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owners of 'big' dogs, can you talk to me please

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bunnyfears · 10/02/2025 14:47

I have an 18 month old rottweiler. she is a big smooch. she loves all other dogs and most people. her recall is 98% great.

she does 3 things that are undesirable...

  1. she will bark at some passersby if she is sat in the car (waiting to leave). I can live with this

  2. if a man takes her by suprise, she will bark. so for example, appearing out of the bushes, in the woods etc. I'm pretty ok with this also, because we got her for safety having encountered too many weird men out walking/intruder (me and 3 daughters)

  3. she will chase after male runners and bark 😬...this is the one that is getting us into trouble. it's not aggressive but it definitely sounds aggressive if you don't really know dogs. many people are great, stop running, give her a fuss and it diffuses into nothing. but as you can imagine, some people are furious. I don't really want to keep her on a lead because 1) it happens maybe once a fortnight (haven't worked out what it is about some men that brings this response as opposed to others that she ignores or can be distracted from and 2) it's ot actually aggressive

because it's not consistent I'm at a bit of a loss

interested in other people's experiences and how they have dealt with inconsistent/occasional unwanted behaviours

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MuttsNutts · 10/02/2025 15:28

bunnyfears · 10/02/2025 15:24

yep, so this is where I am struggling. we are often in the park when there is park run. we live in a city, so most of our dog walking places have lots of runners as well. it's not a consistent problem AT ALL

Maybe, what I am asking is ...can anyone help identify what potential triggers are for this? why some people and not the 50 people we just passed by with no issues?

Could be anything, their smell, the way they run, that they took the dog by surprise, anything at all. But your dog can’t tell you and even if she could, it wouldn’t make any difference. You need to keep her on a lead.

I love dogs but if a Rottweiler I didn’t know started chasing me, I wouldn’t be hanging around to find out whether it was a “smooch” or not.

You chose to get a dog that a high proportion of people will be wary of so you need to take responsibility and keep her on a lead.

bunnyfears · 10/02/2025 15:29

Dogsandcatsandamousetoo · 10/02/2025 15:16

"interested in other people's experiences and how they have dealt with inconsistent/occasional unwanted behaviours"

By training and keeping the dog on a lead or long lead, that's how.

You have to keep your dog on a lead because of point 2 and point 3 of your OP. It's not in anyway ok for your dog to bark at people or chase them. You risk having your dog reported as dangerous.

you can't report a dog for barking. and if we had a visit from the dog warden, they would assess her as not being a dangerous dog, because she isn't

I am very ok with her barking at men that appear suddenly due to previous experiences

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Pootles34 · 10/02/2025 15:29

Please, please keep her on a lead. This would really terrify me and put me off running.

We should be able to go out safely on the streets without this sort of shit, tbh.

Actually, the fact that you're talking about being afraid of weird men out and about is ironic, when you are walking around with a dog like that.

I'm sure your dog is lovely, and if I knew you and your dog would be more than happy to say hello and have a cuddle, but as a runner, a rottweiler barking at you and chasing you? You must see how that would look?

bunnyfears · 10/02/2025 15:31

ACynicalDad · 10/02/2025 15:06

If your dog chased me running I'd take a photo and send it to the dog warden as a minimum, I may call the police. If someone says my Rotty is friendly I wouldn't believe them, your point number two is also a major issue. That is a dog that should only be off the lead in a dog park.

I don't bother to tell anyone she is friendly anymore because as you say people don't believe it is true/don't care

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JackieGoodman · 10/02/2025 15:32

@hehehesorry excellent post

ForestFox44 · 10/02/2025 15:32

hehehesorry · 10/02/2025 15:28

She's a normal rott reaching maturity, most undesirable behaviours in guard breeds will come out at 18 months - 3 yrs. You chose a rott and need to treat it like one, especially now she's reaching maturity. That means if she's acting as she should according to her breed and barking at people who are acting "not in line", she's only off in secure fields or somewhere very out of the way you have visited several times and know that nobody goes there, with a good line of sight in all directions. You say it's once a fortnight but she's fulfilling her genetic purpose each time she does this and it's extremely rewarding to a guard breed, so every time she can do this the behaviour will get stronger and happen more often.

You can still socialise her with the above, but it should be on a lead so she can meet people and other dogs, but a rottweiller who acts true to breed shouldn't be loose to do what it pleases and her off leash time should be given appropriately.

Rotts can also be prone to same sex aggression and she's becoming a fully fledged adult now, so don't be surprised if the aggressive behaviour starts extending to other dogs who are acting "not in line", ie dogs who don't take kindly to her going over to see them. The problem with you letting a large dog like this free is she might not take kindly to a smaller reactive dog being aggressive and do damage, especially if she thinks she's protecting you from a reactive dog protecting its space. Chasing and barking is aggressive whether you want to admit it or not, easy going dogs don't do this.

