I noticed this morning that one of my cats was scratching his ears, twitching his ears and shaking his head a lot this morning. I had a closer look and saw what I thought were very small black bugs, I assumed that he's just picked up somethng from sitting in a bush (or whatever they get up to when they're out and about). This evening,he doesnt seem to have got much better, and I can tell that he's starting to get frustrated. I've googled, and now think that they are ear mites. I have twocats, the other seems to be fine. I have given them both some flea drops this afternoon. While I wait for a vet's apt, is there anything that I can do to relieve the poor soul? :(