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When will pointless King abdicate

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IhateHPSDeaneCnt · 14/01/2025 07:15

in favour of another bastion of the Monarchy? Loathe them all but assume it will take another generation to allow them to bow out in some sort of graceful manner - and hang onto loads of Titles, Land, Jewels, money etc. How has someone given the title of 'Queen Consort' i.e ex Mistress is now referred to as Queen and bestowed privileges e.g being allowed to allocate Royal Warrants? Don't know how she's got the gall to wear jewellery that previously adorned previous incumbent let alone the late Queen. Luckily, she does bugger all but retire to the home settled in the Divorce, smoke fags, drink Gin and Dubonnet (smells just like Granny!) and ensures stock of fully functioning Mont Blanc Fountain Pens are to hand - ready to be despatched to King at the faintest sign of a tremulous lip.

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wordler · 17/01/2025 14:15

Kneejerkreaction778 · 17/01/2025 13:16

You probably have much greater knowledge about these things than I do, but I find it hard to believe that, if Charles had insisted that he wanted to be crowned in a radically different way, that public servants wouldn’t rush around to accommodate his vision. With obvious restrictions relating to security and visiting dignitaries.

As has been previously mentioned on these boards; Charles became Prince of Wales during a made-up ceremony in Caernarfon Cathedral. Yet for William, nothing was done!

Surely that shows that there is a certain degree of flexibility when it comes to royal ceremonies!

We saw it during Covid too! Everyone adapted perfectly well to a pared down approach.

I’m sure if Charles had pushed for a simpler version he probably would have been accommodated but equally he didn’t force the government to spend the budget they did. The people we elected to make these decisions on our behalf agreed to it.

Kneejerkreaction778 · 17/01/2025 14:27

smilesy · 17/01/2025 13:47

So if everything in the UK was rosy, would a monarchy be ok by that logic?
Also, I think most people are capable of being able to distinguish between traditions that they may enjoy and want to keep and the fact that the country may be being badly run. I don’t think a change to the head of state we currently have would change that situation at all. It really is bollocks to suggest that the population are in thrall to the monarchy

Let’s say I think that if everything in the uk was rosy, a monarchy would be less of an anachronism.

I think a huge problem arises when there is so much of a gap between the very top echelons of society and the very bottom, that it is bordering on the obscene.

I understand that many people don’t see the monarchy as part of the problem; as just a harmless, powerless institution that is symbolic and formalistic.

However, increasingly, it is becoming apparent that the Monarchy has more influence and ties to government than first thought eg they are forewarned of any legislation potentially affecting their finances and the King runs a commercial company but at the same time has special tax privileges.

So are they purely symbolic or not?

Kneejerkreaction778 · 17/01/2025 14:33

wordler · 17/01/2025 14:15

I’m sure if Charles had pushed for a simpler version he probably would have been accommodated but equally he didn’t force the government to spend the budget they did. The people we elected to make these decisions on our behalf agreed to it.

Yes, agreed. Poor governance is part of the issue.

Wouldn’t it have been nice if our MPs had consulted us!

The decisions are made on our behalf for sure. As is the fundamental question whether we want a Monarchy or not.

Personally, I think it will be time, following seventy years of QE2´s reign and perhaps 20 years of Charles’s reign, to ask the people!

A lot changes in almost one century!

BigWillyLittleTodger · 17/01/2025 14:36

Kneejerkreaction778 · 17/01/2025 13:40

Obviously yes. But you missed my follow up points about the monarchy being a distraction from the realities of life in the UK atm, And how such a show of immense wealth at the Coronation was therefore out of step.

And about the establishment holding us back as a country rather than serving its people. About how always looking backwards to tradition sometimes prevents us from moving forward?

I am saying that when we Brits constantly look to the monarchy and all of that privilege at the heart of the establishment and are encouraged to view that as a good thing; it’s skews our perspective when it comes to the values that really matter.

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Reading your posts makes your utopia sound utterly miserable, a vast sea of grey in a grey country, and as for the European royals being the torch bearers for modern royalty you clearly don’t watch them much, their extensive collections of massive tiaras and crowns are on their heads and every available opportunity, I’m pretty sure Max would wear one shopping if she could!

WatchOutMissMarpleIsAbout · 17/01/2025 14:51

The European royals seem to have more dress up events I think. Well from my lurking on the S&B threads!

Kneejerkreaction778 · 17/01/2025 14:51

BigWillyLittleTodger · 17/01/2025 14:36

Reading your posts makes your utopia sound utterly miserable, a vast sea of grey in a grey country, and as for the European royals being the torch bearers for modern royalty you clearly don’t watch them much, their extensive collections of massive tiaras and crowns are on their heads and every available opportunity, I’m pretty sure Max would wear one shopping if she could!

