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Beafyudders · 16/06/2024 20:15

I confess I might be a teeny tiny bit obsessed. Not with H&M but those who wail about hating and obsessions all the time.

As Janey Katz said, it is clinically fascinating.

Knowing me, Beafyudders
Knowing you, TandleHill squaddies

A-ha.

BlueParrotRedParrot · 16/06/2024 20:19

TheFirmBiscuit · 16/06/2024 19:16

Happy anniversary too @AliceOlive !

As Mike Yarwood would say at the end of his imitation show "this is me" - I bustard myself and was robin the board of essential truths and I would appreciate if you could stop mockingbird me. Anyway enough of these larks there will be no more fowl play from me !

Lucky you. Sock puppeting is usually an automatic ban. Clearly MN has one rule for some.

BlueParrotRedParrot · 16/06/2024 20:21

doublec · 16/06/2024 19:43

Kudos to Catherine to wearing heels - I'm three months post-chemo and still struggling with peripheral neuropathy and super-dry/cracked feet, so wearing anything higher than a kitten heel is a nightmare for me. Some days, wearing shoes full stop is still painful.

I thought she looks marvellous all things considered. The white was a brilliant choice, a colour I wore a lot during chemo and still wear now as it draws a lot of light to the face and make's one looked refreshed. I looked pretty good (all things considering) during my chemo regime, something that prompted quite a lot of my friends and acquaintances to be incredibly surprised I did not look like the walking dead. Not everyone looks awful all the time during treatment. Like me, Catherine has age on her side. Also, and as she said, she has good days and bad days. This is so true. Only a handful of people close to me saw me at my worst, usually when I had collapsed on the bathroom floor due to nausea or didn't have the energy to get out of bed. In order to have a good day, I knew which point of my chemo cycle this was most likely to occur. I used to rest as much as possible, particularly if I knew I had to go somewhere so that way, I had as much strength as possible and could deal with 'performing' for wont of a better word for a few hours. I would then spend the next few days recovering.

Unlike PoW, I do not wear make-up. I also lost my hair and eyebrows. (I had breast cancer which has uses some of the hardest chemo drugs, I didn't cold cap either). I ditched my contact lenses and wore glasses because they hid my lack of eyebrows. (I had not wanted to pencil them on or even have them micro bladed). I did notice her brows were really heavy, which makes me wonder if they have thinned out a little. However, and that said, Catherine has always preferred a heavier brown anyway.

For me, anyone who has been through chemo is someone I now admire and wholeheartedly respect. Chemo is tough, full stop. To do so in the public eye, under the the scrutiny of the world, and press, wow. I think Catherine is pretty damn magnificent.

Thank you @doublec and best wishes for you. I think you are pretty damn magnificent too. 💐

Serenster · 16/06/2024 20:22

doublec · 16/06/2024 19:51

I must ask, have you had cancer? Have you had chemotherapy? Because if you have, you might not be questioning this. Also, are you someone who is photographed, not to mention judged on her appearance every time they leave the house? I don't think so because of you were, you would not be questioning this.

For me, when I was going through chemo, whenever I had to leave the house, I made sure I was wearing something nice. It made me feel so much better about myself. Yes, I might have felt like utter shit, but I was wearing an outfit I liked and felt good in. (Something that at times was a miracle given I lost all my hair and hated wearing a wig/scarf). For much of the past eleven months, since my cancer diagnosis, I have felt not at home in my own body, or self. Taking care of my appearance went a little way to feeling like myself again. Often, when I was on the chemo floor, other patients, usually women, would come and chat to me and tell me how much they loved that I hadn't given up/always wore something nice.

Also wishing you the best, doublec

I have worked in the past with the cancer charity Look Good Feel Better, which does what is says on the tin - helps people dealing with a cancer diagnosis figure out ways of feeling good about themselves while they deal with the physical and mental impacts of their journey. It’s such a valuable service, because feeing like themselves really matters for people in this situation, as you so powerfully expressed.

https://lookgoodfeelbetter.co.uk/about-us/

About Us - Look Good Feel Better

Look Good Feel Better is a National Cancer Charity. We know how challenging it can be to process a cancer diagnosis and manage the physical and emotional side-effects of cancer treatment. This is why we run free workshops both virtually and at Cancer C...

https://lookgoodfeelbetter.co.uk/about-us/

doublec · 16/06/2024 20:22

Thank you 💕❤️ @MummyJ12@jeffgoldblum@StormzyinaTCup@Beafyudders@BlueParrotRedParrot @Serenster

Beafyudders · 16/06/2024 20:23

BlueParrotRedParrot · 16/06/2024 20:21

Thank you @doublec and best wishes for you. I think you are pretty damn magnificent too. 💐

Seconded.

BigWillyLittleTodger · 16/06/2024 20:30

Wishing you the very best in your recovery @doublec 💐

StormzyinaTCup · 16/06/2024 20:31

BlueParrotRedParrot · 16/06/2024 20:19

Lucky you. Sock puppeting is usually an automatic ban. Clearly MN has one rule for some.

Agree @BlueParrotRedParrot

and if MN are going to apply the rules in this fashion they could at least be a bit more subtle about it. It’s pretty bloomin obvious😁

CremeFresh · 16/06/2024 20:37

I hope you keep well @doublec 💐

@TheFirmBiscuit why did you do it ?

AliceOlive · 16/06/2024 20:37

@doublec Wishing you more good days and fewer not so good ones. 💐

smilesy · 16/06/2024 20:39

Beafyudders · 16/06/2024 20:23

Seconded.

