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'Courtiers' by Valentine Low

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RandomPenguinHouse · 27/09/2022 10:09

Extracts of this were being discussed on a previous thread ('The Times) which just finished.

I'm interested in buying this book, despite never having ever bought any other book about the Royal Family and never having watched The Crown.

I'm interested however in the archaic rituals of the Royal Court and how it works as an employer, and also how the courtiers advise.

Yes the excerpts were focused on Harry and Meghan but presumably that's just for clicks given the relevant timing, and that the book goes well beyond that.

Poignant that in the synopsis for it on The Foyles website it says:

The Queen, after a remarkable 70 years of service, is entering the final seasons of her reign without her husband Philip to guide her. Meanwhile, Charles seeks to define what his future as King will be, with his court wielding ever greater influence as he plans for his imminent accession.

www.foyles.co.uk/witem/biography/courtiers,valentine-low-9781472290908

Anyone else thinking of buying this?

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Serenster · 27/09/2022 17:23

It's purely my guess but I'd have thought their NDAs would be watertight.
I don't think Harry, Ed or Ann would have had the authority to authorise it.

It’s me who said on an earlier thread that NDAs have been hugely undermined in this area following a series of court cases where people who have been treated unlawfully by someone at their employer were then effectively “gagged” by an NDA. This has been seen as unethical behaviour.

The Solicitors Regulatory (which regulates solicitors) has actually issued guidelines that tells lawyers what they can and can’t use an NDA to cover. This applies to both solicitors and their own firms, but crucially, also to their clients when they are advising them on resolving an employment issue.

This guidelines say it is improper to use an NDA to seek to prevent or deter a person from reporting misconduct to any responsible body, or making a protected disclosure under the Public Interest Disclosure Act (i.e. whistleblowing).

The employees speaking up to a journalist here could easily be considered to be whistleblowers, or simply to be protected if they are disclosing poor conduct on the part of someone senior in a public organisation. Technically, the Palace or Harry and Meghan could try and sue them. But they probably wouldn’t win, and it would be hugely damaging to do so.

(It’s quite likely Valentine Low would have arranged for the employees to seek legal advice about how much of a risk they were running before speaking to him, so they would be aware the risk of legal reprisals are low).

LondonWolf · 27/09/2022 17:27

Serenster · 27/09/2022 17:23

It's purely my guess but I'd have thought their NDAs would be watertight.
I don't think Harry, Ed or Ann would have had the authority to authorise it.

It’s me who said on an earlier thread that NDAs have been hugely undermined in this area following a series of court cases where people who have been treated unlawfully by someone at their employer were then effectively “gagged” by an NDA. This has been seen as unethical behaviour.

The Solicitors Regulatory (which regulates solicitors) has actually issued guidelines that tells lawyers what they can and can’t use an NDA to cover. This applies to both solicitors and their own firms, but crucially, also to their clients when they are advising them on resolving an employment issue.

This guidelines say it is improper to use an NDA to seek to prevent or deter a person from reporting misconduct to any responsible body, or making a protected disclosure under the Public Interest Disclosure Act (i.e. whistleblowing).

The employees speaking up to a journalist here could easily be considered to be whistleblowers, or simply to be protected if they are disclosing poor conduct on the part of someone senior in a public organisation. Technically, the Palace or Harry and Meghan could try and sue them. But they probably wouldn’t win, and it would be hugely damaging to do so.

(It’s quite likely Valentine Low would have arranged for the employees to seek legal advice about how much of a risk they were running before speaking to him, so they would be aware the risk of legal reprisals are low).

Interesting. Thanks @Serenster 😊

oakleaffy · 27/09/2022 17:33

CPL593H · 27/09/2022 17:18

Yes. Also, a phone call to an aide at 11PM may not be fabulous employment practice but is totally different to ringing someone every 10 minutes (for hours) to angrily berate them, while they are out for the evening. If that is true, it is quite dreadful and true bullying that in most other settings would involve the trade union and tribunals.

To be hounded relentlessly in one's free time is totally unacceptable.
It is very harrying to behave in this manner.

oakleaffy · 27/09/2022 17:37

Lady Colin Campbell advises that the Valentine Low has ''Impeccable sources'' , and recommends it, She has it on order.

IcedPurple · 27/09/2022 17:43

Dinoteeth · 27/09/2022 17:08

The whole becoming irrelevant when George hits 18 makes no sense.

Ann and Edward are both pretty relevant long after William turned 18. William never even became a full-time working royal until he was about 35.

That's very true. Plus, the queen had 4 children while Charles only has 2 sons, one of them being Harry. There was always going to be a role for him and his wife, one they would have had a lot more freedom to shape than William would ever have, as his life as Prince of Wales and future king is much more constrained.

I think what Harry really meant is that he wouldn't be the 'star' as he aged and George and his siblings grew into adulthood. I think that suggests he enjoys the limelight rather more than he might care to let on.