Admittedly I don’t watch Royalty much in any country!

I disagree about the grey-ness though! The UK has a fantastically rich heritage aside from its monarchy. It has arguably some of the most beautiful natural geographical landscapes contained within in its shores.
The most beautiful stately homes. Incredible museums. Amazing heritage sites which preserve ancient agricultural practices and trades. Medieval monasteries and guilds. Some of the best 10th and 11th century cathedrals in the world! Roman and Anglo-Saxon ruins! Etc.

None of that could be described as grey and boring surely?

Our forces maintain proud traditions too (some may argue they are inextricably linked to monarchy but times change and every soldier I have met who has served says they fight for their comrades and families and freedom of speech rather than their monarch).

Virtually every town, city, and village in the country has some interesting historical artefact or tradition or foodstuff.

When you think of our wealth of architecture too, it’s about as far from grey as you can get.

Edited to say: what we are lacking is a vision for the future.

Serenster · 17/01/2025 14:58

The most beautiful stately homes … Medieval monasteries and guilds. Some of the best 10th and 11th century cathedrals in the world!

I genuinely don’t see how you can class these as national treasures but completely dismiss one example among the many of them that still exists and even thrive in the modern age?

Kneejerkreaction778 · 17/01/2025 15:05

Serenster · 17/01/2025 14:58

The most beautiful stately homes … Medieval monasteries and guilds. Some of the best 10th and 11th century cathedrals in the world!

I genuinely don’t see how you can class these as national treasures but completely dismiss one example among the many of them that still exists and even thrive in the modern age?

That’s a very good point Serenster.

It’s not so much dismissing the monarchy as asking whether or not it should form part of the UK’s future? And if so, why?

BigWillyLittleTodger · 17/01/2025 15:07

I wasn’t talking about what our country has to offer, I am talking about national events that bring the country together and show our heritage and history off to the world. 4.1 billion people watched the Queen’s funeral worldwide for example but I’m sure you knew what I was referring to.

Costcolover · 17/01/2025 15:07

Catandsquirrel · 14/01/2025 07:29

Ok you're trying to be funny but the thread title is pretty awful when someone has been trying to work through cancer treatment at his age. Not a monarchist.

And I'd say most kings have had mistresses. It's nothing unusual.

Doesn't make it right though! There's plenty of people who still dislike C & C for what they did to Diana and that's their prerogative.

Kneejerkreaction778 · 17/01/2025 15:08

And I guess why we are not treating our dcs’ futures with as much reverence and care as the past?

BigWillyLittleTodger · 17/01/2025 15:10

WatchOutMissMarpleIsAbout · 17/01/2025 14:51

The European royals seem to have more dress up events I think. Well from my lurking on the S&B threads!

They do don’t they! Some of their tiaras are incredible and they wear so many different ones as well, they aren’t afraid of opening the vaults and showing them off, unlike us, if I see the lovers knot tiara one more time…….and don’t get me started on Sophie’s monstrosity!

Kneejerkreaction778 · 17/01/2025 15:16

BigWillyLittleTodger · 17/01/2025 15:07

I wasn’t talking about what our country has to offer, I am talking about national events that bring the country together and show our heritage and history off to the world. 4.1 billion people watched the Queen’s funeral worldwide for example but I’m sure you knew what I was referring to.

Agreed. I have to go out now so forgive brief answer (if your comment was directed at me)
but I was pointing out the dissonance in a country that makes a great display of wealth publically, while the actual functioning of that country is not going so well for many of its ordinary citizens? Where wealth and health outcomes are declining for so many?

As a Republican, I genuinely can’t comment on whether the monarchy is a unifying institution in our countries or not? It doesn’t seem to be so on Mumsnet (joke 😀) but the majority are in favour currently.

There is certainly an argument for historical continuity.

smilesy · 17/01/2025 15:21

Kneejerkreaction778 · 17/01/2025 15:16

Agreed. I have to go out now so forgive brief answer (if your comment was directed at me)
but I was pointing out the dissonance in a country that makes a great display of wealth publically, while the actual functioning of that country is not going so well for many of its ordinary citizens? Where wealth and health outcomes are declining for so many?

As a Republican, I genuinely can’t comment on whether the monarchy is a unifying institution in our countries or not? It doesn’t seem to be so on Mumsnet (joke 😀) but the majority are in favour currently.

There is certainly an argument for historical continuity.