Thirded 💐💐

RedRosesPinkLilies · 16/06/2024 20:46

Also had chemo- and did lose my hair - for ovarian cancer. I bet Catherine knows exactly how she’s going to feel at which point in the chemo cycle - and if she can appear well.
She did look even thinner and more fragile.

I wonder if she has peripheral neuropathy in her feet- she was stepping carefully getting out of the carriage.

Absolute kudos to her - she ignores the critics and does her job/ is there for her children. I hope she has a good prognosis.

Any critics should be ashamed. But I have personal experience of people being horrible to me, and it doesn’t actually change when you have cancer.

Beafyudders · 16/06/2024 21:06
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I am so sorry to hear that @RedRosesPinkLilies

Truly.

I hope life is a little brighter these days for you.

RedRosesPinkLilies · 16/06/2024 21:24

@Beafyudders it isn’t exactly- but hopefully a new medicine is working. Last one wasn’t working - and the cancer was growing.

Any diagnosis of cancer is so scary for people. Anyone being mean about the PoW needs to take a long hard look at themselves

Beafyudders · 16/06/2024 21:34

I’ve no words of comfort that will do ye any good or make ye feel better. I have yet to walk in your shoes - though many in my family have. As they have said to me ‘it isnae a fair fecht - it is a sair fecht’ but ye glory on’.

I just hope this bugger (new med) works for you.

BlueParrotRedParrot · 16/06/2024 21:41

💐for you @RedRosesPinkLilies . I hope you have some good people around you too who treat you well and look after you. Take care, and I sincerely hope there will be brighter days ahead very soon x

RedRosesPinkLilies · 16/06/2024 22:06

Thank you @Beafyudders and @BlueParrotRedParrot xx

twinklystar23 · 16/06/2024 22:45

I attended TOC yesterday.
Catherine would have needed to adhere to the dress code partly being heels for women, lounge dress code. So I would think she was either able to cope, otherwise she would likely have not attended as she would have been torn to shreds by the likes of some had she not adhered to the dress code that everyone else had been expected to.
I know some people "aren't interested in the soldiers" whilst that's your prerogative there are many soldiers (my own sons) who are driven by the sense of a form of public duty, ironically to protect the likes of gobshites who do little else than contribute to immature put downs. Rather than a mature reasoned points of anti monarchy views.
My own views are such that I struggle to some degree with a constitutional monarchy. However after the shit show of governments we've had on the past years and the impact on our country I can't help but feel some admiration for the senior royals.

MyQuaintDog · 16/06/2024 23:33

I am sure they would have made an exception for her if it had been necessary.

JamieFraserSporran · 16/06/2024 23:50

Oh my what revelations - you don't need an eagle eye on here to see it's been a bit of a hen party today.

A parody of a name is quite different from deliberately being a stool pigeon.

As Jeff Goldblum said in Independence Day " Oops"

Catherine to attend event tomorrow
Iwantmyoldnameback · 17/06/2024 06:15

Who would have been upset or even commented on Catherine's footwear? I know the late Queen had strict (and very old fashioned) rules on what people could and couldn't wear but I can't imagine Camilla being bothered. There's a reason a lot of working Royals are dressing better these days, Sophie in particular.

CremeFresh · 17/06/2024 06:34

Who would have been upset or even commented on Catherine's footwear
Plenty of people would have ripped her to pieces if she'd worn flats or even a low heel- have you seen the vile comments on Twitter, there's people on there stating that because she looks well, she hasn't had cancer, she's apparently got a scar on her eye as a result of dv , that she's had a facelift etc

upinaballoon · 17/06/2024 07:25

RedRosesPinkLilies · 16/06/2024 20:46

Also had chemo- and did lose my hair - for ovarian cancer. I bet Catherine knows exactly how she’s going to feel at which point in the chemo cycle - and if she can appear well.
She did look even thinner and more fragile.

I wonder if she has peripheral neuropathy in her feet- she was stepping carefully getting out of the carriage.

Absolute kudos to her - she ignores the critics and does her job/ is there for her children. I hope she has a good prognosis.

Any critics should be ashamed. But I have personal experience of people being horrible to me, and it doesn’t actually change when you have cancer.

Yes, I thought she looked a tiny bit thinner even, but that's not to be wondered at.
I know people who've had chemo and as I understand it, you feel worse when you've just had a treatment so she probably has a fair idea of which engagements, this summer, might be going to be ok for her.

I have seen Sophie and Anne wear smart flat shoes. Diana was tall and she usually wore low heels.

RedRosesPinkLilies · 17/06/2024 08:07

The neuropathy I have got much worse with the last treatment- so it’s entirely possible her feet are ok ish in high heels. Maybe she’ll change her mind about that in the future and wear wedges again.

Maybe Catherine is trying to maintain a sense of normality - for herself/ her family. With cancer you do sometimes put on a face, at least I do, because endless sympathy can be hard. It maybe just emphasises the negativity of the situation.

I dressed up really well for my nephews wedding - mid-chemo treatments and not long after surgery. New dress (flowing to hide the abdomen), beautiful long head scarf. Everyone thought I looked amazing, but didn’t see the days I spent lying in bed sleeping after chemo treatments, and the nights I spend crying with my sore feet. When neuropathy feet get cold in bed they get incredibly painful.

I actually had forgotten some of that.

So honestly- we should stop over analysing the PoW. I think she’s doing what many people with cancer do - her best to maintain a sense of normality and not give in to the stress/ sadness of having the disease.

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