Our rescue has started going next door and meowing outside their door until they open up. He's friends with their cat (they used to hate each other but seem to get on now). He goes at the exact time every evening and they usually text to let us know he's outside, or got in and refusing to leave.
At the same time, he's become really moody with us. No head bumps, no pets, etc but is still wanting food and is here at night and during the day to sleep. I'm really sad because he's not affectionate with us but I've seen videos of him at their house where he seems so attentive ! Little bugger.
Our house is a calm one and we dote on him so I don't know why he's suddenly decided he prefers next door. Am I being petty? How can I win him back? I've tried dreamies and his fave smelly sticks but nothing wins him over. He just scoffs the treats then goes next door again.