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I feel really sorry for William

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ssd · 27/03/2024 11:04

I'm not usually a fan , but I've been thinking about William. He must be absolutely reeling. His dad and his wife both have cancer. He doesn't talk to his brother and his mum died when he was young. I can't imagine the turmoil he is in, i hope he has good friends around him.

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abracadabra1980 · 27/03/2024 22:30

No monarchy fan here either but this was the first thing I thought about when it was announced. It's like a quadruple whammy of the worst luck anyone could have in their lives. It's just so sad.

Ineedaweewee · 27/03/2024 22:55

abracadabra1980 · 27/03/2024 22:30

No monarchy fan here either but this was the first thing I thought about when it was announced. It's like a quadruple whammy of the worst luck anyone could have in their lives. It's just so sad.

Agree..shit happens to families regardless of money. It is still the same stomach churning fear for Catherine and William as it is for most other people ,but not in front of the whole world!!

Needanewname42 · 27/03/2024 23:05

I agree it must be a tough pair of shoes to be standing in all of it. Both his Dad and Kate being ill and the fallout with Harry. Even his Auntie Sarah is ill. How much can the poor guy take?

It must be preying on his mind that his Gran ended up on the throne with a young family to care for. But she at least had the tower of strenght that was Philip, her Mother and Sister by her side.

I've often thought Charles' vision of a slimmed down monarchy could be a bit cut to the bone without Harry. While Ed and Sophie are relatively young in their 60s. The other working Royals Anne and Camilla are both in their 70s.

I've thought before William might need official support from some of his cousins. I just can't see how He Sophie and Ed can do everything that a decade or so ago was done by about 10 senior Royals plus the work of the Kents and Gloucesters

NearlyBritishSummertimeYay · 27/03/2024 23:10

OriginalStarWars · 27/03/2024 16:01

The chemo is preventative. Kate is ill but will get better.
I know various people struggling financially dealing with much harder life situations than William.

@OriginalStarWars

it's not a competition. This thread is about William, not about racing to the bottom

musthorse · 27/03/2024 23:35

@AliasGrape yes we all have our opinions but no one in my world has referred to William in any of those ways you suggest. I've only ever heard it on here by a few posters . It is quite the opposite in fact and that Harry is a wanker. William is a good looking man with presence and yes he is bald - my most favourite men are bald. ☺️

Wardrobedoorsarewood · 27/03/2024 23:37

NearlyBritishSummertimeYay · 27/03/2024 23:10

@OriginalStarWars

it's not a competition. This thread is about William, not about racing to the bottom

Quite agree, what have other people's financial situations got to do with William

User8643733 · 27/03/2024 23:41

I also felt very sorry for Carole, which you see in her face in the car paparazzi photo. Imagine driving your seriously ill daughter around in the face of the press and the weight of the entire world on her. She must be dreading the thought of what Kate would need to go through if a coronation had to happen sooner than expected. Chemo knocks you out for a good number of years even if the treatment itself wasn't that long. And as many have mentioned, it hangs over your head like Damocle's sword. Every checkup or every bodily symptom is terrifying. Most patients have at least 2-3 scares during the years following treatment, regardless what stage their initial diagnosis was. Luckily the vast majority of scares are benign but it's still a truly shit road to have to go down.

BigWillyLittleTodger · 28/03/2024 00:00

mathanxiety · 27/03/2024 17:38

I don't think it can be taken for granted that she's out of the woods.

It's still early days, and she'll have lots of tests in the months and years ahead, with immediate treatment possibly including several months of chemo, and maybe radiology too.

Along with chemo goes the risk of infection, including pneumonia and covid, but also infections arising from minor cuts. The immune system is seriously compromised during treatment.

Yes, I was reading up on preventative chemotherapy, it’s not a walk in the park at all, really feel for Catherine having to go through that in the coming months, as her brother said it’s a mountain he will help her climb, the months ahead are going to be tough for her and William, the worry and anxiety must be immense.

OriginalStarWars · 28/03/2024 00:01

Chemo is never a walk in the park and no one has claimed it is. But a healthy young woman having preventative chemo should recover.
I do not understand why so many of you are talking as if she is going to die?

caringcarer · 28/03/2024 00:05

Yep, he must feel hard done by. First his Dad then his wife with cancer. Three little kids to deal with. And all the time the press and media just won't relent and leave them alone. Also constant worry about Harry and what he'll do and say next. Stupid rumours about an affair I don't think he had. And having to keep smiling and get on with public fixtures. Mo eye can't buy your health or peace of mind. I hope Charles and Catherine make a full recovery.

OooScotland · 28/03/2024 00:14

I agree. I took all the news about them recently kind of as it came and each time just thought, oh dear.

Then I was doing the washing up yesterday and it suddenly crossed my mind that Kate’s illness is the last in a long line of awful events for William. He must be in absolute despair, but having to hold it together for the children.

I’m no monarchist, I’d abolish the institution tomorrow, but that poor man.

BigWillyLittleTodger · 28/03/2024 00:23

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OriginalStarWars · 28/03/2024 00:28

I have had multiple friends and family with cancer, some have died and some have survived. I am not downplaying it but I understand what preventative chemo means and the difference between a healthy young woman receiving this, and an older person with other health problems.
I have strong opinions on cancer because I know too much about it. I am always aware when people talk about a famous person having cancer and posting misinformation that other people who have cancer or their family and friends will be reading it. If only people in the RF section could read the thread I would not care. But it appeared in trending.
You may not care about cancer misinformation being posted, I do. It has real life consequences.

