Me: can anyone recommend a breeder please as I want avoid puppy farms.
MN know it alls: you won't be able to get a dog from a reputable breeder. It's impossible. You will only be able to buy a cockapoo from a puppy farm.
Me: there are reputable breeders and that's why I'm asking for recommendations otherwise I'd just click on the next ad I see on Facebook.
MN know it alls: no you won't. You're going to buy from a puppy farm. We know you are, this is all just nonsense you're speaking. You don't know what we know. We are the all knowing.
Me: ideally I'd like a black or tuxedo cockapoo
MN know it all: scoffs. Who do you think you are? The dog chooses you my dear, everyone knows that. You cannot choose a colour. Why do you want too any way? Is it to match you hair OP? Oops. She really doesn't know anything does she. We are so much more knowing than her. We would never pick a dog based on its colour as we are so much better than that.
Me: Er, it's just a preference. My children like black dogs. Plenty of people pick dogs based on colour amongst other factors.
MN know it alls : anyway OP, why do you want a cockapoo. They are the only dogs bred in puppy farms and are solely responsible for all misery. You are evil OP for even thinking of this franke- stein cross. We are superior and only have rescue dogs. Your dog will be plagued with disease.
Me: I've read up about various dogs and the cockapoo fits well with what we want. I was reading a research paper this morning which actually said cross breeds have less hereditary disease. www.instituteofcaninebiology.org/blog/health-of-purebred-vs-mixed-breed-dogs-the-data
MN know it alls : you silly girl. OP, you are very stupid.
Me: okaaayyy
MN know it alls : as we know you are stupid we are now going to impart lots of unsolicited advice that you weren't asking for.
Me: I know cockapoos needs alot of training and occupying. I also know what I need to ask a breeder when I meet them and what they should be asking me. I just want some personal recommendations for a breeder so I can go and research them.
MN know it alls : we won't hear of it OP. You know nothing. There is no such thing as a repuatable breeder of cockapoos.
Me : headbutts nearest wall.


Anyway, I'm going to visit a breeder next week. One of her cockerspaniels is pregnant so we're going to check out her set up and see what sort of questions she asks and so on. She's already asked quite a bit and I can see she has great references from various sources. Seems like a good starting point. Thank you for the recommendation from one of the people who PM'd me.
I'll be sure to come back in a few months with photos for the MN know it alls. 