Hi all. I have a 2 year old neutered tom who thinks he's a human/we're big cats (not sure which!). DC2 is being delivered next thurs by C-Section and will hopefully be home by the weekend. I'm getting anxious that the cat will get jealous and take it out on baby or run away/start to avoid coming home. He will be shut out of the bedroom for the first time and generally be confused by the intruder, but to what ends?
I had a moody old girl when DC1 was born 6.5 years ago but she wasn't a people-cat so never really seemed to care other than idle curiousity. I'm worried that this time around will be different? Doesn't help that DH is not a cat lover and although he's fond of him he's very much, "get him off the bed.. There's fur everywhere.. Don't leave the window open for him he brings mice in (true..)", so I already feel like I have to take sides 😅
Any and all advice gratefully received.
(Picture of my lovely boy Eachus included 😊)
Thank you in advance.