The background is that we mentioned "snark" in reference to a comment spaniels made on a thread about a badly trained Labrador.
The second "snark" was me on a random what puppy thread, where I was told that old breeds have no role any more and that my dog is a dinosaur.
Neither of these was a reference to doodles at all.
The sole reference to doodles was in relation to a puppy farm, it could have been any breed - Cocker, Labrador or Goldie, but just happened, on this occasion, to be Australian Labradoodles. So Nella took offence at that and asked us not to talk about it but Landsharks felt that we shouldn't be censored because it has relevance here.
And now I see you're all making little barbed digs about someone who was far and away the most experienced dog person here and often the best placed to offer advice.
So this has seemingly gone today from being a non judgement thread to everyone feeling judged; Nella with her doodle, @SpanielsGalore because hers are from a trialling background not a breeder, so I may as well add my own two pennorth and say that I feel judged on this thread because I don't let Brie off the lead.
I thought it was a safe haven here, because everywhere else on mn I seem to be facing the "big dogs are dangerous" viewpoint, and Landsharks at least understood how hard that is.
So now I don't know if it's worth the effort if it's all just training talk and nothing more.