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'Courtiers' by Valentine Low

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RandomPenguinHouse · 27/09/2022 10:09

Extracts of this were being discussed on a previous thread ('The Times) which just finished.

I'm interested in buying this book, despite never having ever bought any other book about the Royal Family and never having watched The Crown.

I'm interested however in the archaic rituals of the Royal Court and how it works as an employer, and also how the courtiers advise.

Yes the excerpts were focused on Harry and Meghan but presumably that's just for clicks given the relevant timing, and that the book goes well beyond that.

Poignant that in the synopsis for it on The Foyles website it says:

The Queen, after a remarkable 70 years of service, is entering the final seasons of her reign without her husband Philip to guide her. Meanwhile, Charles seeks to define what his future as King will be, with his court wielding ever greater influence as he plans for his imminent accession.

www.foyles.co.uk/witem/biography/courtiers,valentine-low-9781472290908

Anyone else thinking of buying this?

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oakleaffy · 27/09/2022 16:26

Dinoteeth · 27/09/2022 16:13

@snog I'd assume 'someone' has given authority for the courtiers book. No way have they just decided to spill the beans and tell all without 'someone' giving it the nod, reading and approving. Just my assumption.

Agreed.
Surely all the bullied Staff would have signed NDA's?

MM saying ''I think we both know that I am soon to be your boss'' is appallingly arrogant and implies a threat in itself.

She does sound like an impossible person to work with.

For the Aides to be allowed free rein to tell their side of the sorry saga is quite telling.

It would have been granted by somebody who carries a lot of weight and influence.

Gilmorehill · 27/09/2022 16:28

WalkingwithPilgrims · 27/09/2022 15:42

There seemed to be so little warmth between H&M and any of the other family during the public events. Almost studiously avoiding any eye contact. I wonder what happened on the day the queen died.

The plane that William, the Wessexes and Prince Andrew were on was delayed on the ground for over an hour (with them on board). I can't help but wonder if they were waiting for Harry - but due to the row about whether Meghan could attend he was delayed.

There has been so much water under the bridge it seems impossible for them to be welcomed back into the fold now.

For this to happen I think H&M would have to permanently pause their commercial projects - the podcast, the documentary series and the memoir but surely the financial ramifications would be too great for them.

I have pre-ordered the book. I am interested to see what happens next.

There had to have been a very good reason for the delay. If it’s true, I would have been livid if it was my mother dying.

Snog · 27/09/2022 16:31

Presumably it's not King Charles who has authorised courtiers to speak out as some of the excerpts are less than flattering to him?!

Readinginthesun · 27/09/2022 16:41

Gilmorehill · 27/09/2022 16:28

There had to have been a very good reason for the delay. If it’s true, I would have been livid if it was my mother dying.

I can’t remember where I read it but was the delay not because they were waiting for Harry ?

Maireas · 27/09/2022 16:42

Readinginthesun · 27/09/2022 16:41

I can’t remember where I read it but was the delay not because they were waiting for Harry ?

That's what I read as well.

MissMarpleRocks · 27/09/2022 16:47

Snog · 27/09/2022 16:31

Presumably it's not King Charles who has authorised courtiers to speak out as some of the excerpts are less than flattering to him?!

I agree. Like a pp I find it the excerpt about Charles far more interesting. Phoning people at 11pm at night? That’s not right unless an emergency.

Dinoteeth · 27/09/2022 16:49

@Snog it's purely my guess but I'd have thought their NDAs would be watertight.
I don't think Harry, Ed or Ann would have had the authority to authorise it.

It needed to be balanced to a point KC has a temper but rarely directed at people. We saw that with the 'stinking pen, every bloody time' he never actually directed that rant at anyone.

oakleaffy · 27/09/2022 16:50

PinkTonic · 27/09/2022 13:38

He made a decision and now he has to live with it. It’s unreasonable for him to expect to come back from the damage and drama the pair of them have inflicted on the family even if he wants to. She has no vested interest in the family other than money and position and she’s already made it quite clear that a Prince with a £30m fortune in his own right plus access to palaces, jewels and a global platform albeit within defined parameters don’t cut it for her. She’s aiming higher.

Harry seems a very unhappy, angry, torn individual.
I hope he finds happiness one day.

Harry probably would have been contented on a ranch ''Far from the madding crowd'' just him, the wife and kids somewhere in rural Canada.

But his wife has a very different agenda.

Maireas · 27/09/2022 16:52

WalkingwithPilgrims · 27/09/2022 15:44

Can't help but wonder at this point if Netflix are actually paying them to create future content for the Crown 😂

😂😂 that's genius!
Seriously, though, people are making money out of this bitterness and unhappiness, it's profitable for someone.

oakleaffy · 27/09/2022 16:55

Dinoteeth · 27/09/2022 16:49

@Snog it's purely my guess but I'd have thought their NDAs would be watertight.
I don't think Harry, Ed or Ann would have had the authority to authorise it.