BigWillyLittleTodger · 28/03/2024 00:39

No one is posting cancer misinformation on here at all, people are talking about their own experiences and relaying them here. Many posters will no doubt have either had cancer, or had relatives and friends with cancer, you are not unique in this so I don’t know why you are posting as if you are an oncologist, just because you know people with cancer does not make you the oracle on cancer treatment, you know fuck all.

OriginalStarWars · 28/03/2024 00:46

Some people are posting their own experiences.
But others are posting cancer misinformation.
But since you are simply insulting me I will leave you to it.
I will just say to anyone who has recently found out they have cancer or a loved one has cancer,, contact a relevant cancer charity for advice and support. Do not believe everything you read on MN.

BigWillyLittleTodger · 28/03/2024 00:46

Do you class @doublec post as ‘misinformation’ @OriginalStarWars maybe have a think about down playing cancer and preventative chemotherapy.

I appreciate some are sharing anecdotes of loved they know who have been diagnosed with cancer, but it's all moot. When I was diagnosed, I was told that everyone else's cancer, particularly their treatment (and prognosis) is irrelevant. And it's true, it is. Other's treatment has zero bearing on my cancer, the PoW's cancer, or anyone else's. Cancer, its treatment, and how one's body will react is unique to the individual.

Like PoW, I am having preventative chemo, well, had, have just finished six months of it. Chemo is given because there's a very real chance of another primary cancer or a secondary cancer. Yes, surgery is nearly always the first line of attack, but if it's a grade 3 cancer, no matter how small, then there's a very real probability the cancer will return at some point. This might be because it has shed cells, that dormant cells will wake up elsewhere in the body, or the original cancer returns.

Chemo is horrible to go through. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. Chemo isn't given to those who don't need it. In truth, there is no such thing as preventative chemo. Chemo is chemo is chemo.

OriginalStarWars · 28/03/2024 00:52

"On discovering cancer was present following her surgery, the decision will have been taken to give the princess chemo to make sure any lingering cancerous cells are killed.
"Surgery is the most curative form of treatment for early-stage cancers of solid organs.
"However, occasionally some cancer cells escape the organ of their origin and start residing in other organs such as the lung or liver.
"Tests and scans currently available are unable to detect such microscopic spread and therefore to improve chances of cure, presumptive treatment of such likely spread is often undertaken even after the cancer in the solid organ of origin is completely removed.
"Depending on the type of cancer, a range of drugs that can reach all organs of the body where such spread might have occurred are used.
"Chemotherapy is one such type of treatment that uses drugs which particularly act on rapidly dividing cells, for example, cancer cells, and kills such cells.""

https://news.sky.com/story/what-is-preventative-chemotherapy-experts-explain-treatment-and-when-its-used-13100076

What is preventative chemotherapy? Experts explain treatment and when it's used

The Princess of Wales says that at the time of her surgery, it was thought her condition was non-cancerous. But tests following the surgery revealed that cancer was present.

https://news.sky.com/story/what-is-preventative-chemotherapy-experts-explain-treatment-and-when-its-used-13100076

Dollenganger333 · 28/03/2024 01:05

Hughs · 27/03/2024 20:11

Anything Catherine and William tell us /the media about her illness and its prognosis, they are automatically telling their children (because the news will get into school). They know this well.

I agree with this. If things do look worrying, or begin to look worrying, I'm sure they won't be saying anything publicly that they haven't already explained to the children. And god knows in that situation you want to shield your children from worry for as long as possible. So she will be "doing well" and hopefully the conspiracy theorists will keep their mouths shut and let them announce things as and when it suits their family.

What do you mean? It's perfectly obvious why she disappeared, now. After the stories of things that happened to Diana and others, it's not really a surprise that people were concerned about what may have happened to her because KP don't exactly have a history of taking good care of the women who marry in.

BigWillyLittleTodger · 28/03/2024 01:06

That article confirms everything I and others have been saying, not sure why you think it backs up you minimising Catherine’s cancer and her chemotherapy treatment.

OriginalStarWars · 28/03/2024 01:09

I have not done that. I have said chemo is hard for anyone.
I posted accurate information. I am not going to start quoting the misinformation and be name called by you. Good night.

BigWillyLittleTodger · 28/03/2024 01:10

Yes you have, all the way through this thread.

IncognitoMam · 28/03/2024 01:13

I was just thinking about him tonight. I totally agree. Such a lot to deal with. I'm not a royalist but as a human being I feel for them.

commonground · 28/03/2024 01:25

I agree. Plus he has just lost his good friend (actually friend to the Middletons too) to (apparent) suicide, which is hard enough in itself to bear. He was at the funeral only days after PoW diagnosis. I am not a monarchy fan (sorry, RF board!) but you have to feel for him, is true.

Ineedaweewee · 28/03/2024 01:35

User8643733 · 27/03/2024 23:41

I also felt very sorry for Carole, which you see in her face in the car paparazzi photo. Imagine driving your seriously ill daughter around in the face of the press and the weight of the entire world on her. She must be dreading the thought of what Kate would need to go through if a coronation had to happen sooner than expected. Chemo knocks you out for a good number of years even if the treatment itself wasn't that long. And as many have mentioned, it hangs over your head like Damocle's sword. Every checkup or every bodily symptom is terrifying. Most patients have at least 2-3 scares during the years following treatment, regardless what stage their initial diagnosis was. Luckily the vast majority of scares are benign but it's still a truly shit road to have to go down.

Absolutely agree.

ShelleyCarpenter · 28/03/2024 02:19

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Totally agree with what you say and that the posting style is rather familiar

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