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I’m pretty certain that this country is not alone in having ostentatious displays of wealth by some when the country itself is not thriving 🤷‍♀️

wigsonthegreenandhatsforthelifting · 18/01/2025 18:15

HoolieJem · 17/01/2025 09:24

Point is she is in a position she does not deserve to be in. It's laughable and making a mockery of our wonderful Queen Elizabeth. If Charles wanted to marry her so badly, instead of throwing his toys out of the pram they should have copied his uncle and Mrs Simpson and left. How anyone backs them or takes them seriously after their behaviour is beyond me. It's not even the true love (allegedly) aspect, it's their - especially Camilla's - treatment and manipulation of Diana behind the scenes. Added to the fact she's never done a day's work in her life. It will be a good day when we don't have to look at her evil face anymore. All the hatred that goes on to Meghan and Harry is so terribly displaced. Even the late Queen called Charles 'insufferable'. Just a man child with a big old heavy crown on his head.

Have you never been irritated by your child and said something like that??

"Our wonderful Queen" gave her permission to her son to marry Camilla. As head of the church she did not attend the ceremony but she and Philip went to the rest of the celebration. Not that long before she died she stated that it was her wish for Camilla to be queen consort so I think we can be pretty secure in the assumption that both the king and queen had the approval of the late Queen, in contrast to your horrid rant.

Camilla has worked hard to get herself into the respected position she is now as she was much hated and criticised. Most people have moved on from 30/40 years ago. Nobody is 'without sin'. Maybe you should educate yourself and join the rest of us in the 21st century.

I don't know how you assess her as "evil". Your post comes across as very ignorant and ill-informed.

wigsonthegreenandhatsforthelifting · 18/01/2025 18:19

HoolieJem · 17/01/2025 09:39

I do agree with you and I'm glad you see sense. I don't think any of them do. I think the one exception was Queen Elizabeth who at the age of 25 was left without a choice really. And she actually WORKED for it. And she was exceptional. I don't think Wills and Kate deserve it per say, but I do think they will be a hell of a lot more approachable, loving and hopefully giving due to their age - although how long Chuck hangs in for may mean they are much older too by the time they get there. The whole thing is ridiculous considering the struggle that most people go through - the disproportion of wealth when some are starving is the height of unfairness and anyone who can't see that in this day and age, I just despair really. Charles has 7 homes - some don't have any. But of course when you are in THAT position you aren't going to think it's your responsibility. Both Charles and Kate have been given cancer treatment while others progress through the stages and are dying. But yay! What wonderful people!

My main issue with Camilla not deserving it is how she came to get it. She is a deceitful, nasty, manipulative adulteress. She was at least 20 years older than Princess Diana when she 'befriended' her to stay close to Charles. Regardless of her behaviour or his, they should have just quietly disappeared but no they wanted it all. Charles is well documented as being a spoilt man child, sitting dictating to others, including putting the shine on his own brother (who is admittedly charged with sex offences) but painting himself to be this great humanitarian.

I'm not some huge Diana fan but the two of them did destroy her, and how William and Harry have lived with that, seeing Camilla pose in pics with their kids as if she's their grandmother, and living a life of privilege when she has done nothing her entire life but cheat, manipulate, lie and take - how is she taken seriously as a queen consort? The rules were bent to allow them to marry to shut Charles up, also well documented. She's an absolute joke, and has made a mockery of the RF, but it's ok because the haters have Meghan to hate when that girl has done nothing but remove the man she loves away from them, including taking her kids away from a suspected paedophile. How anyone can take Charles, but especially Camilla, seriously as any sort of great representation for the UK is beyond me. They are a perfect example of appalling behaviour being rewarded. I could vomit looking at either one of them.

What a pile of rubbish.

Maybe if you are consumed so much by visceral hatred you should avoid any reference or pictures of the RF?

By your reckoning, I don't know why you think the late Queen was worthy and her son and heir is not. Literally both born to the role. Listen to yourself!

wigsonthegreenandhatsforthelifting · 18/01/2025 18:24

BustingBaoBun · 17/01/2025 11:55

Not sure I want to be servile to this display of ostentatiousness, but fine if you do

p.s. new golden carriage shipped in from Oz. I know I know someone built it for free, still had to be shipped

Maybe you were being "servile" in spite of yourself. I know I wasn't.

If you want a display of ostentation have you ever been to the Vatican?

I love all the traditional pomp and circumstance. Nobody does it as well as the UK does.

They bring money into the economy.

wigsonthegreenandhatsforthelifting · 18/01/2025 18:35

Kneejerkreaction778 · 17/01/2025 12:22

I thought it was established that the tourism industry did not depend on having a living monarch; as France’s tourism figures testify?

