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I really don't need this

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PinkSparklyPussyCat · 03/12/2018 16:10

Please can my lovely Litter Tray friends calm me down? DH and I are away at the moment and Harry is with his cat sitter. We thought all was well until we realised that he's only been getting really short visits, one was 2 minutes, another was 4 minutes. (We've got a Ring doorbell and we'd had a couple of alerts, we were not checking up)

I feel so guilty that he's not getting the care he deserves. I'm not doing anything to rock the boat while we're away as I need him to be fed but I'll have to do something when we're back. I hate confrontation and I really don't know the best way to handle this.

I just want to cuddle him and make sure he's ok

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GhostSauce · 07/12/2018 19:38

Oh that's so difficult pink. Is something going on in her life at the moment that is causing her to be less diligent? Does she know about the ring doorbell?

I don't doubt the must care for Harry very much, if she'd be happy to rehome him. That's why I wonder if she has some problems right now. But of course you must prioritise Harry. I wouldn't be happy either if I were you.

Tom has a year drama and insurance claim free! Still minor vet trips for mouse chewing tooth related stuff though. Daft boy.

He has a new shoebox so he's grand

I really don't need this
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