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The royal family

Self pitying, angry hoarder - King Charles

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DessertsForAll · 10/03/2023 21:18

An article in The Times has a lot of revelations about King Charles, including that he is prone to melancholy and self-pity, indecisive and stubborn, with an explosive temper - he would kick furniture in rage. He had no interest in hearing criticism, and sought out people who agreed with him. One dinner companion realised that he became actively annoyed if challenged. Charles’s homes are cluttered, with one friend calling him an outright hoarder. And unlike the Queen spends lots of money on himself.

Many agree that what Camilla, excels at is managing him: cheering him up when he’s glum, indulging him when he needs it, geeing him up when he doesn’t and knowing how and when to persuade him of a particular course of action when his staff have tried and failed. “Leave it with me,” she says to courtiers, with one press secretary describing her as “the final court of appeal”.

“If the Queen had taken half as much trouble about the rearing of her children as she did about the breeding of her horses,” a private secretary remarked drily to Robert Lacey, “the royal family wouldn’t be in such an emotional mess.”"

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/king-charles-coronation-camilla-william-harry-uk-hilary-rose-2r0k2g53t

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Flowersinmai · 10/03/2023 21:24

No one is perfect. I wonder what a biographer would say about you or I? Charles is 74. Many men that age can be quite grumpy, opinionated and set in their ways.

Roussette · 10/03/2023 21:28

@DessertsForAll

Put your armour on for this thread!

I don't envy Camilla is all I'll say!

DessertsForAll · 10/03/2023 21:28

An explosive temper and kicking furniture in a rage is not being a bit grumpy.

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NiceHotCuppaCoffee · 10/03/2023 21:29

I imagine William is not east to live with either.

DessertsForAll · 10/03/2023 21:29

@Roussette I agree, I feel quite sorry for Camilla. Maybe that is why she lives in a separate house?

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NiceHotCuppaCoffee · 10/03/2023 21:30

He had no interest in hearing criticism

Harry is the same.

Roussette · 10/03/2023 21:31

My DH is a grumpy old sod. At times.
Same age as Charles. But I'm not royal. I don't indulge him. I tell him to f**k off when he's being an arse. No one tells, or has told, Charles that.

mixedrecycling · 10/03/2023 21:33

Let's face it, anonymous sources could say the same - and worse (shurely shome mistake 😉 ) about any of us, if the price was right

DisforDarkChocolate · 10/03/2023 21:33

Are you honestly surprised? All of this is very obvious from how he acts in public.

PreparationPreparationPrep · 10/03/2023 21:41

DessertsForAll · 10/03/2023 21:29

@Roussette I agree, I feel quite sorry for Camilla. Maybe that is why she lives in a separate house?

I wouldn't say I feel sorry for her - she had long enough to know what he was like. She's lucky she has another home to go to when he kicks off.

StressedToTheMaxxx · 10/03/2023 21:41

We don't know these people. We don't know what is true and what isn't. We all have negative qualities.

gkhg · 10/03/2023 21:45

I'm not surprised, he was parented terribly. No one growing up like that is going to end up a well balanced, rational adult

Roussette · 10/03/2023 21:45

PreparationPreparationPrep · 10/03/2023 21:41

I wouldn't say I feel sorry for her - she had long enough to know what he was like. She's lucky she has another home to go to when he kicks off.

I think she spends a lot of time there (disclaimer... I don't know) but I always remember on a thread about the Queen's funeral, someone posted that their DP was a traffic policeman and escorted her back to Wiltshire after the funeral straight after.
(As I say... disclaimer... no idea if that is true)

RiktheButler · 10/03/2023 21:48

He sounds like a typical mumsnetter

birdshavingabath · 10/03/2023 21:53

I do think the retraction of H & M's uk home Frogmore a day after the book came out was very telling and petty of him.

Roussette · 10/03/2023 21:55

RiktheButler · 10/03/2023 21:48

He sounds like a typical mumsnetter

Could be! Hence my disclaimer.

I've heard it all before.

AuroraCake · 10/03/2023 21:57

He's a human. Who's perfect? In some cases he sounds very like Harry. Thinks he's cleverer thsn he is?. Hates criticism. Feels endlessly sorry for himself. The late Queen had faults a plenty. We just didnt want to hear it. But Charles is allowed to human.

Yesthatismychildsigh · 10/03/2023 21:58

It’s been common knowledge for decades that he’s a petulant, over indulged child with anger issues. I do get the feeling William is similar.

pizzaHeart · 10/03/2023 22:01

I can’t read the article it’s behind the paywall. However I wouldn’t be surprised to find out that Charles was grumpy or moany or difficult to deal with. He had difficult relationship with his father. He struggled at school. He couldn’t choose a partner to go through life together. He wasn’t a very good father. And he also lives in bubble all his life. He just can’t have calm, reasonable and well rounded personality imo.

Roussette · 10/03/2023 22:03

For all those who can't read it. Here it is. I've archived it for you.

Here

Maedan · 10/03/2023 22:04

Doesn't sound too dissimilar to every other king and queen consort ever!

Snowjokes · 10/03/2023 22:07

The royal family get brought up with immense riches and privilege, told they’re more important than 99.9% of humans on the planet, yet ruled over by their seniors and prevented from doing things they actually want to, sent off to boarding school, etc etc.

And then… we’re surprised that they mostly turn out a bit emotionally screwed up?

Roussette · 10/03/2023 22:16

The article is long but unsurprising (to me)

Boogismyname · 10/03/2023 22:23

Flowersinmai · 10/03/2023 21:24

No one is perfect. I wonder what a biographer would say about you or I? Charles is 74. Many men that age can be quite grumpy, opinionated and set in their ways.

My thoughts too. Andrew, however is a different matter.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 10/03/2023 22:24

Thanks for the link, Roussette - a great article but not really anything that hasn't been said before

A bit surprised the Times printed it at the moment though; I thought he might get more time in the job before the mud started to be thrown again