I believe a comment was made about their future child’s skin colour.
I believe they were told their son would not be a prince or have security paid for.
I believe they were both deeply unhappy.
I do not believe much or even any of it happened within the context or with the narrative they’re implying.
I think Meghan, perhaps not unreasonably had a very unrealistic perception of what being in the royal family would be like. She thought princess in the colloquial sense, with riches and a lavish lifestyle, not the reality of balmoral, duty and stiff upper lip.
The person who let her down in nearly all of these situations is her husband, who comes across as too dim and indulged to have any self awareness. Kate Middleton and her entire family were absolutely vilified by the press for years, Harry knew this. Harry knew their son wouldn’t be a prince, Harry knew about the curtsying, Harry knew how to access mental health support.
The entire reason they’ve done this interview isn’t to set the record straight or really with the British public in mind, it’s to launch their new careers, ironically, changing the world through compassion.