DFOD · 27/09/2022 17:50

SilverLiningPlaybook · 27/09/2022 15:35

I think they’ve put themselves in a position where they are living in a gilded cage, having to sing for their supper and with few real confidantes. Other celebrities will not want to be tainted by association or l will look down on them at some stage. They just aren’t in the same league because they don’t have the same level of money and influence.

They also don’t have any gravitas or traction. Most people in the elite / super league earned their reputations over years of hard graft - these two are consummate grifters. Apart from Trump…….

The real elites are always on guard as to who is in their inner circle as they are always at risk of their association being exploited and they only want to bask with those of a similar status to maintain and engage their hard earned reputations.

These two are no better than tabloid fodder, who have shown that they are bitter, vexatious and indiscreet.

It’s no wonder they have been cold shouldered by US elite society - loose lips sink ships.

SilverLiningPlaybook · 27/09/2022 17:58

DFOD · 27/09/2022 17:19

Is anyone seeing any parallels with the Heather Mills-McCartney debacle?

Very much so. If you take the age difference out of it. Also John and Yoko.

DFOD · 27/09/2022 17:59

CPL593H · 27/09/2022 16:03

It has the feeling of containing truth to me too. The events of the last couple of weeks must have been particularly strange and difficult for Harry and brought a lot of things front and centre.

It would be really, really sad if he and Meghan end up like the Duke and Duchess of Windsor, consumed by lasting bitterness and their grievances, him making occasional visits where he is treated with great caution by those previously close. I think there has got to be real will and effort on both sides if that is to be avoided and I can't imagine it will be easy. His book could be make or break.

It would be really, really sad if he and Meghan end up like the Duke and Duchess of Windsor, consumed by lasting bitterness and their grievances, him making occasional visits where he is treated with great caution by those previously close.

Do you not think that this is where H&M already are? I was going to say coming up for two years as to when they physically left the country but from those extracts it seems it started immediately in spring 2017 - 6 months before their engagement was even announced…..whilst most of us was believing it was wonderful for years after that.

Was it PW who suggested he take his time with the relationship? And wasn’t KM criticised for not being effusive enough about their engagement - that all seems to make sense now.

Arnaquer · 27/09/2022 18:00

Thanks for the share tokens @goldierocks .
Charles does sound rather gullible doesn't he? No wonder PP used to despair of him.

SilverLiningPlaybook · 27/09/2022 18:01

RandomPenguinHouse · 27/09/2022 16:57

Lawyers? Grin

I wouldn’t put it past Netflix to suggest this suggest this tbh!

I had to rush off for a work thing this morning and am only just returning to the thread. Will have a catch up read in a bit.

But first, I can’t see your thread @SilverLiningPlaybook did you get it taken down? No need to do so for my sake, I would have happily got this deleted.

I thought your thread showed fewer signs of being derailed . You what I mean ! So asked for it to be deleted.

SilverLiningPlaybook · 27/09/2022 18:04

Maireas · 27/09/2022 16:42

That's what I read as well.

Yes I read this too. Harry was flouncing because C had told him it was inappropriate for Meghan to go. So childish.

Dinoteeth · 27/09/2022 18:07

@Serenster are you thinking the courtiers have done the book off their own backs?

Do any of them still work for the Palace?

Dinoteeth · 27/09/2022 18:10

Regarding the plane to Aberdeen. BBC seemed to think they'd be 7 Royals on it.

In the event only 4 got off it. I do think there has been a debate about Meghan and Harry spat the dummy out. Who would have been the 7th?

DFOD · 27/09/2022 18:15

SilverLiningPlaybook · 27/09/2022 17:58

Very much so. If you take the age difference out of it. Also John and Yoko.

I think that with the Heather Mills-McCartney situation - Paul although vulnerable and easily led at that time - had a patient and loyal family ready to support him when he finally saw the light that they had already seen.

Not sure Harry has this. He has burnt bridges - I don’t think KC has the emotional capacity work on building bridges - KM might be the ultimate peace-maker?

I don’t know enough about John and Yoko - apart from they stayed together.

DFOD · 27/09/2022 18:16

Dinoteeth · 27/09/2022 18:10

Regarding the plane to Aberdeen. BBC seemed to think they'd be 7 Royals on it.

In the event only 4 got off it. I do think there has been a debate about Meghan and Harry spat the dummy out. Who would have been the 7th?

Kate - she took one for the team

DuchessOfPort · 27/09/2022 18:17

I wonder if the 7th was an assumption that the Duchess of Cambridge would go plus both Sussexes, then she stayed home to look after the children and let William have undiluted time with his grieving father and that’s when it unravelled a bit so no Sussexes either.

