I thought this was standard- I flop half a pouch into each of their bowls, they have a little exploratory lick then sit back and wait for me to cut it into bite size pieces. But when we went on holiday last year and a girl from DP's work fed them, I saw from pictures she sent us of them that she had just squeezed the whole pouch into a bowl and left it.. then yesterday I was talking to some friends about their cat and they don't cut the wet food up either! Am I adding an unnecessary level of pandering? What do you do?