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Are Harry, Meghan, Archie and Lili coming back home?

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NotMyPage · 07/03/2024 18:59

It would be nice to have them back and getting along with the rest of the family, what do people think? They'd have to apologise and try to move forward in a positive way. With Charles being unwell and elderly, and the Wales kids too young to serve as working royals, the Sussex's may be needed. Trump may win the election, which could have a negative impact on them and Archie will start school soon, a great time to relocate home?? Apparently Meghan is looking for PR agencies to help her improve her image. Would the Uk welcome them?

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skullbabe · 07/03/2024 22:11

But as you see now - seeing as there has been a lull - we now have a new thread to rehash the same things that people have been talking about repeatedly on the RF forum.

Angrycat2768 · 07/03/2024 22:15

taxguru · 07/03/2024 19:15

The only way for Harry to come "home" is if their marriage breaks down. There's no way the British public nor some members of the Royal Family will accept Megan in an official capacity. If Harry returns on his own, he "may" get accepted in the fullness of time as there will be a level of sympathy and understanding of being taken for a mug by Megan which will mean most people will eventually forgive him for his actions.

So despite Harry writing a book, Harry telling Meghan that he had heard people talk about how dark Archie was going to be, Harry suing left right and centre, Harry not telling her the reason Archie wouldnt get a title, Harry not getting her help when she was suicidal and Harry not preparing her for all the Royal nonsense she would have to put up with, she is the one in the wrong, and Harry just needs to get out of the evil clutches of his evil wife ( and presumably their children) and he will be forgiven? A bit like how the poor innocent Nazi sympathiser Edward VIiii was manipulated by the evil Wallis Simpson and the adulterer Charles had to endure the madwoman Diana, the Royal male is never wrong. It always has to be a womans fault.

Mylovelygreendress · 07/03/2024 22:16

TheBraves · 07/03/2024 22:07

you don’t choose to be part of it and then sell a story saying how ridiculous your spouse’s family are.

If you feel that the family and institution have treated you badly further down the line, why not? They can do what they like, you don’t have to agree of like it.

I very much doubt Meghan would ever want to live in England again or want back into the family. She’s living well in the place she regards as home with her husband and children.

From her point of view, some of the royals haven’t treated her well, the protocols were crazy and the UK press were awful to her. People are pissed that she rejected those are can’t believe that she wouldn’t put up with it all to be part of the RF forever. They seem to feel offended that anyone would call the awful institution and press out for what they are now that she’s lived it and seen the inner workings. She experienced it, didn’t like it and got out. I don’t blame her.

If she hates the awful institution so much , why does she insist on using her title ? You know , the one she has curtesy of the awful institution.

Runnerinthenight · 07/03/2024 22:16

Angrycat2768 · 07/03/2024 22:15

So despite Harry writing a book, Harry telling Meghan that he had heard people talk about how dark Archie was going to be, Harry suing left right and centre, Harry not telling her the reason Archie wouldnt get a title, Harry not getting her help when she was suicidal and Harry not preparing her for all the Royal nonsense she would have to put up with, she is the one in the wrong, and Harry just needs to get out of the evil clutches of his evil wife ( and presumably their children) and he will be forgiven? A bit like how the poor innocent Nazi sympathiser Edward VIiii was manipulated by the evil Wallis Simpson and the adulterer Charles had to endure the madwoman Diana, the Royal male is never wrong. It always has to be a womans fault.

They're both in the wrong. He's actually worse than her because he grew up in the RF.

chrisfromcardiff · 07/03/2024 22:17

Screamingabdabz · 07/03/2024 21:42

The shame of it all is that had they been bright enough or humble enough, they could have been such an amazing force for good in this country and globally. But they fucked it. And now they’re a joke. Literally.

Charles needs to put his foot down with the coats of arms website and the utter piss taking use of titles but otherwise cut them loose, point them in the direction of Scientology where they truly belong and wish them well.

This is one of the reason I detest them so much. They could have been such a powerful plus for the RF. People on here are saying they don't want back in. I'm not sure that's true. I think Harry would like to go back to the pomp and circumstance; the wearing of his military uniform and pretending to be important. Right now, he is simply Meghan's chump husband. Harry would like to get that security back. I suspect if they went back there would be a paycheck involved. Given that Harry must see his income diminishing, I suspect he would like a steady income. Too bad. Bridges burnt. Time for book #2.

skullbabe · 07/03/2024 22:17

pipsfromthefuture · 07/03/2024 22:08

Are you sure?

Are you sure she wasn't mocking the Queen, who's the Head of the Church of England, and therefore mocking God himself?

Edited

It’s almost like she didn’t say she didn’t know what she was doing and so her frame of reference was medieval fare and that she was laughing at how ridiculous she was. But hey ho 🤷🏽

WatchOutMissMarpleIsAbout · 07/03/2024 22:18

pipsfromthefuture · 07/03/2024 22:08

Are you sure?

