There are two threads by the same poster, one claiming to be the daughter and one claiming to be the mother. [[https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4897841-aibu-for-making-my-daughter-stick-to-the-violin-till-she-graduates?page=1 https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4897841-aibu-for-making-my-daughter-stick-to-the-violin-till-she-graduates?page=1]] [[https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4886005-am-i-being-unreasonable-to-persisting-to-try-to-quit-my-instruments?postsby=cattyfacts https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4886005-am-i-being-unreasonable-to-persisting-to-try-to-quit-my-instruments?postsby=cattyfacts]]