I've had large guard breeds and sometimes you get flukes in the breed who are congenial and friendly with everyone like a golden, but it's not necessarily something you can just train/socialise into a guarding breed, sometimes it's just their nature and you need to manage vs change. If you had a problem with strange men a large show line black lab would have been a better deterrent, rotts can be challenging dogs.

Absolutely agree, my rottie used to be good with other dogs, strangers etc until he reached 18 months. He's had extensive training and unfortunately now does not really like unknown males and is not keen on other dogs. For this reason he's kept on lead with halti and muzzle and only ever off in the secure field. Rotties are wonder and loving and i could do anything with him... but they are hard work and definitely fulfil what they are bred for!

Hopeallwillbefine · 10/02/2025 15:33

bunnyfears · 10/02/2025 15:19

I AM hypervigilant for runners, and she only does this occasionally, which is why it isn't often a problem...if we are taken by suprise

I wouldn’t consider once a fortnight ‘occasional’, I’d consider it a regular occurrence.

You dog is regularly chasing runners. It’s really not okay. I would report you immediately if I witnessed this.

Dogsandcatsandamousetoo · 10/02/2025 15:33

Levriers · 10/02/2025 15:23

About once a fortnight is loads ! Has to stay on a lead I’m afraid

Yes and the more she gets to practice the behaviour the harder it will be to train her out of it. She has go be kept on a lead from now on.

@ForestFox44 gave some good advice about desensitisation above and ppl have mentioned secure fields where she can be off lead. Keep her on lead the rest of the time as it's very scary to have a strange rottweiler barking at you or chasing you.

LandSharksAnonymous · 10/02/2025 15:33

bunnyfears · 10/02/2025 15:29

you can't report a dog for barking. and if we had a visit from the dog warden, they would assess her as not being a dangerous dog, because she isn't

I am very ok with her barking at men that appear suddenly due to previous experiences

Intimidating people with your dog makes you the sort of person who 100% shouldn't have a dog. Previous bad experiences are no excuse to have an out of control dog.

Why have you even posted? You clearly don't care - because you want the dog to intimidate people - you can't have some undesirable behaviours without the others, I'm afraid.

There is a reason why CPDs go through extensive training from properly vetted, educated, and knowledgable professionals and not from Peggy and Dave from Essex.

Dogsandcatsandamousetoo · 10/02/2025 15:34

JackieGoodman · 10/02/2025 15:32

@hehehesorry excellent post

Agree, great post

bunnyfears · 10/02/2025 15:35

Pootles34 · 10/02/2025 15:29

Please, please keep her on a lead. This would really terrify me and put me off running.

We should be able to go out safely on the streets without this sort of shit, tbh.

Actually, the fact that you're talking about being afraid of weird men out and about is ironic, when you are walking around with a dog like that.

I'm sure your dog is lovely, and if I knew you and your dog would be more than happy to say hello and have a cuddle, but as a runner, a rottweiler barking at you and chasing you? You must see how that would look?

yes, I do know it isn't acceptable which is why I am in the process of training her out of it. and hence here, asking for other people's experiences of training out occasional behaviours

we definitely SHOULD be able to go out on the street without being terrified or being attacked. which is why we have an intimidating dog. to keep the men away.

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Levriers · 10/02/2025 15:35

You can report a dog that makes you feel threatened. It doesn’t have to attack. So actually yes they can report for barking & chasing a runner

Joystir59 · 10/02/2025 15:36

I'd be absolutely terrified if a Rottie barked and chased after me. I love dogs including other people's dogs but this would scare the bejesus out of me and I'd be furious with you.

Hopeallwillbefine · 10/02/2025 15:37

You’re intimidating others, don’t you understand that? Runners need to go out without being terrified too.
How bloody dare you in fact?

bunnyfears · 10/02/2025 15:37

LandSharksAnonymous · 10/02/2025 15:33

Intimidating people with your dog makes you the sort of person who 100% shouldn't have a dog. Previous bad experiences are no excuse to have an out of control dog.

Why have you even posted? You clearly don't care - because you want the dog to intimidate people - you can't have some undesirable behaviours without the others, I'm afraid.

There is a reason why CPDs go through extensive training from properly vetted, educated, and knowledgable professionals and not from Peggy and Dave from Essex.

of course you can have an intimidating dog that is well trained and rid of unwanted behaviours. she is intimidating just because of her breed. I don't care what you think of me for having her, she keeps us safe. I am asking for very specific training advice about occasional behaviours. do you have any experience of that?

