So fed up - any advice?

[LadyFuchsiaGroan]

Next door neighbours have decided they don't want their cat any more so have left him outside. Poor little tom cat spends all his time crying outside my back door desperately trying to get in.

This has been going on since November. I have a neutered female cat who due to this not neutered cat refuses to go out and is getting so upset she has started messing in our kitchen.

Poor little cat is breaking my heart but this whole situation is getting me down, he is waking my toddler every night with his crying - various animal shelters wont take him in due to space and the general conversations seem to go why dont you just keep him. Cats protection were so rude when I phoned telling me if its not my cat its not their problem and to get owners to sort out a new home for him (yeah because people who can just dump their cat like that are going to do that).

[LadyFuchsiaGroan]

I am close to Aberdare - that would be brilliant Ruhrpott

[Aphie]

If you have low income, ask your vets if they do cats protection neutering. It cost me £10 for my former stray to be done. Other than that have you read up on introducing 2 cats to each other ie separate rooms, let him out for set times to get them used to each other and I found feeding mine together helped them settle together. This is all assuming you wish to keep him of course.

[Ruhrpott]

I've sent you a pm with her number