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I am at the vets with my old, now ill cat and very sad

26 replies

Blarn · 25/07/2023 09:56

She is nearly15 and has been a fantastic pet. Recently loosing weight but eating fine, very happy. The last couple of days she has been breathing fast, her tummy is going up and down, last night was panting, restless. Gone off food, struggling to walk this morning. Vet has managed to fit her in as an emergency. We've agreed not to keep her alive longer than is kind. My poor lovely cat.

OP posts:
Iamacatslave · 25/07/2023 10:55

Sorry your are going through this heartache.💐

Tidsleytiddy · 25/07/2023 11:32

Oh bless you. Horrible time x

spiderlight · 25/07/2023 11:33

So sorry - it's awful when they get old and ill. She's a grand old age, though, so you've obviously loved her and looked after her really well.

CatChant · 25/07/2023 11:39

I am so sorry. It’s the price we pay for loving them but it doesn’t really make it easier.

Be gentle with yourself.

PopOrStop · 25/07/2023 12:01

💝

NoraLuka · 25/07/2023 12:03

I’m so sorry, it’s the worst part of having a pet.

Iwishmynamewassheilah · 25/07/2023 12:08

I’ve been there a few times. But, it’s an act of kindness to give them a gentle exit from their discomfort. Heartbreaking, though.

Blarn · 25/07/2023 12:41

She died while I was there with her. They put her into an oxygen tent to make her comfortable but the stress of the five minute drive and being in the vets probably speed it up. But I think she would have died slowly at home anyway. But up until the last couple of days she has been happy and active.

We got her from a shelter after she was found in a bin with her kittens at about a year old. She has had a lovely life and her last little meal was some creamy milk and some of that chicken flavoured cat yoghurt.

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Thisweeksname · 25/07/2023 12:45

So sorry for your loss 💐thank you for giving her a lovely happy life. Be kind to yourself and take some time to relax ❤

LouisCatorze · 25/07/2023 12:48

So sorry for your loss @Blarn

Blarn · 25/07/2023 12:49

Thank you everyone. Going to have to tell the children in a bit. They are 8 and 6 so could be really upset, could be totally not bothered. I am definitely going to have one of them asking if we can have a hamster now though, I am ready for that!

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YesItsMeIDontCare · 25/07/2023 12:51

Sending you love Blarn. Take comfort in the knowledge that she had a wonderful life thanks to you 💐

SallyWD · 25/07/2023 13:08

I'm so sorry. That's heartbreaking. When I lost my beloved cat I got so much comfort from the fact we gave her a happy life full of love.

Toddlerteaplease · 25/07/2023 15:44

So sorry. I have a nasty feeling I'm
Going to be in this position very soon with my girl.

Toddlerteaplease · 25/07/2023 15:46

Sounds like she had a wonderful life. Ps. A hamster is much harder work than a cat, for less reward!

kraftyKitten · 25/07/2023 15:48

God bless your cat x

missfliss · 25/07/2023 15:48

She sounds like a lovely much loved sweetheart.
She was loved and cared for the whole way though and lived a wonderful pussy cat life.

Big hugs and sorry for your loss

Thelonelygiraffe · 25/07/2023 15:48

Sending you sympathy, op. Your old girl had a lovely life and a pretty good death. Big hugs.

TheLongRider · 25/07/2023 15:59

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's ok to be upset, she was more than just a pet.

cinnamonfrenchtoast · 25/07/2023 16:01

So sorry OP, it's awful having to say goodbye.

Sending you a massive hug x

user1471556818 · 25/07/2023 16:02

Sending you a hug it's so hard when they pass

Emmamoo89 · 25/07/2023 16:16

So sorry for your loss. Sending love ❤️

Fernticket · 28/07/2023 19:09

So sorry for your loss OP. I feel your pain having gone this 3 weeks ago. Sending you hugs.

soddingkitten · 28/07/2023 23:13

How sad for all of you. 😞 She’s sounds like she was a grand old dame who made the most of her early reprieve by living a full and cherished life. 💐

ChaToilLeam · 28/07/2023 23:15

I’m so sorry, love. 💐 She had a lovely life and her end was peaceful, happy and loved until the end.

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