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Is Camilla the first previously divorced Queen?

93 replies

Munchies7 · 08/04/2023 17:17

I recall from the time of Charles and Camilla's wedding that we were told she would be Queen Consort and not Queen. I believe this was a way of appeasing the people who were displeased at the way Charles treated Diana. I'm wondering if Camilla is the first divorced Queen.

Which monarch changed [something] to allow divorce?

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PortmeirionTiles · 09/04/2023 21:11

KillingMeDeftly · 09/04/2023 15:42

@SnottyLottie What I find most interesting about Eleanor is all the mythology that's grown up around her. She actually didn't wield very much power while her husbands were alive - it was only after Henry's death that she really came into her own. Michael Evans' Inventing Eleanor is a good read that looks at what we think we know about her vs the reality. Sara Cockerill's recent biography is also excellent and if you like historical fiction then Elizabeth Chadwick's Eleanor trilogy is worth reading.

Camilla is descended from her IIRC? (Sorry if I’ve missed this being mentioned elsewhere in the thread.)

Serenster · 09/04/2023 21:16

I wouldn’t say that.

(also by the time Charles and Camilla did get married the rules had been changed, and they could have got arrived in a church, but they decided not to).

KillingMeDeftly · 09/04/2023 21:32

Possibly @PortmeirionTiles but Eleanor had 10 children so we all probably descend from her!

FuckeryOmbudsman · 09/04/2023 21:46

MamaNewtNewt · 09/04/2023 16:34

@RiktheButler is there any need to be such a condescending arse? Just because you know something doesn't mean everyone else does. Everyone has areas that they are an expert on and other areas they don't know so much about.

I find it hard to believe that anyone who has even the most cursory exposure to Britain does not know about Henry VIII!

You really don't need to be an expert to have the basics of something as well-known as this.

EdithWeston · 09/04/2023 21:49

UrsulaPandress · 09/04/2023 20:31

No it’s not moot. He’s divorced.

Correct it's not moot.

His former spouse died, and that overwrites the divorce, and so he was free - just like any widow - to be remarried in Church.

PortmeirionTiles · 10/04/2023 07:52

KillingMeDeftly · 09/04/2023 21:32

Possibly @PortmeirionTiles but Eleanor had 10 children so we all probably descend from her!

This is true. The only thing that makes it noteworthy is being able to trace it!

Sugarfree23 · 10/04/2023 08:03

Munchies7 · 08/04/2023 17:17

I recall from the time of Charles and Camilla's wedding that we were told she would be Queen Consort and not Queen. I believe this was a way of appeasing the people who were displeased at the way Charles treated Diana. I'm wondering if Camilla is the first divorced Queen.

Which monarch changed [something] to allow divorce?

At the time of the wedding, which was very controversial, they said she'd be Princess rather than Queen but that would really be a odd move.

No other King has had a Princess as his consort. The Palace played the long game, 17 years of letting Camilla build her support and reputation, in the Queens last speech she asked of Camilla to have the Queen title.

MamaNewtNewt · 10/04/2023 10:39

@FuckeryOmbudsman look I have a History degree and studied the Tudors at university, but I never studied them at all when I was at school. So if I'd not had an interest in History I could conceivably have got to the end of school without knowing a great deal about the Tudors.

But regardless, if someone is asking a question then there is just no need to be superior and to put them down. They are trying to increase their knowledge and that's a good thing. If you asked a question about something you didn't know about, and they had the attitude of you being an idiot for not already knowing, how would that make you feel? We all know different amounts about different things and anyone trying to increase their knowledge of anything should be encouraged rather than being out down.

In fact that attitude says much more about the people using it as an opportunity to feel good about themselves than it does about the OP. Big wow they know about the Tudors but they use their knowledge to put others down. It's just pathetic really.

milveycrohn · 10/04/2023 10:49

Eleanor of Aqitaine was previously married to the French King (and divorced), then married Henry II of England (mother of Richard the Lionheart, and mother of King John).

Fourecks · 10/04/2023 12:10

BabaBooPuffinsRock · 09/04/2023 15:54

I'm confused. At school we learned "divorced beheaded died, divorced beheaded survived." Are you saying they lied to us through song?

Are you saying they lied to us through song?

@BabaBooPuffinsRock I hate when people do that.

diflasu · 10/04/2023 13:27

Eleanor of Aquitaine - was only one I could think who wasn't widowed.

Joan of Kent - never Queen but a Dowager Princess of Wales and Mother to a King of England - Richard II- had an interesting marital journey - secretly married at 13 then married to someone else by her parents- first husband came back from a war wanted her back went to court which found her first marriage legal then she later married The Black Prince.

MrsMoastyToasty · 10/04/2023 13:52

Catherine Parr was the most married queen consort. She outlived 3 husbands including Henry VIII, becoming a Dowager Queen and then went on to marry Thomas Seymour (brother of Henry's 3rd wife Jayne Seymour).
Who needs Eastenders when you have the Tudors?

diflasu · 10/04/2023 13:55

Catherine Parr was also the first woman to publish a book in the English language under her own name.

FuckeryOmbudsman · 10/04/2023 19:49

MamaNewtNewt · 10/04/2023 10:39

@FuckeryOmbudsman look I have a History degree and studied the Tudors at university, but I never studied them at all when I was at school. So if I'd not had an interest in History I could conceivably have got to the end of school without knowing a great deal about the Tudors.