Also, I think I remember Spain and Belgium, where both of the Kings abdicated, having a modest church service. I saw them on the news. A solemn handshake did the trick and it was modest but dignified. And I wouldn’t have objected so much to a pared down ceremony.

If Charle’s coronation ceremony was meant to
represent our standing in the world, then I think it very much missed the spot because I was abroad at the time and many people’s reaction to it, albeit politely said was, “a little too much”.

Also, all of the soft power objectives had already been achieved by the funeral of the late Queen, especially when you think of all the world leaders who attended.

Imho the Coronation was a step too far and felt to me anyway as though the powers that be were out of touch and not reading the room,

A monarch is nothing without subjects surely? They have to be in touch with what is going on in the land? Or what is the point?

I felt that a massive show of gold coaches and jewel encrusted crowns was so inappropriate in a country where people are having to wait a fortnight to see the doctor, where it’s virtually impossible to see a dentist, and where elderly people are treated in hospital corridors!

This is just my personal opinion, yes, but it feels like the wrong things are being honoured, and as a collection of countries, we don’t have our priorities straight.

Also that these decisions are made on our behalf from above, without any consultation, as if we are children being told what is good for us!

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Do you really think that money would have been allocated to public services?

By that logic, there should be an extra £72m available every year there's not a coronation?

wigsonthegreenandhatsforthelifting · 18/01/2025 18:38

BustingBaoBun · 17/01/2025 12:41

But it is a big deal for many millions around the world

I hardly think so. They have a nosy at footage if it's easy to find. It's just looking at specimens in a cage from curiosity. No more no less

@Kneejerkreaction778 great post. So agree

Oh come off it! Just because you don't like them!

wigsonthegreenandhatsforthelifting · 18/01/2025 18:42

WinnieTheW0rm · 17/01/2025 13:00

So we get a double event every now and again, rather than an inauguration (costing about $100m each time) every 4 years.

There were only 4 in the 20th century - so for every reign over about 8 years, it’s probably saving us money

Of course that depends on which international comparison you choose. UK is a P5 country and despite how we are feeling is in the top 10 of most lists of the richest countries

Excellent point - I don't see anyone throwing shade at those!

Uricon2 · 18/01/2025 18:43

I liked Diana and think she was a quite remarkable person who had much more to give, tragically cut short.

However, the sort of hyperbole that describes Camilla as "evil" is beyond bonkers. Not understanding that becoming Queen (Consort or Regnant) is purely based on who you marry/are born to simply shows a severe lack of informedness. It isn't some sort of popularity contest or based on being arbitarily attractive enough or deemed somehow "worthy" by the public vote. It isn't Love Island.

wigsonthegreenandhatsforthelifting · 18/01/2025 18:45

Kneejerkreaction778 · 17/01/2025 13:16

You probably have much greater knowledge about these things than I do, but I find it hard to believe that, if Charles had insisted that he wanted to be crowned in a radically different way, that public servants wouldn’t rush around to accommodate his vision. With obvious restrictions relating to security and visiting dignitaries.

As has been previously mentioned on these boards; Charles became Prince of Wales during a made-up ceremony in Caernarfon Cathedral. Yet for William, nothing was done!

Surely that shows that there is a certain degree of flexibility when it comes to royal ceremonies!

We saw it during Covid too! Everyone adapted perfectly well to a pared down approach.

They can't win can they! Damned if they do and damned if they don't!

William didn't want a ceremony. Can you imagine the yapping there would be if he had??

wigsonthegreenandhatsforthelifting · 18/01/2025 18:52

Costcolover · 17/01/2025 15:07

Doesn't make it right though! There's plenty of people who still dislike C & C for what they did to Diana and that's their prerogative.

Pretty sad to hold a grudge for upwards of 40 years!

upinaballoon · 18/01/2025 19:21

BustingBaoBun · 17/01/2025 11:55

Not sure I want to be servile to this display of ostentatiousness, but fine if you do

p.s. new golden carriage shipped in from Oz. I know I know someone built it for free, still had to be shipped

Did YOU pay for the carriage to be shipped over?

upinaballoon · 18/01/2025 19:30

At the 2023 coronation am I right in thinking that the King used two coaches?

I think one was the big golden coach, which has been around for a long time and has pictures painted on the sides, and is said to be uncomfortable. Is it made of wood or metal? Is it painted gold or is gold leaf put on to it?

Now, was the other coach which was used, one which was made in Australia and given to HMQE2 some years ago? I do think that a coach was being built in Oz by the team of Mr. Frecklington, or a name a bit like that, in 2023, but I don't know if it's completed or came here yet.