Are you sure she wasn't mocking the Queen, who's the Head of the Church of England, and therefore mocking God himself?

Edited

Hmm

well I’m Greek Orthodox
my cousin is married to a priest.

When I see him for the first time in the day I kiss his hand. It’s part of the respect he has for his role.

I don’t actually agree with it but would upset a lot of people my mother if I didn’t. I remember when he first got together with my cousin I called him by his first name. ( I was 13/14) I never made that mistake again my aunt

Owl55 · 07/03/2024 22:20

I hope if they do visit the press leave them alone , I’m sick of the press constantly trying to discredit them .Many of the things Harry wrote about were true , he told so the press didn’t have power over him . Yes he’s made some poor decisions but so have the Royal family , let them all make peace !

WatchOutMissMarpleIsAbout · 07/03/2024 22:21

Forgot to add if Camilla can be rehabilitated then so can Harry and Meghan. Andrew never imo.

chrisfromcardiff · 07/03/2024 22:21

Mylovelygreendress · 07/03/2024 22:16

If she hates the awful institution so much , why does she insist on using her title ? You know , the one she has curtesy of the awful institution.

Not to mention calling their children Prince and Princess. That is so embarrassing.

Bananabreadandstrawberries · 07/03/2024 22:22

NotMyPage · 07/03/2024 18:59

It would be nice to have them back and getting along with the rest of the family, what do people think? They'd have to apologise and try to move forward in a positive way. With Charles being unwell and elderly, and the Wales kids too young to serve as working royals, the Sussex's may be needed. Trump may win the election, which could have a negative impact on them and Archie will start school soon, a great time to relocate home?? Apparently Meghan is looking for PR agencies to help her improve her image. Would the Uk welcome them?

No, they can stay away. The UK does not want them.

TheBraves · 07/03/2024 22:26

Runnerinthenight · 07/03/2024 22:09

Who treated her badly???!!

I’m sure you know Meghan and Harrys ‘side’ of the story if you’re commenting here. Who knows what is true, none of us were there, but from Meghans point of view, she has been treated poorly and that is why I can’t see her wanting to return to the U.K. and RF.

I’m sure the RF have their ‘side’ and probably feel badly treated too. I can understand that and why they probably wouldn’t want Harry and Meghan to return. Sometimes families fall out and it can’t be made better.

People seem to want to believe that Harry and Meghan want back in, I really can’t believe that’s the case.

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 07/03/2024 22:26

The issue with Meghan and the curtsy is entirely down to Harry.

She should not have discovered quite a bit of time into a relationship, after the press were all over it, that the ancient and strangely formal things they do in public whilst in role as Queens and Princes is actually something they also do when Granny pops in when you’re going for lunch at the Yorks.

DH’s family have a thing they do over seats when they get together. It’s their thing. He told me about it on the third or fourth date.

So many of the things that have went wrong, or been go wrong, are - when you look back at it - down to Harry not actually giving Meghan a proper lowdown on how his family worked.

Ive said it before - I’d love to know how much say he had in the turning down of help from Sophie for Meghan. She turned it down because she had Harry, but he seems to have either been downright clueless about his own family or misleading.

skullbabe · 07/03/2024 22:27

Harry would like to get that security back.

Well yes. But have you noticed he also talks a lot about security for not just for him but his family - look we know how many people feel about Meghan - but he’s also talking about the children. You know that his children are at significant risk right?

MrsJaneIsTheName · 07/03/2024 22:28

They’ve proved to be awful untrustworthy people.
No family would welcome them back
Who have publicly attacked their family at every opportunity.

Vespanest · 07/03/2024 22:34

The making peace with the royal family would have been easier if Harry hadn’t of included Camilla and Kate, if a member of my family slated me I maybe able to forgive and forget, if they came after my loved ones then game over. Harry chose to write his book, William can chose his reaction and if that is never to be close to his brother again that is his prerogative.

TheBraves · 07/03/2024 22:39

Mylovelygreendress · 07/03/2024 22:16

If she hates the awful institution so much , why does she insist on using her title ? You know , the one she has curtesy of the awful institution.

You would have to ask her. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Presumably it has its advantages because that’s how our shitty world works unfortunately. She feels there been enough negatives for her by the sound of it so if this works in her favour, why not? Maybe she feels it opens doors for charity work etc. Just guessing though, as I say, you would have to ask her.

Carretera · 07/03/2024 22:44

chrisfromcardiff · 07/03/2024 22:04

I just looked at some of the video. Wow. How embarrassing to be smiling and waving while people are booing. I wonder if they heard the boos.

There's also a YouTube article about Mee-gain being "dragged from the Green Carpet Fashion Awards", apparently she tried to upstage the host and a Ugandan sustainable fashion award winner.

donteatthedaisies0 · 07/03/2024 22:47

CathyorClaire · 07/03/2024 21:49

Haven't RTFT but Harold has proclaimed US as his home.