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Joystir59 · 10/02/2025 15:38

You in fact WANT a dangerous dog to scare off weird men. You are the problem. You need a breed specific behaviourist to help you work through this.

carly2803 · 10/02/2025 15:40

you need to keep her on a lead

If your dog ran at me i would take a photo, report it being dangerously out of control and you would risk losing her.

Don't take the chance, get a trainer and sort it properly- in the meantime, keep her on a lead even if it is a small chance of her recall failure!

LandSharksAnonymous · 10/02/2025 15:40

bunnyfears · 10/02/2025 15:37

of course you can have an intimidating dog that is well trained and rid of unwanted behaviours. she is intimidating just because of her breed. I don't care what you think of me for having her, she keeps us safe. I am asking for very specific training advice about occasional behaviours. do you have any experience of that?

Except you can't, can you?

You've got an out of control dog chasing people and barking at them. It's not occasional behaviours, it's at least every other week - that you're admitting to. So let's be honest, it's probably far more than that.

She's not intimidating because of her breed. She's intimidating because she has a novice, incompetent, deluded, nitwit for an owner who is treating her like a weapon.

Having her does not keep you safe - a knife can kill stab a dog. A gun can still kill a dog. A sharp choke with a lead can still kill a dog. She's easily dispensable to a properly motivated person - particularly as she has no formal training to make her a guard dog.

Dogsandcatsandamousetoo · 10/02/2025 15:40

bunnyfears · 10/02/2025 15:29

you can't report a dog for barking. and if we had a visit from the dog warden, they would assess her as not being a dangerous dog, because she isn't

I am very ok with her barking at men that appear suddenly due to previous experiences

Actually, you can. If a person feels threatened and fears they might be injured by your dog they can report. A large, barking Rottweiler can be terrifying to many people, especially if the dog isn't on a lead.

"It’s against the law to let a dog be dangerously out of control anywhere, such as:

  • in a public place
  • in a private place, for example a neighbour’s house or garden
  • in the owner’s home
The law applies to all dogs. You can report a dog that’s out of control. Some types of dogs are banned. XL Bully dogs are now banned in England and Wales. Check what to do if you own an XL Bully dog. Out of control Your dog is considered dangerously out of control if it:
  • injures someone
  • makes someone worried that it might injure them
A court could also decide that your dog is dangerously out of control if either of the following apply:
  • it attacks someone’s animal
  • the owner of an animal thinks they could be injured if they tried to stop your dog attacking their animal" From gov.uk
bunnyfears · 10/02/2025 15:40

Hopeallwillbefine · 10/02/2025 15:37

You’re intimidating others, don’t you understand that? Runners need to go out without being terrified too.
How bloody dare you in fact?

well maybe men that flash and proposition women and girls and break into people's houses shouldn't be allowed, then we wouldn't need a bloody big dog would we. they do it regardless of our small dog

she is not aggressive. I am asking for specific training advice about addressing occasional behaviours

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bunnyfears · 10/02/2025 15:42

Dogsandcatsandamousetoo · 10/02/2025 15:40

Actually, you can. If a person feels threatened and fears they might be injured by your dog they can report. A large, barking Rottweiler can be terrifying to many people, especially if the dog isn't on a lead.

"It’s against the law to let a dog be dangerously out of control anywhere, such as:

  • in a public place
  • in a private place, for example a neighbour’s house or garden
  • in the owner’s home
The law applies to all dogs. You can report a dog that’s out of control. Some types of dogs are banned. XL Bully dogs are now banned in England and Wales. Check what to do if you own an XL Bully dog. Out of control Your dog is considered dangerously out of control if it:
  • injures someone
  • makes someone worried that it might injure them
A court could also decide that your dog is dangerously out of control if either of the following apply:
  • it attacks someone’s animal
  • the owner of an animal thinks they could be injured if they tried to stop your dog attacking their animal" From gov.uk

she isn't dangerously out of control.

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Unforgettablefire · 10/02/2025 15:43

If your dog is chasing people then she's out of control, and no matter how friendly she is nobody wants a rottie they don't know legging it after them.
I love big dogs it would still unsettle me no matter what breed because you just don't know.
Just thinking of you and the dog, put a lead on her until she's 100%.

Dogsandcatsandamousetoo · 10/02/2025 15:44

bunnyfears · 10/02/2025 15:42

she isn't dangerously out of control.

As it says above your dog can be deemed out of control if the dog

  • makes someone worried that it might injure them
You're letting your dog scare people!
MumChp · 10/02/2025 15:45

I would report a Rottweiler that was chasing after me.
I grew up with Rottweilers as a family dog. I know they are wonderful. I also know how potentially dangerous they can be in the wrong hands and as a runner I don't know your dog/you.

Joystir59 · 10/02/2025 15:47

Yes she is. When she's chasing after someone and barking at them she is dangerously out of control.

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