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Can boy cats “cum” after they’ve been neutered?

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VisaWoes · 28/10/2023 07:43

My 3yo cat has been done but he is obsessed by the furry blanket on my bed and spends half his life humping it. He humps it for a bit, then licks his penis for a bit, then goes back to humping.

He seems to have a bit of a quiver at times and I’m worried he’s having an orgasm and jizzing on the blanket. Blanket is dark brown, I can’t see anything on it and don’t particularly want to feel for a wet patch. Why does he do this, shouldn’t he be a eunuch with no sexual thoughts?

I’m just contemplating how often I need to be washing the blanket!

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neverwakeasleepingbaby · 28/10/2023 07:46

Hahahahaha. Sorry, I have no idea, but my neutered boy cat likes to suck himself off. He purrs as he licks himself aggressively, like he's in a trance. I told the vet once and she just laughed and said "men".
He's a delightful cat the rest of the time

VisaWoes · 28/10/2023 07:48

Well at least it’s not just my cat who’s a dirty boy! 😁🙈. I’ve only had girl cats before!

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warmmfeet · 28/10/2023 07:49

My dog has been neutered and he still gets a massive disgusting boner sometimes and humps cushions. So I have been wondering the same thing 🤢

Stresa22 · 28/10/2023 07:49

My old boy would make love to a slipper I was given for Christmas. Carried it around with him. 🤣

OctogenarianDecathlete · 28/10/2023 08:07

I've always had female cats. Till now. I didn't know this was a thing with cats! 😬

We've got a nearly one year old massive boy. He was neutered at 5 months, which I thought might be too early. But here's hoping it was early enough to avoid this! 🤞

silentpool · 28/10/2023 08:09

My boy cat was done early. He did get erections and did some humping but does not seem to do that any more

GerundTheBehemoth · 28/10/2023 08:33

My friend's cat, a neutered female, is also an enthusiastic blanket-humper.

itwasdifferentinthe90s · 28/10/2023 08:41

Mumsnet never fails to amaze

Sunflowersinthewind · 28/10/2023 08:44

It could be worse OP, it could be your arm. Not sure about ejaculation though, I notice definite wet patches on my jumper sometimes.

GonnaGetGoingReturns · 28/10/2023 08:54

No idea but male cats I’ve had have definitely had urges (and acted accordingly) to the disgust (or not!) of female cats.

MothralovesGojira · 28/10/2023 09:23

Yes, my neutered boy does this but only with one particular (and expensive) fluffy blanket. He does it when we go to bed a few nights a week but doesn't leave anything behind so it's more like a dry hump. He only does it in autumn/winter months as I think that he's too tired in spring/summer from running around all day.
Our vet said that some do it and some don't and that it's myth that neutered cats lose all of their sexuality and that dry humping was normal in some boys. He also added that some female cats are more likely to overly rub themselves up against people sinuously periodically instead.
He's 10 now so I just ignore him while he does it and we pretend between us that we can't see each other!

VisaWoes · 28/10/2023 09:50

Well I’ve googled and apparently they can still ejaculate. Just no sperm in the fluid. It’s the quivering that makes me think he’s ejaculating, really looks like he’s having an orgasm. 🙈

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CesareBorgia · 28/10/2023 09:54

Yes - just as humans can if they have been castrated or had an oophorectomy.

Increasinglyfrazzledteacher · 28/10/2023 09:59

I had a neutered male cat that used to hump my arm. His erect penis looked like a little cactus but he never produced any seminal fluid. He also used to spray around the house but the gunk he produced didn’t have any odour. It ruined several books and CD covers, though.

LilacpointMummy · 28/10/2023 12:09

My DD's male cat knows exactly what to do - once when he was here for his holidays one of ours came on heat (his mum!) and he was totally in there 😨

He was neutered as soon as he was old enough but it hasn't stopped him!

HelpMeGetThrough · 28/10/2023 12:16

That the last time my neighbours cat comes near me when I've got my fleece on, he might get ideas!!

CesareBorgia · 28/10/2023 12:19

LilacpointMummy · 28/10/2023 12:09

My DD's male cat knows exactly what to do - once when he was here for his holidays one of ours came on heat (his mum!) and he was totally in there 😨

He was neutered as soon as he was old enough but it hasn't stopped him!

My boy fathered kittens with his sister before he was rescued - he was barely out of kittenhood himself! The sister was rehomed first so their kittens were with him in foster and clearly adored him - happily the kittens were rehomed in pairs shortly after he came to me, as the fosterer said they'd been missing him.

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