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Young Puppy Support Group

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DuchessDarty · 31/05/2019 16:01

I’d been looking for one of these but the only puppy support thread currently running is for older puppies. I’ve seen a few threads recently from posters who have new puppies like me, and thought I’d start our own group as I’d love to compare notes. But all welcome!

To kick off -

My pup, DartyPup, is a female poodle cross who is nearly 11 weeks old. Very sweet, friendly, fairly calm, sleeps a good stretch at night in her crate no problem and is happy to play in the garden by herself if I’m in the kitchen/conservatory and we easily have eyes on each other. She has a lot of naps and is doing well with house training.

But- she has the usual puppy traits of being needy and nippy. She loves biting bare toes and has a witching hour in the evening (as another poster aptly describes it!).

I adore the bond we seem to have bit am finding it draining. My children are old enough to be hands on and are keen to be, but their periods of peak energy don’t always correspond with the Pup’s. And when it comes down to it, she often wants me and so will whine if left with them downstairs while I escape for a rest. If they mistakenly leave a door open giving her access to the stairs, she’ll leg it up to find me. A stair gate isn’t an option unfortunately due to the design of our stairs.

Both my kids have never been particularly early risers and I’ve always been secretly pleased about dodging 6am wake up calls ... until DartyPup.

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lazymum99 · 28/06/2019 13:32

He’s gorgeous!
Can someone explain to me what a house-line is and how it’s supposed to be used. I have to feed my dogs separately and maybe I could use this for the puppy when other dog is eating. I am currently putting him in another room.

shutthedamndoor · 28/06/2019 15:12

Oh thank goodness I've found you all! We have an 11 week old Labrador and ... we'll, everything that everyone has said. Gorgeous but exhausting and a little overwhelming... can I join you please?

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shutthedamndoor · 28/06/2019 15:17

Well, not we'll

MsMarvellous · 28/06/2019 16:28

Your puppies are gorgeous. ❤️

shutthedamndoor · 28/06/2019 17:15

Thankyou! He's lovely, is reasonably good at pooping outside, can sit and come if he's paying attention (all of this came from the breeder - she's brilliant).
However, he's awake at 3am for a bathroom break and doesn't easily settle, has a crazy hour at 7pm (coinciding wonderfully with dinner/bath/crankiness ) and won't stay off the bloody sofa. Plus my husband is away 4 days a week, we have 2 kids, and I work full time from home.
I had a small meltdown last night When DH got home, followed by a large glass of wine.

MsMarvellous · 28/06/2019 19:33

What are you guys feeding your pups?

MarvelDog was sent home on softened James Wellbeloved but he's still not being eating when otherwise being settled. So I took a punt and kept aside some of his dinner and sprinkled it on crunchy. He's demolished his dinner.

So I think he likes the crunchy texture. But then I read that feeding Unsoftened means it'll just expand in their tummy and might not be so good for them.

Does the hive puppy mind think part soft and part crunchy will be ok?

ditavonteesed · 29/06/2019 05:57

Any idea for getting pup to sleep later? She gets up at 5.30 and there is no way she'll settle back down, I don't want to put her back in crate cause I don't want to set her up to fail.

shutthedamndoor · 29/06/2019 06:06

Am in exactly the same situation... watching hopefully for suggestions!

ditavonteesed · 29/06/2019 06:17

Anyone who has the answer won't be here for a while yet

BiteyShark · 29/06/2019 06:21

In the early days we used to just get up at 5 and start the day because he was just too awake.

As BiteyDog got older at the weekends we would let him have a toilet break then back in the crate for another hour. I used to give him a few biscuits as a snack. He was fine with that but I think he was more like 5-6 months of age so the manic puppy period was behind us.

Now he's an adult he is used to going back to sleep after a toilet break (if he needs one) or if one of us has got up to make a cuppa as long as he gets a biscuit Grin

BiteyShark · 29/06/2019 06:24

P.s. I am awake as I wanted a cuppa. Dog is sleeping next to me after having his biscuit Grin

MsMarvellous · 29/06/2019 06:31

We've been snoozing together on the sofa since 5:30

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ditavonteesed · 29/06/2019 06:37

Susu is very chewy in the morning, it's the worst time she just wanders round chewing everything. She seems to like chewing plastic the best so I'm going to take her up to pets at home later to see if we can get any toys that are more plasticy, we always have kings because my terrier destroys everything else.

