Are Harry, Meghan, Archie and Lili coming back home?

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It would be nice to have them back and getting along with the rest of the family, what do people think? They'd have to apologise and try to move forward in a positive way. With Charles being unwell and elderly, and the Wales kids too young to serve as working royals, the Sussex's may be needed. Trump may win the election, which could have a negative impact on them and Archie will start school soon, a great time to relocate home?? Apparently Meghan is looking for PR agencies to help her improve her image. Would the Uk welcome them?

@Ratsoffasinkingsauage I'm sorry, I have been there 💐

This is a very unkind post

I think people find confident, self assured women hard to stomach. Women should be meek and humble and not say much, like Kate.
disclaimer, I don’t really like MM but can’t stand (and don’t understand) the vitriol she gets.

Is it a mob mentality of people ganging up on someone?

Mostly it is this, yes. To a much smaller extent you see it happen to others, both famous people and ordinary people. The term pack mentality I think is used mostly with regard to men, but it's a society wide thing, and it's very real. You see it happening all the time, but with Meghan it's just many more people involved.

I read M wants to be an 'advocate for those who felt unheard'. Yet she uses the platform she had yesterday to talk about herself. She didn't even attempt to relate her experience of online abuse to the wider problem, such as cyber bullying of teenage girls. I also can't believe she spoke about women abusing other women on International Women's Day. I think she's done that before. I don't think she's actually that much of a feminist.

Absolutely spot on.

No it isn't. She said to me "unless you've had a miscarriage yourself , you don't get to tell me what to be offended about'.

I then said to her "don't assume that other people haven't had miscarriages. Miscarriage is very common in women".

I've personally had a miscarriage. My mum had a very late miscarriage. Both of my cousins have had miscarriages. Sadly it is very common

I still don't think that meghan saying "now we are a family" has anything remotely to do with other women's miscarriages/infertility issues. Like it doesn't.

And as people have pointed out on this thread.

Meghan also lost a baby before she had Lilli.

That specific poster has told you, multiple times, how and why that comment from MM personally upset them. If it doesn't upset you, that's great. It upset them. It's completely valid for them to feel that way about a comment that was misguided at best. Why do you feel the need to continue banging on about this?

Read back.

I'm replying to other posters.

A poster said.

"Of course it doesn't. Meghan lost a baby too. Honestly people search for things to be personally offended by that have nothing to do with them. The twisting of words to make them personal, nasty or deliberate, its childish and tiresome."

Please drop it Kjones. It’s uncomfortable to read your posts. You’ve made your point.

@Kjones27 I don't need to ‘read back’ thank you. I've read every single post you've posted. I don't care if you're replying to other posters, you're still talking about someone who told you why they were upset by these comments. You've relentlessly posted on why their feelings are wrong for hours now. It's gross.

Actually I don't think she is the problem, its all of you piling on to try and twist other posters words or silence her form sharing her own experience and responding to someone directly accusing her of something. You drop it.

@DJMaxipad what's gross is you continually telling off a woman who just shared her own experience.

Everyone needs to stop making other peoples words and experiences about them. Meghan lost a child, then had Lili and felt her family was complete. It is not about any of you. Stop weaponising trauma to take a pop.

Newsflash for you. You dont speak for everyone.

It's not uncomfortable for everyone as I just got a thanks on my last post.

So no I won't drop anything.

She’s someone who has been given a chance at fame but has been voted off by the public

Except she hasn't. It sucks for all the bullies out there trying to make her hide away, but tough shit. She can do what she pleases.

Yet she uses the platform she had yesterday to talk about herself.

Everyone on that panel talked about themselves in addition to the representation of women in media and their own understanding of it. It’s 40 minutes - you might be surprised.

Continually? I've posted twice in this thread. And ironically you're telling me I can't speak out against someone who is actually, repeatedly, minimising and criticising someone else's feelings and experience. Pathetically hypocritical.

And there speaks the voice of reason

We've had whole threads on the fact she holds her hand to her face for pictures and how attention seeking it is.
Endless posts on every single part of her body, let alone anything she says
And if anyone breathes the same air as Meghan, they are pulled apart too whoever they are.
She is dehumanised endlessly

It’s not that Meghan made an insensitive comment (same has happened plenty to me and each time was a stab through the heart) but that she made it on a public platform . It’s not that she is being intentionally mean (you would hope) but thoughtless. And if you are positioning yourself as a humanitarian etc you have to think a bit about sounding smug or self-centred.

talking about your own family is personal. You're all reaching for something to be offended by.

Changing the topic.

Meghan said that when she started getting serious with harry, her English friend said "you shouldn't do it , the UK press will tear you apart".
And meghan said "what the press! No!"

She said much later that she was naive.

I did think "how could she be that naive".

And hijacked another woman’s words to talk about it .