But regardless, if someone is asking a question then there is just no need to be superior and to put them down. They are trying to increase their knowledge and that's a good thing. If you asked a question about something you didn't know about, and they had the attitude of you being an idiot for not already knowing, how would that make you feel? We all know different amounts about different things and anyone trying to increase their knowledge of anything should be encouraged rather than being out down.

In fact that attitude says much more about the people using it as an opportunity to feel good about themselves than it does about the OP. Big wow they know about the Tudors but they use their knowledge to put others down. It's just pathetic really.

I am very surprised you did not cover the Tudors at all at school. It's been a common subject for simply ages - certainly since 1066 And All That was published in the 1930s, and it's been part of the NC since it began in 1988. So it's pretty unusual for anyone raised in UK to have no knowledge of this at all. That's the reason why people are surprised - it's a core topic (officially so for a couple of generations, and de facto so for substantially longer)

BTW - there are new songs now, courtesy of Horrible Histories.

Also you can argue yourself in to the ground about the number of times he was actually, really properly married - depending on how you count the nature of their endings. Because if annulled, did it ever count as a marriage? So (arguably) he was married only 3 times (annulled, annulled&executed, died, annulled, executed, survived) but of course DC from the first 2 marriages were disavowed then re-legitimated, so what was their status!? Certainly more like divorce than annulment - though the 4th marriage annulment would count as such by most (all?) standards

Blossomtoes · 11/04/2023 12:12

I am very surprised you did not cover the Tudors at all at school.

I didn’t either. My Royal historical knowledge is based on reading just about everything Jean Plaidy wrote when I was a teenager.

Gwenhwyfar · 11/04/2023 12:37

"I neverstudied them at all when I was at school. So if I'd not had an interest in History I could conceivably have got to the end of school without knowing a great deal about the Tudors."

Only if you also didn't have a TV.
I didn't do them at school either, but the Tudors are everywhere on TV.

Lizzt2007 · 11/04/2023 13:05

RiktheButler · 09/04/2023 14:31

Is this a joke? Did the life of Henry VIII completely pass you by?

Since none of Henry VII's queens were previously divorced, as the question asked , then his life is completely irrelevant. Perhaps instead of being snotty you should work on your reading comprehension skills.

Lizzt2007 · 11/04/2023 13:06

RiktheButler · 09/04/2023 16:27

Your question is clearly ridiculous as it demonstrates an embarrassing lack of knowledge. Henry VIII and his marriages are a HUGE part of English history. I can't imagine how you appear to not know anything about it.

I'm sure you'll reply yet again and infer that it is my "rudeness" rather than your education that's at fault, but I won't bother reading it

oh dear, calling out another's education when your own is clearly lacking, not a good look.

TrashyPanda · 11/04/2023 18:26

I am very surprised you did not cover the Tudors at all at school

why? They were not U.K. Monarchs. In Scotland we covered Scottish history.

Mary of Guise had children by her first marriage and, after the death of James V she ruled Scotland during her daughters minority.

IShouldGoToSleep · 12/04/2023 08:30

Divorce is better than beheading or other gruesome deaths as occured previously! so the UK is keeping up with the times! In another 100 years the queen will probably be a man known as 'they'.

FuckeryOmbudsman · 12/04/2023 15:25

Mary Queen of Scots is currently on the Scottish curriculum, and it is studied in conjunction with the Tudors (a Welsh/English dynasty) as it can't be adequately covered without that context.

Perhaps that has not always been a school topic? (You're right, I don't know about previous curriculum). So if you're too old for the ubiquitous Horrible Histories, too young for the Pillar Box War, attended school at a time when that Mary was off the curriculum, or didn't attend school; then yes it would be a gap (plus you'll not have watched any of the TV shows/films (from highbrow to Carry On) or read historical fiction)

(The Tudors had a pretty major impact in Ireland too, so also feature in history topics there).

Neilsfavouritechilli · 12/04/2023 21:32

As always, another potentially interesting and informative thread derailed by a side disagreement.

WinnieTheW0rm · 12/04/2023 21:51

Threads always move in mysterious ways.

Rather than ticking off those who have been exchanging views, perhaps reinforce the aspects you'd like to see more of?

I found it quite interesting to have a think about what topics schools teach in history. And what people just know, because it's one of the planks of the national culture (each home nation, as well as UK as a whole).

If any MNetters overseas light on this (esp if from Commonwealth countries) - how much does British history - particularly the history of the monarchy - is familiar?

Sugarfree23 · 12/04/2023 22:08

FuckeryOmbudsman · 10/04/2023 19:49

I am very surprised you did not cover the Tudors at all at school. It's been a common subject for simply ages - certainly since 1066 And All That was published in the 1930s, and it's been part of the NC since it began in 1988. So it's pretty unusual for anyone raised in UK to have no knowledge of this at all. That's the reason why people are surprised - it's a core topic (officially so for a couple of generations, and de facto so for substantially longer)

BTW - there are new songs now, courtesy of Horrible Histories.

Also you can argue yourself in to the ground about the number of times he was actually, really properly married - depending on how you count the nature of their endings. Because if annulled, did it ever count as a marriage? So (arguably) he was married only 3 times (annulled, annulled&executed, died, annulled, executed, survived) but of course DC from the first 2 marriages were disavowed then re-legitimated, so what was their status!? Certainly more like divorce than annulment - though the 4th marriage annulment would count as such by most (all?) standards

Not all of the UK follows the NC.