I have a thread in chat about leaving my husband and the ensuing accommodation dilemma (won't bore you with the details here).
The ideal scenario is that we stay in the family house, but that might not be possible.
I have somewhere to move to with DD, but it's a first floor flat, and I just don't think it's going to be suitable for my lovely ginger boy 
There is access onto some rooftops at the back, which I think are uninterrupted for some way back. The front of the flat overlooks the high street, so obviously I don't want him going anywhere near there, but I think it would be quite tricky for him to access it from the back of the property. Behind the building, it's densely built little streets and alleyways, and the next busy road is some distance away.
It's been suggested that as he's only two, he won't find it too hard to adapt to such a new environment, but at the moment, he's used to spending all day out in the garden and lording it over all the other local cats.
He follows me up and down out quiet street, but always stops and turns back when we get to the main road.
I don't think I can face moving without my daft kitty. But the only alternative is a big scuffle over the house with STBX.
Any suggestions?
Thank you 