It needed to be balanced to a point KC has a temper but rarely directed at people. We saw that with the 'stinking pen, every bloody time' he never actually directed that rant at anyone.

Absolutely right..KC's ''Bloody pen'' incident was just bluster, not personal {Unless one was the errant writing implement}
KC also reportedly has a temper that flares from 0~60 in milliseconds, then dies down just as fast.

People like that are much easier to deal with {Personally speaking} than bullies.

Gilmorehill · 27/09/2022 16:56

Readinginthesun · 27/09/2022 16:41

I can’t remember where I read it but was the delay not because they were waiting for Harry ?

It seems unfair to me that the children (Edward and Andrew) had to be delayed by a grandchild.

RandomPenguinHouse · 27/09/2022 16:57

Maireas · 27/09/2022 16:52

😂😂 that's genius!
Seriously, though, people are making money out of this bitterness and unhappiness, it's profitable for someone.

Lawyers? Grin

I wouldn’t put it past Netflix to suggest this suggest this tbh!

I had to rush off for a work thing this morning and am only just returning to the thread. Will have a catch up read in a bit.

But first, I can’t see your thread @SilverLiningPlaybook did you get it taken down? No need to do so for my sake, I would have happily got this deleted.

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Readinginthesun · 27/09/2022 17:01

MissMarpleRocks · 27/09/2022 16:47

I agree. Like a pp I find it the excerpt about Charles far more interesting. Phoning people at 11pm at night? That’s not right unless an emergency.

MM was reported to start emailing and texting at 5.00 . Not acceptable either .

Thesummeriwas16 · 27/09/2022 17:04

@oakleaffy I agree but then if you believe articles that have come out in recent days he was aware that his time when he could make an impact ended when George becomes 18 and he has been very unhappy about things being taken away from him. I'm not sure he knows what he wants and is like a child that will tantrum whatever happens.

ThighMistress · 27/09/2022 17:08

the pp hit the nail on the head with he observation that for M&H the battling is lucrative. What is Harry’s book without revelations and dirt? Nothing. Without interest. Otoh to keep relevant they need to keep the royal thing going, eg attending the Coronation next year, so they have to continually dangle the threat of spilling the beans (or their own recollections) in order t not to be fully ostracised.

Dinoteeth · 27/09/2022 17:08

The whole becoming irrelevant when George hits 18 makes no sense.

Ann and Edward are both pretty relevant long after William turned 18. William never even became a full-time working royal until he was about 35.

ThomasinaGallico · 27/09/2022 17:11

Snog · 27/09/2022 16:31

Presumably it's not King Charles who has authorised courtiers to speak out as some of the excerpts are less than flattering to him?!

He may be savvy enough by now to understand that his behaviour might be criticised on occasion, but his principles agreed with, and that there is nothing more suspect than an ally who will do nothing but flattery.

LondonWolf · 27/09/2022 17:11

I think someone said in an earlier thread that as there are allegations of bullying about the Sussexes, that trumps over the NDAs or something along those lines.

This makes sense. I wonder if there's anyone on here who has experience of these kinds of legal agreements. There must surely be clauses on both sides, which ensure fair and decent treatment. Can't all be going one way, with only the very wealthy and powerful person protected?

Snog · 27/09/2022 17:13

LondonWolf from what I have read NDAs are highly unbalanced in favour of the rich and powerful.

LondonWolf · 27/09/2022 17:14

Snog · 27/09/2022 17:13

LondonWolf from what I have read NDAs are highly unbalanced in favour of the rich and powerful.

Doesn't surprise me 🙄

Ribbena · 27/09/2022 17:17

I think NDA’s are intended to protect confidential aspects of the role, so for example, not disclosing industry information or technologically developments etc. But they’re not intended to take away employees’ rights to certain things such as being bullied. Whistleblowing (when done correctly and with the right intentions) can still happen even if an NDA has been signed. I think that’s right. Or alternatively l’m speaking nonsense!

CPL593H · 27/09/2022 17:18

oakleaffy · 27/09/2022 16:55

Absolutely right..KC's ''Bloody pen'' incident was just bluster, not personal {Unless one was the errant writing implement}
KC also reportedly has a temper that flares from 0~60 in milliseconds, then dies down just as fast.

People like that are much easier to deal with {Personally speaking} than bullies.

Yes. Also, a phone call to an aide at 11PM may not be fabulous employment practice but is totally different to ringing someone every 10 minutes (for hours) to angrily berate them, while they are out for the evening. If that is true, it is quite dreadful and true bullying that in most other settings would involve the trade union and tribunals.

Ribbena · 27/09/2022 17:18

That should have read “… not intended to take away employees’ rights to certain things such as NOT being bullied”!

DFOD · 27/09/2022 17:19

Is anyone seeing any parallels with the Heather Mills-McCartney debacle?

Thesummeriwas16 · 27/09/2022 17:20

DFOD · 27/09/2022 17:19

Is anyone seeing any parallels with the Heather Mills-McCartney debacle?

Absolutely!!

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