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Saying goodbye to my nine year old cat with kidney cancer today

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Kattekittt · 24/04/2026 06:33

I don’t know why I’m posting, I should be sleeping. I’m broken. She’s only 9 but has a mass on her kidney. She only let me know two days ago and I took her to the vet. They’ve been managing her sickness and pain but I can’t put her through painful treatment that probably won’t work. She’s beautiful and has the most amazing temperament.

I watched my mum die of cancer when I was young and wouldn’t wish it on anyone.

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EmpressaurusKitty · 24/04/2026 06:47

I’m so sorry, @Kattekittt.

Would you like to tell us about her?

L0V315 · 24/04/2026 06:47

Kattekittt, I am so sorry sorry that you are having to go through such a hard and upsetting time today. Your poor cat and poor you, you have my sincerest condolences.

May your cat walk the rainbow bridge in peace and reach the loving arms of your mum.

Be gentle with yourself, I am so sorry 💐

susiedaisy1912 · 24/04/2026 06:51

So sorry you’re going through this. Can you post a picture of her. They touch your heart in such a profound way. We are here for you op. ❤️

Baital · 24/04/2026 06:56

Sending support. It's heartbreaking.

Kattekittt · 24/04/2026 06:59

Thank you for your kindness. She’s a beautiful Norwegian Forest cat. She’s stunning and a real character. She bosses the dogs around, loves going outside on her harness and eating dreamies. She would always know if I needed her and would curl up and purr on her terms.

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EmpressaurusKitty · 24/04/2026 07:03

Always on their terms! She sounds gorgeous, @Kattekittt.

I did wonder from your username if you she might be Norwegian (learning it on Duolingo & got as far as Katten min er veldig snill og smart).

What’s her name?

Kattekittt · 24/04/2026 07:05

Here’s Freja

Saying goodbye to my nine year old cat with kidney cancer today
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susiedaisy1912 · 24/04/2026 07:07

She’s beautiful op thank you for sharing her photo.

L0V315 · 24/04/2026 07:12

Kattekittt, she is really beautiful 💕
Thank you for sharing her photo.

EmpressaurusKitty · 24/04/2026 07:41

She’s lovely, @Kattekittt. And she looks so comfortable and relaxed.

ElliePhant28 · 24/04/2026 07:46

Freja looks like fantastic company. How did she manage to hide that she was ill?Flowers

Frenchfemme · 24/04/2026 08:57

So sorry you are going through this. My thoughts will be with you and lovely Freya as she crosses the 🌈 bridge out of pain and into peace. 💔🌈💔

PushkaMcgee · 24/04/2026 11:58

Freja is beautiful, I'm so sad you're going through this. I had to say goodbye to my beloved cat Scully 4 weeks ago due to kidney disease and it was heartbreaking so I totally feel your pain, my thoughts are with you x

shellyleppard · 24/04/2026 12:02

@Kattekittt so so sorry. Here if you would like to talk x 🫂🙏❣️

Kattekittt · 24/04/2026 15:58

Thanks so much to all of you for your support. I’m broken it just seems so unfair.
She went downhill over night and I think waited for me to say goodbye this morning. As soon as the vet called to update us we went. I held her and told her what a good cat she was and how much we all love her.

She’s at peace now and playing over the rainbow bridge.

I didn’t want her to suffer but also wanted to give her a chance in case she responded to the medication.

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susiedaisy1912 · 24/04/2026 16:37

Sending you lots of hugs op. I’ve lost two precious cats in the last 4 years and it hurts like hell. Grieve and let it all out and in time you will smile at the memories of her.

Ijwwm · Yesterday 01:39

She was beautiful, am so sorry for your loss. She was blessed to have you to put her needs first and to let her pass peacefully without pain.

susiedaisy1912 · Yesterday 10:25

Thinking of you today op.

Kattekittt · Yesterday 12:40

Thanks all so very much. I was worried I’d be judged for not catching it sooner but honestly she showed no signs at all. Norwegian Forests are warriors and mask any pain so very well. My other animals are looking for her today. They’re sticking to me like glue. I’ve had so many cuddles and kisses from them. I just really miss her so much already.

I’m so sorry for all of you that have been through this, it’s just so rubbish x

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EmpressaurusKitty · Yesterday 12:42

Cats are so good at hiding their pain & you did exactly the right thing for her, @Kattekittt.

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