Happy for him to stay there and live his dream.

Even more happy not to be responsible for the much lusted after 24/7/365 security bill.

As far a lot of us are concerned he can go whistle for paid security , were do we get our value for money if he gets it ? None, it is solely for his benefit with nothing in return .

FinneganFois · 07/03/2024 22:53

Meghan may jump at the chance to return to UK if Taylor Swift made the UK her permanent home, I've read about Megs being desperate to be Taylor's new bestie ! Grin

Runnerinthenight · 07/03/2024 23:00

skullbabe · 07/03/2024 22:27

Harry would like to get that security back.

Well yes. But have you noticed he also talks a lot about security for not just for him but his family - look we know how many people feel about Meghan - but he’s also talking about the children. You know that his children are at significant risk right?

He put them at risk when he left the Royal Family, and the security that went with that.

LadyMuckonpancakes · 07/03/2024 23:03

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 07/03/2024 22:26

The issue with Meghan and the curtsy is entirely down to Harry.

She should not have discovered quite a bit of time into a relationship, after the press were all over it, that the ancient and strangely formal things they do in public whilst in role as Queens and Princes is actually something they also do when Granny pops in when you’re going for lunch at the Yorks.

DH’s family have a thing they do over seats when they get together. It’s their thing. He told me about it on the third or fourth date.

So many of the things that have went wrong, or been go wrong, are - when you look back at it - down to Harry not actually giving Meghan a proper lowdown on how his family worked.

Ive said it before - I’d love to know how much say he had in the turning down of help from Sophie for Meghan. She turned it down because she had Harry, but he seems to have either been downright clueless about his own family or misleading.

The thing is wouldn’t any of us in her position have taken a bit of time to watch footage, read some books , actually try and understand what the ‘job’ entailed? Because it was a huge and very important job. No one accepts a job without doing any research or understanding anything about the company. She made it clear that Harry was the only person she was prepared to listen to. He clearly doesn’t understand much about the protocols in his own family or why things are done in the way they are. She was taking instruction from an idiot. Actually I don’t even believe that. I think she genuinely thought she could just do exactly as she liked and everything would go her way. Which suggests a certain contempt and arrogance in the first place. She thought she was more important than Harry from the off. She talked over him, pushed him aside, and tried to dominate constantly. Just very rude apart from anything else.

Runnerinthenight · 07/03/2024 23:08

LadyMuckonpancakes · 07/03/2024 23:03

The thing is wouldn’t any of us in her position have taken a bit of time to watch footage, read some books , actually try and understand what the ‘job’ entailed? Because it was a huge and very important job. No one accepts a job without doing any research or understanding anything about the company. She made it clear that Harry was the only person she was prepared to listen to. He clearly doesn’t understand much about the protocols in his own family or why things are done in the way they are. She was taking instruction from an idiot. Actually I don’t even believe that. I think she genuinely thought she could just do exactly as she liked and everything would go her way. Which suggests a certain contempt and arrogance in the first place. She thought she was more important than Harry from the off. She talked over him, pushed him aside, and tried to dominate constantly. Just very rude apart from anything else.

The sheer arrogance of her coming into the RF as a not-very-well-known actress, thinking she could change centuries of tradition, objecting to having to defer to more senior members of the family, and wanting everything her own way, is breathtaking!

WTF did she think she was?!

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 07/03/2024 23:08

LadyMuckonpancakes · 07/03/2024 23:03

The thing is wouldn’t any of us in her position have taken a bit of time to watch footage, read some books , actually try and understand what the ‘job’ entailed? Because it was a huge and very important job. No one accepts a job without doing any research or understanding anything about the company. She made it clear that Harry was the only person she was prepared to listen to. He clearly doesn’t understand much about the protocols in his own family or why things are done in the way they are. She was taking instruction from an idiot. Actually I don’t even believe that. I think she genuinely thought she could just do exactly as she liked and everything would go her way. Which suggests a certain contempt and arrogance in the first place. She thought she was more important than Harry from the off. She talked over him, pushed him aside, and tried to dominate constantly. Just very rude apart from anything else.

It could suggest all of that.

Or it could also suggest him telling her what it’s “really” like and her taking that at face value… How would she know that he was telling her the wrong info?

It’s most likely a mix of rushing into things, her not looking into things properly and him having no clue about how his own family works. But it says a lot about him that he accepted being his wife’s sole guide to royal life, and I don’t doubt for a second that it suited him that she wasn’t scared off.

It’s very telling that of all Harry’s serious relationships the one he got down the aisle is the one that was woefully unprepared for what life as his wife was really like.

skullbabe · 07/03/2024 23:10

There's also a YouTube article about Mee-gain being "dragged from the Green Carpet Fashion Awards", apparently she tried to upstage the host and a Ugandan sustainable fashion award winner.

There has been a concerted effort on these threads over the past couple of days to not bring name calling and wild claims from wider social media to these threads. Meghan was not at those awards.

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