Why don't the Sussex haters be more like Kate

[Thegrassneedsmowing]

She's admired for her grace, strength and stoicism. Yet her supporters spew bile over H&M, Obie Scobie (or whatever he's called) and their other high profile supporters.

I don't like the way H&M have behaved towards the RF but now they're living thousands of miles away, not costing the British taxpayer a bean ... I just don't care what they do.

But the hate they inspire on this forum (couldn't sleep last night so was reading a couple of threads) is unhinged.

Why not keep it classy like Kate? Ignore em and put all that misplaced energy into living your best life (as they say)?

Thanks @jeffgoldblum, illuminating and alarming!

The decision to reconcile rests not with the fans, but with the individuals involved. The issue arises when fans perceive themselves as part of or closely connected to Meghan and Harry, which, in reality, they are not.

eise · Today 10:41
The decision to reconcile rests not with the fans, but with the individuals involved. The issue arises when fans perceive themselves as part of or closely connected to the Royal Family, which, in reality, they are not.

Well, it would be complex. I don't see any chance of a personal reconciliation with the RF. As I said - utterly amazed that some people do!

And no way would H & M ever be allowed to have an official role - they've cooked their goose there. As another poster once put it - they'd probably like to do the glamorous events in the UK in summer and then fly to California to bitch about their treatment all winter.

But ultimately they've shown themselves to be unsuitable for a public role, and you can't mend that. So it's California or bust really for them.

eise · Today 10:39
Responding seems futile. If your tone weren't so dismissive, I might have considered engaging.

Don't worry - that's OK.

I wasn't specifically asking you to respond - I'm just trying to pin down some realistic, practical detail from H & M reconciliation supporters as to how it might pan out in the real world.

I'd honestly be surprised if any of them have anything to say on the matter. They know it's pie in the sky.

Just catching up from Spain ( Ola)and can’t believe what I am reading . Harry and Meghan chucked horrible accusations at William and Catherine and you think William is the one to mend fences ??
What rabbit hole have a fallen down ?

Have a lovely holiday

It's victimhood culture at its finest, @Mylovelygreendress . Harry can behave in the most appalling ways, but the failure of everyone else to rally around him and kiss his self inflicted boo boos renders him the victim of everyone else's meanness. How dare William not rush to rescue his brother, who in wielding the knife has cut his own finger; even though it's William with the stab wounds in his back and a family that has been cruelly targeted. It's so pathetic as to be laughable, but unfortunately it is also part of the cultural landscape these days.

The one where their "truth" there WORD is proof and shall always be absolute

Because they have never ever backtracked or been caught out in a pointless lie have they

I agree it's victim culture at its finest who thought that complaining on television tat your dad cut you off financially when you're in your thirties and a millionaire was a good idea? There are people out there choosing between heating and eating and he was waa waa my daddy doesn't wuv meeeee he only paid me for the first few months of the year I have to use my OWN money 🙄 he lost me then

This comment is a typical example of why it's so hard to 'be kind' to M & H - when their supporters spout garbage like this.

Thank you . Hit the vino blanco already. 🇪🇸

Good girl

Regarding Kate, it seems she lacked the ability to positively influence William as a wife in these family matters. She could have guided William to a more diplomatic approach from the outset and shown greater openness/ welcome towards her sister in-law. However, the perception that her public utterances are meticulously scripted leaves much to speculation regarding her authentic sentiments. One would assume that, even in the face of grave adversity, familial unity would prevail.

What misogynistic drivel have we here?

Well, @AliceOlive , it's up to the wife to manage the husband it would seem. If things go wrong in any relationship, it's the woman usually getting the blame.

Sounds like chat gpt (or that other one I saw someone mention once, can’t quite remember, maybe chat sh1t or something)

Get on over to mine and you’ll see how that goes. 🤣😂🤣

We are both uncontrollable.

Particularly profound after the cries of “Why is everyone blaming Meghan and not Harry?”
Belongs in hypocrisy illustrated.

Granted, Harry is not exactly the brain trust of that operation but he should be held as accountable as Meghan.

Hi

This is a first for me. I've never ever posted on a Mr Harry and wife's thread before. I've never read/glanced past the headlines re these two. They fled England as they were lacking "privacy" and I respect that so gave it to them.

TBH, in the scheme of things, I'm 1000% certain that William, nor Kate give a flying heck about this pair.

There is no reason we should know about a private call from anyone and in my judgement it cant be private if its plastered all over the media

Wishing HRH a full and speedy recovery and my thoughts are with ones nearest and dearest to her.

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It's very much in keeping with the Omid Scobie line and what others like Tina Brown have written: that Meghan was rejecting all help offered to her because she was expecting Catherine (either pregnant or a mum with newborn, toddler and infant and duties of her own) to do the job of guide and counsellor. And since she didn't, therefore all blame lies with Catherine for every thing they perceive went wrong. It's grim when you think about it. They were out to get her from the off. And now she's got cancer, they want an in again, with William and Catherine having to do the groveling. Grim.

It's whatever MN says it is. I don't own this website .....

So, like I was saying - why can't you be more like Kate?

This is the message!

Its bizarre that people take sides to the point of throwing insults at each other about people don’t know.

When you see the female royals being bullied in the press, hear these women feel suicidal or have cancer and it it still doesn’t stop them, what can you do?

Because people are messy. I bet Kate isn’t even like (public) Kate.

Everyone, all people, are messy. Just in different ways.

The decision to reconcile rests not with the fans, but with the individuals involved. The issue arises when fans perceive themselves as part of or closely connected to Meghan and Harry, which, in reality, they are not.

What about the emotionally invested fans who see themselves are somehow part of, or connected to, the other RF members? Which they are not.

I see those fans on here all the time also.

I agree about reconciliation. It’s their business.