@MrsFinkelstein
That's a really nice post, and shows the kind of attitude one would expect to find on a women's site like this. Unfortunately, Meghan is not considered talented, your word, by most of those who dislike her. Her professional achievements are derided, she is frequently called a D list actress, her work on Suits which earned her millions is looked down on etc etc etc.
In contrast, Kate performing Milli Vanilli style on a piano is greeted with rapture and she is hailed as talented. She relearned the piano during lockdown, like many who went back to instruments they abandoned as kids, which is great, but she is most definitely not Liberace. And that's fine, she doesn't have to be Liberace, expect that Meghan is sneered at all the time and told she is no Meryl Streep.
I know that Mumsnet does not want to talk about race, but as I keep saying, it is discriminatory to impose on black people a standard higher than you apply to white people. A much higher standard is always imposed on Meghan, who is expected to be an A list star to get any credit for her work of more than 10 years as an actress, while an incredibly low bar is set for Kate who plays a pre-recorded chord sequence for less than 10 seconds and receives rapturous applause. It is these contrasting attitudes that grate, when the demonstrable achievements of one are derided and the mediocrity of the other is applauded.
As for the clothes hypocrisy. The comparison is not drawn because of who wore it first rather, it is drawn because some of us remember all too well Meghan being excoriated for baring a shoulder and being called vulgar for doing so, while Kate receives raptures for doing the same. Meghan revealed a flash of leg in Australia and was mocked, Kate did the same and got headlines about how toned her legs are.
As always, I come with receipts.
https://thetempest.co/2019/08/29/style/double-standards-royals/