The op of this thread needs support, but many of us think the thread should be hidden/taken down because it seems to prejudice a court case [[https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4975324-to-be-angry-at-dh-for-throwing-ds-out?page=4&reply=131890717 https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4975324-to-be-angry-at-dh-for-throwing-ds-out?page=4&reply=131890717]]