This is a pretty horrific read [[https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4782372-is-this-ableism-i-feel-sick?reply=125335154 https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4782372-is-this-ableism-i-feel-sick?reply=125335154]]