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I want to go to bed but I'm cat trapped...

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SingingSands · 07/10/2024 22:14

Anyone else?!

Brought this little lady home almost two weeks ago (she belonged to my colleague and friend of 22 years, who died suddenly). She has really taken to me and comes to sit on my lap every evening. I'm delighted - have been a cat owner for nearly 25 years and this is the first time I've ever had a lap cat!

I don't want to disturb her!

I want to go to bed but I'm cat trapped...
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LouH5 · 07/10/2024 22:34

Awww, little black cats are so loving and precious!

I know how you feel, this is my life too! My little girl runs in the room as soon as she hears the sofa creak as I sit on it, she can’t wait to curl up and sleep on me 🥰

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SingingSands · 07/10/2024 22:41

I feel like it's a real honour! Especially as I wasn't expecting her to be a lap cat. She's absolutely fast asleep and I'm still here!

Have never had an all-black cat before. They're quite difficult to photograph aren't they?!

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Toddlerteaplease · 07/10/2024 22:42

Since my other cat was rehomed last week. Penelope has become my shadow. She's forgotten the concept of personal space. It's lovely to see her happy again after being absolutely terrified of Paddington.

I want to go to bed but I'm cat trapped...
I want to go to bed but I'm cat trapped...
largeprintagathachristie · 07/10/2024 22:44

She is lovely!
I was so lucky that my cat was a lap cat - I was often trapped!

BlackCatsAreBrilliant · 07/10/2024 22:49

I feel your pain, although a DC doing forgotten, but due tomorrow homework is the bigger issue.

Btw, the cats are gorgeous.

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Littletreefrog · 07/10/2024 22:54

Aww my now departed black cat was the most cuddly cat I've ever had the pleasure of being owned by. I was never cat trapped by him though because 10pm on the dot he removed himself from my knee and demanded we go to bed so he could sleep tucked under my chin all night.

BobGalaxy · 07/10/2024 23:03

My boy isn't a lap cat but he's taken to snoozing with his head in my hand, so I am currently stuck leaning at a 45 degree while my back seizes up and my arm goes dead. I'm not moving though, naturally.

I want to go to bed but I'm cat trapped...
SingingSands · 07/10/2024 23:34

Of course you can't move @BobGalaxy! You must remain in position until Sir grants you leave 😆

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rainbowlou · 07/10/2024 23:35

Pop a pillow behind your head, that’s your bed for tonight now I’m afraid 😊

SingingSands · 07/10/2024 23:36

Penelope looks very content there @Toddlerteaplease, gorgeous girl.

@BlackCatsAreBrilliant - perfect user name! Hope the painful homework was completed - my DS also seems to favour shortly before midnight for completing homework...

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Dilbertian · 07/10/2024 23:55

Can't possibly get up when you are incapussytated.

Though no doubt she will follow you up and spoon you in bed.

Or sit on you. And then you won't be able to turn over because you will, again, be incapussytated.

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xxxjanxxx · 07/10/2024 23:56

@SingingSands I don't want to disturb her

There's no hope! You have to stay in that position now until she decides she wants to go out - usually at 3am.

I'm sure that's not a problem 😂

One of my cats trained me not to move at all in bed ALL NIGHT while he slept in the bended crook of my legs.
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I repeat - ALL NIGHT!

And I never moved an inch! ......

he trained me well :)

Beamur · 08/10/2024 00:01

At this point my DD usually rescues me as she has no shame in plucking a sleeping cat off my lap. They don't seem to hold any grudges as they then get treats before bedtime..

beezlebubnicky · 08/10/2024 00:02

What a sweet little cat! It's lovely that you took her in and sorry about your friend ❤️. Loving all the beautiful cats in this thread.

The rule is that you CANNOT MOVE. The furry overlords have spoken.

Here are my two - our rambunctious and extroverted one who hops up onto your lap/shoulder/foot whenever she feels like it (and demands cuddles); and sweet and shy little one, who is more nervous and will only be a lap cat on her terms,

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I want to go to bed but I'm cat trapped...
purpleme12 · 08/10/2024 00:04

Wow that's a long time to not have a lap cat!

He is very cute! ❤️

IBegYourBiggestPardon · 08/10/2024 00:44

BobGalaxy · 07/10/2024 23:03

My boy isn't a lap cat but he's taken to snoozing with his head in my hand, so I am currently stuck leaning at a 45 degree while my back seizes up and my arm goes dead. I'm not moving though, naturally.

Aww he looks just like my late DCat Felix 🥰

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I want to go to bed but I'm cat trapped...
I want to go to bed but I'm cat trapped...
purpleme12 · 08/10/2024 00:46

Aww he's adorable

LouH5 · 08/10/2024 18:10

YES I find my black cat so tricky to photograph, her features just disappear and she looks like a shadow 🤣🤣

Pudmyboy · 08/10/2024 19:45

My late little love Pud occasionally fell asleep in my hand, I was in a state of ecstatic cramp till he woke!

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JoanOgden · 08/10/2024 20:24

My black cat has a special meow which means "For heaven's sake, stop rushing around and sit down so I can go to sleep on your lap."

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Itsallinyourhead2022 · 08/10/2024 20:30

This is my current situation.

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Esgaroth · 08/10/2024 23:51

Trapped by my poor coned cat, who miraculously still likes me despite the fact I made him wear this horrible thing and keep applying antiseptic cream to his leg. He's such a darling.

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worriedhidinginplainsight · 09/10/2024 00:28

I suffer from insomnia because of my gorgeous fluffy boy cat. As soon as I get into bed he climbs on top of me, snuggles in and falls asleep....It's so adorable. It's always the loveliest time of my day. But then I need to move into a more comfortable position for me to fall asleep, however I can't bear to disturb him! So I'm awake while he sleeps soundly. I wouldn't change it for the world

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LostMySocks · 09/10/2024 21:36

My grandmother had a rule. If a cat was in your lap then it couldn't be disturbed. We all encouraged them to come for a rest around washing up time as it was a legitimate excuse.
Didn't seem to stop bedtime though

HamishMcbethsDog · 09/10/2024 21:53

Aww my first cat was all black. She was the most loving amazing cat I will ever be ruled by. She was pts 7 years ago and still shed a tear for her and miss her even now. We now have another rescue cat. she is much loved and a total princess, she is not as much of a lap cat, but shes learning to appreciate cuddles.

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