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Good night little boy

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Puppylucky · 30/04/2025 11:56

My beautiful little boy Elton died last night and I am heartbroken. As I have mentioned here before he was FIV positive and had quite advanced CKD but he was young and strong and coped so well that it lulled us into a false sense of security. Over the last couple of days though he suddenly declined and was clearly very tired and weak. The vet diagnosed severe anaemia on top of the CKD and we were referred for a blood transfusion which would have bought him some time for other treatments to be tried. We drove him for 3 hours to the vetinary hospital and he was such a good boy, sitting quietly in his cage, but the doctors there said there wasn't really anything they could do as his body was basically shutting down. He was put to sleep at 10pm last night and slipped away very peacefully with us there. I'm not sure if he really knew we were there as he was sedated and very weak but I do hope he knew how very loved he was. I can't stop crying today. Here's a photo of the best boy there ever was.

Good night little boy
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Puppylucky · 30/04/2025 18:22

I am overwhelmed by the kindness of you all. It's just me and my DH at home and not many other people ever met Elton so it was easy to think that he lived and died without anyone (apart from us obviously) noticing but you have made me feel that he really did matter - thank you so much it means the world. And just for you @polarsystem here's another photo from my boy's portfolio 🙂

Good night little boy
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PollyCreo · 30/04/2025 19:55

He was a beautiful boy, I loved seeing your photos of him. And a big character too 😼

polarsystem · 30/04/2025 20:00

Puppylucky · 30/04/2025 18:22

I am overwhelmed by the kindness of you all. It's just me and my DH at home and not many other people ever met Elton so it was easy to think that he lived and died without anyone (apart from us obviously) noticing but you have made me feel that he really did matter - thank you so much it means the world. And just for you @polarsystem here's another photo from my boy's portfolio 🙂

Thank you 🐱 🩵
He really was a super gorgeous boy. Thank you for sharing him with us.

Unicorn34 · 30/04/2025 20:02

I'm so sorry for your loss. No matter how young or old they are, it always breaks your heart. He knew you were there. Run free over the bridge little one x

Frontroomroomjungle · 30/04/2025 20:05

I'm so sorry - he landed on his paws with you ❤️

Pianoaholic · 01/05/2025 18:18

I'm so sorry to read this news about your beautiful Elton. What a lovely cat. 💐

CatChant · 01/05/2025 18:25

I am so sorry. What a beautiful little face.

You gave him a lovely life. I hope that knowledge will be a comfort to you.

Be kind to yourselves. Losing them is so very hard.

ShrimpBoil · 01/05/2025 18:28

What a beautiful boy, I'm so sorry for your loss xxx

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 01/05/2025 18:28

Oh yes, he knew you were there. he could smell you - smell is one of the last senses to go.

Puppylucky · 01/05/2025 19:43

Thank you @OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon I know from previous (human) bereavements, that it's the details you obsess about and I was starting to become convinced that he was so out of it, he didn't know we were there. The hospital were amazing, but I didn't realise until it was too late, that they sedated him before they brought him in to say goodbye. I understand why, but I couldn't help worrying that we didn't have a genuine moment of connection to say goodbye. I know that's silly and a Hollywood fantasy so apologies.

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Breadcat24 · 01/05/2025 19:52

so sorry he was loved

spicemaiden · 01/05/2025 20:12

Bless him.

nigh night Elton 💐

Pudmyboy · 01/05/2025 22:05

Oh I am so sorry to hear about Elton, what a gorgeous boy, I can understand your devastation 💐💐💐 Remember the good times and love he gave you and you gave him, that will never fade ❤️❤️❤️

thismummyslife · 01/05/2025 22:11

What a beautiful boy, I’m so sorry for your loss. Of course he knew you were there, and he knew you were by his side no matter what. He would have been ready to go and knew he was loved deeply. Our beautiful fur babies touch our hearts forever, sending love and healing to you, it really is hard, pet people understand 🩷 you did the right thing and if he had his life again he wouldn’t change a thing xx

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