YanTanTetheraPetheraPimp · 27/09/2022 18:18

AnnunciataZ · 27/09/2022 14:00

The press are concentrating on the excerpts that feature Harry and Meghan, presumably because they sell papers/get clicked upon, but the one about Charles is far more interesting to me.

Why did he befriend not one, not two, but THREE sexual predators? Andrew is (quite rightly) vilified for his friendship with Jeffrey Epstein but Charles was friends with Laurens van der Post, Jimmy Savile and Peter Ball. This shows a very serious lack of judgement in the monarch.

I can only assume that, like the majority of the public, Charles was completely unaware of these individuals being paedophiles and worse.

I cannot imagine that, unlike Andrew, he would have continued an acquaintance with them knowing how appallingly hideous they were.

And probably those individuals revelled in their ‘friendship’ with Charles because that provided a veil of respectability?

RandomPenguinHouse · 27/09/2022 18:24

Gotcha re thread @SilverLiningPlaybook !

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derxa · 27/09/2022 18:25

DuchessOfPort · 27/09/2022 18:17

I wonder if the 7th was an assumption that the Duchess of Cambridge would go plus both Sussexes, then she stayed home to look after the children and let William have undiluted time with his grieving father and that’s when it unravelled a bit so no Sussexes either.

I just think that Meghan has no idea how families generally work. It's hard enough having a parent dying without having to emotionally accommodate someone who has caused tension in the family before. Harry wasn't the principle mourner anyway.. They were Charles, Anne, Andrew and Edward.

SilverLiningPlaybook · 27/09/2022 18:30

derxa · 27/09/2022 18:25

I just think that Meghan has no idea how families generally work. It's hard enough having a parent dying without having to emotionally accommodate someone who has caused tension in the family before. Harry wasn't the principle mourner anyway.. They were Charles, Anne, Andrew and Edward.

I’m actually staggered that either of them thought it appropriate for Meghan to go to Balmoral. She had refused all other invitations there when the Queen was alive , just to compound matters. How on earth did she think it would be received for her to rock up amongst the Queens children on the day the Queen died? It’s staggeringly lacking in empathy/

I think Kate was going for go , maybe with George, and then was forced to pull out to mollify Meghan. Much like what happened at he Commonwealth service when H and M threw a tantrum.

I don’t think M has a clue how families work, no. This probably means she doesn’t empathise with Harrys conflicted emotions.

Thesummeriwas16 · 27/09/2022 18:30

Yes, if it's true that Harry kicked off when Charles said that Meghan wouldn't be welcome at Balmoral the day the queen was dying then again that shows a spectacular lack of awareness from Harry. How would you NOT know this wasn't appropriate?!!

DFOD · 27/09/2022 18:31

YanTanTetheraPetheraPimp · 27/09/2022 18:18

I can only assume that, like the majority of the public, Charles was completely unaware of these individuals being paedophiles and worse.

I cannot imagine that, unlike Andrew, he would have continued an acquaintance with them knowing how appallingly hideous they were.

And probably those individuals revelled in their ‘friendship’ with Charles because that provided a veil of respectability?

JS deliberately targeted and groomed elites including Margaret Thatcher so that he could hide in plain sight.

These predators are v manipulative and cunning. Even Louis Theroux spending 3 months on a doc with him couldn’t smoke him out.

AnnunciataZ · 27/09/2022 18:32

@YanTanTetheraPetheraPimp, in the case of Peter Ball:

"Prince Charles told Ball in a letter in February 1995, two years after the bishop had accepted a police caution, which was read to the inquiry: “I wish I could do more. I feel so desperately strongly about the monstrous wrongs that have been done to you and the way you have been treated.”

Charles later arranged for the Duchy of Cornwall to buy a house to be rented by Ball and his identical twin, Michael, also a bishop.

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2020/jan/14/friendship-with-prince-charles-made-paedophile-bishop-peter-ball-impregnablee*

maranella · 27/09/2022 18:33

If there's any truth in that Heat article then I feel for Harry - he's torn in two and he's never going to be able to keep both his family and Meghan happy. She quite clearly doesn't give a shiny shite whether she upsets the RF or not, but if it's true that he's feeling conflicted and miserable that's going to be a major bone of contention between them, because their entire livelihood is built on slagging them off and spilling their secrets and Meghan isn't going to stop because of Harry's feelings. There are seven more Archetypes podcasts to come out, after all and a $40 million, three-book deal for Harry, half of which has apparently already been paid to him. I see trouble in paradise ...

ajandjjmum · 27/09/2022 18:33

Thesummeriwas16 · 27/09/2022 18:30

Yes, if it's true that Harry kicked off when Charles said that Meghan wouldn't be welcome at Balmoral the day the queen was dying then again that shows a spectacular lack of awareness from Harry. How would you NOT know this wasn't appropriate?!!

It really does seem like his head and all he has learned has been taken over. This would have been a basic understanding in any family - why does he always think Meghan comes before everyone else.

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