as charity patronage goes.

Cooked, piping hot and sprinkled with dead flowers. It's over, fella.

That would be very sad for him. But crucially it shows what a wise woman the Queen was, despite attempts by antimonarchists through the years to portray her as a brainless, emotionless cipher. She KNEW this shit wouldn't work.

This is why in my culture we're taught to have respect for our elders. Especially elder women. They KNOW shit.

MayaKovskaya · 30/03/2025 15:46

Hwi · 30/03/2025 15:19

I think that the BRF are amazing! They allow their dearest children to marry all sorts of fortune hunters, starting from Prince Philip and ending with the Italian gigolo! They are kinder than my sink estate family, who would have shot down all those chancers on approach! Bravo, BRF!

I think they allow people to marry who they choose.

MayaKovskaya · 30/03/2025 15:47

I think H and M need to stop using Invictus just to promote themselves. In particular, it needs to stop being the Meghan fashion show.
Also - African Parks really needs to be investigated, to deal with those very serious claims.

Onestopshop11 · 30/03/2025 15:47

jeffgoldblum · 30/03/2025 14:07

Did she @Thedom?
then she’s been very clever using the “ whistleblower “

as far as I know ndas are not enforceable against whistleblower’s!

Almost correct. The law was changed a while ago so that whistleblowing disclosures can be made even when an nda is in place. However it is not sufficient just to say you are a whistleblower and be exempt. There are tests which must be applied to the disclosure to establish if it meets the threshold for whistleblowing. So if you say you are whistleblowing and your disclosure falls short of the test you have breached the nda and action can be taken against you for the breach.

GiveMeSpanakopita · 30/03/2025 15:50

privatenonamegiven · 30/03/2025 13:03

I don't know enough about who the board of trustees but given Trevor Philips known relationship with Dr Sophie Chandauka perhaps we should be questioning the impartiality of that interview.

The focus seems to be on Harry and Megan, as they're easy targets - perhaps the whole system needs questioning if what you're alleging is true about putting 'mates' in position of power etc.

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The focus is rightly on Harry and Meghan because the specific on record allegations that Chandauka is claiming are:

  1. Donors were put off by H&M's perceived toxicity;
  2. Harry attempting to blend his charitable work with his commercial enterprises by bringing a Netflix crew to a Sentebale event, which lost them the venue (there are very strict rules for how the media covers charitable fundraising events even down to the type of adverts which are allowed if something's being shown on a commercial channel. There's a number of women on this thread very knowledgeable about UK charity law who I'm sure would explain why mixing charity with business is dodgy from a regulatory perspective);
  3. Meghan attempted to force Chandauka to do PR work for Meghan.

These are serious allegations that need answering.

I would also add that Harry's fightback thus far has been poor. Getting your octogenarian Tory peer mate to jump on the phone with The Times and case personal slurs about Sophie Chandauka was not a great look, which is why it landed so badly.

His team are going to have to work harder and come up with a proper narrative to seize back control of the narrative.

Weepixie · 30/03/2025 15:52

PippistrelleBat · 30/03/2025 13:46

A spread has no legally required amount of fruit or sugar unlike jam. It could contain very minimal fruit. Apple, or grape, juice is still sugar (fructose) but would mean it couldn’t be called jam as in America jams apparently have to be single fruit. But in that case ‘compote’ would sound better. If very high fruit content then that would be a fruit cheese or butter. But then again, I am not American and perhaps ‘spread’ reads better there.

https://www.mvfarmmarket.com/blogs/news/16861488-whats-the-difference-between-jams-jellies-preserves-spreads-and-butters

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Serenster · 30/03/2025 15:54

Onestopshop11 · 30/03/2025 15:47

Almost correct. The law was changed a while ago so that whistleblowing disclosures can be made even when an nda is in place. However it is not sufficient just to say you are a whistleblower and be exempt. There are tests which must be applied to the disclosure to establish if it meets the threshold for whistleblowing. So if you say you are whistleblowing and your disclosure falls short of the test you have breached the nda and action can be taken against you for the breach.

That is true, but enforcing the NDA here would be an empty threat, since it would presumably be the previous board of Sentabale who would want to do so. But they have all resigned, so no longer have any standing to act on behalf of Sentabale to try and enforce obligations owed to the charity. The new Board presumably are happy to back Ms Chandauka.

Also, it would be an empty threat any way. The very last thing the previous Board would presumably want is a public court hearing with Ms Chandauka able to present whatever evidence she has and cross-examine Prince Harry and everyone else to establish whether or not the issues that concerned her were serious enough to make her a whistleblower. I imagine Ms Chandauka would say “Bring it on” to that kind of proposal!

So even is she was subject to an NDA, I don’t think anything will now happen in relation to it.

BemusedAmerican · 30/03/2025 15:54

Hwi · 30/03/2025 15:19

I think that the BRF are amazing! They allow their dearest children to marry all sorts of fortune hunters, starting from Prince Philip and ending with the Italian gigolo! They are kinder than my sink estate family, who would have shot down all those chancers on approach! Bravo, BRF!

Just because someone is Italian doesn't mean that they are a gigolo. I thought that stereotype went out last century with Henry James. If you are referring to Beatrice's husband, he seems like a nice guy and a good father.

Prince Philip, although somewhat controversial, was an extremely intelligent guy and devoted to the monarchy. He did very effective charity work.

Unfortunately no one in the RF has the ability to gaze into a crystal ball and select the perfect mate.

SirHoglet · 30/03/2025 15:57

Cooked, piping hot and sprinkled with dead flowers. It's over, fella.
😂
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Xenia · 30/03/2025 16:01

(and Prince Philip was a Greek Prince - it was his son who broke with tradition in marrying Lady Diana Spencer who was not European Royalty)

IdaGlossop · 30/03/2025 16:05

Puzzledandpissedoff · 30/03/2025 14:26

While I do not agree with the Sussex Squad accusation that Rawlinson is a Prince William plant, I do wonder if he got involved through loyalty to PW and the wider Royal family in order to limit the damage, and will be quietly updating them behind the scenes. There are three options. The charity can be saved, it can be re-estalished, or it will have to be shut down. It is doing good work and I hope it can be saved. Yet again, the combination of dim, entitled, besotted Harry and greedy, self-obsessed Meghan proves disastrous for Harry

Very much with you on that, @IdaGlossop, and yes it's realistic that Rawlison may well feed back to the RF, which would doubtless drive Harry frantic

However when a perfectly good cause is being compromised like this there's a case for wiser, steadier heads being brought in to stablise things, and if that involves noses being put of of joint I'd say it's worth it for the sake of the beneficiaries

If Dr C approached Rawlinson to become a trustee, it was a sharp move on her part. Presumably, as the only person left as a trustee, she could appoint him unilaterally.

TemuRoyal · 30/03/2025 16:05

I wonder if they’re having roast goose for a tasty tea tonight.

MayaKovskaya · 30/03/2025 16:10

TemuRoyal · 30/03/2025 16:05

I wonder if they’re having roast goose for a tasty tea tonight.

Very good 🪿

Weepixie · 30/03/2025 16:10

Prince Phillip was also a decorated war hero.

Hwi · 30/03/2025 16:12

BemusedAmerican · 30/03/2025 15:54

Just because someone is Italian doesn't mean that they are a gigolo. I thought that stereotype went out last century with Henry James. If you are referring to Beatrice's husband, he seems like a nice guy and a good father.

Prince Philip, although somewhat controversial, was an extremely intelligent guy and devoted to the monarchy. He did very effective charity work.

Unfortunately no one in the RF has the ability to gaze into a crystal ball and select the perfect mate.

Yes, you are right, the word gigolo is outdated and it went out with the popularity of H.James, yet this fortune-hunting behaviour remains prevalent among social alpinists (including wisteria sisters - with only one prize slipping the hook) that married into the BRF. So what Prince Philip was intelligent - do you think there were no intelligent and SOLVENT royal princes in Europe for HM to marry? Her equals, I mean, not penniless refugees (like Prince Philip) who would never forgive her higher status and would forever punish her with affairs? As for the Italian gigolo - I don't even have the right word for him - what do you call a man who abandons his 'partner' and their young child and runs after a royal princess to better his status?

You are right, nobody owns a crystal ball and can predict the future, but surely one of the most basic rules is to marry your equal (intellectually, financially, socially, religiously) to avoid the inevitable thoughts of 'ah, she/he married up/down, for money/status/whatever'. Unequal alliances never end well, even if they are tolerated for decades - why do you think Prince Philip's will will be kept top secret for 100 years to protect the dignity of the Queen (official wording)?

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