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3teens2cats · 29/06/2019 07:45

I am a naturally early riser, even on the weekend I wake around 6:30 and rarely go back to sleep. Pup was waking at 5am which was tough but now a month down the line he just waits quietly for me to come down. I put the blinds down and have a lavender plug in overnight plus I made a roof over the bed area in his pen so it's a bit darker. When he woke too early and called for me I didn't raise any blinds or open and curtains, didn't talk to him or fuss him. Quick wee outside and then we snuggle on the sofa together, where usually we would both fall back to sleep again. In my mind this taught him it wasn't time to start the day yet and no one else in the house got disturbed. I also think as he has got used to being on his own for short periods in the day he didn't feel the need to shout for me the second he wakes up. I must add though he has a puppy pad in his pen which is used most nights. I know some will say this is not good for toilet training but it is the best solution for us at the moment.

SophyStantonLacy · 29/06/2019 22:08

This might not be the right response but we just don't get up until 6am on weekdays & 7am on weekends. If puppy is up earlier we don't hear him from our room... he's dry overnight (I think he is 15 weeks now), and when we get up at 6 during the week we take him out for a wee & then he goes back for a further doze until the bloody kids get up

Beginning to feel like my dog is less of a dick. Biting is definitely lessening, I wore a maxi skirt all day without once being snapped at!

MsMarvellous · 30/06/2019 07:23

Did any of you have storms last night? We managed to avoid it, it was forecast but didn't appear. Just wondered how your pups coped with thunder. Hope they were all fine.

I had planned to build up to leaving MarvelPup alone this week but looks like mother in law will still be with us for a while yet. I can't leave him with her and she's not going to be going out anywhere. Will just have to continue leaving him quietly downstairs for small amounts time while I do jobs. I can't let him whine or howl as it would really distress her. Just hope it doesn't make it harder later.

3teens2cats · 30/06/2019 07:58

We have found that if pup can hear us moving about upstairs he will complain but if not he is fine. We have a particular toy we give him just when we are going out and I always give him a little snack. This distracts him while we leave. We never say goodbye or make a big fuss on return. I have heard the more matter of fact you can be about it the less anxious your dog will be. Makes sense, if you make a fuss saying goodbye your dog's emotions will be heightened and then suddenly he is alone.

MsMarvellous · 30/06/2019 08:05

Sounds like a good routine @3teens2cats. When she's upstairs resting I could do that and sit on my front step with a cuppa for 5/10 minutes so he thinks he's alone 😂. To be fair he seems pretty calm, which I wasn't expecting, but being left awake is something we need to work on.

How old is your pup now?

3teens2cats · 30/06/2019 08:21

He is almost 16 weeks. I have teens home from uni and finished exams for the summer so he is left very as and when depending on their plans work shifts, no regular pattern and still no longer than a couple of hours. In September there will be more of a routine which will be good for him. On the subject of routine, we have now quite an established first thing and bedtime routine but apart from that the day is all over the place. He finally gets his second immunisations this week coming so once we can get out for walks I will try to get a tiny bit of structure to his day.

MsMarvellous · 30/06/2019 08:30

That sounds a long stretch between vaccines. MarvelPup is 11 weeks on Thursday coming and had vaccinations last week. Vet says he can go out pavement walking from next week. Then he has a 3rd set of vaccinations 3 weeks after that when he can go anywhere he likes.

I'm glad he can do pavements soon as he's heavy Grin

3teens2cats · 30/06/2019 08:39

Yes 4 weeks in between and he had his first at 12 weeks. He had one at 10 weeks just before he left the breeder but I couldn't find anyone locally who used the same brand so had to wait 2 weeks and then start again :( He is small (cavalier king charles) so I have been carrying him to get him out and about, plus we visited friends with vaccinated dogs. We have a big garden to play in but it's obviously not the same.

MsMarvellous · 30/06/2019 09:02

What a bind about your vet not being on the same ones. I got lucky in that front I think.

Nettleskeins · 30/06/2019 12:26

MrsMarvel I'm not sure about your MIL's exact situation but it would really be only 5 mins of whining and howling if he is sleepy and toileted, could your MIL be persuaded to wear headphones for a short while perhaps in the daytime? I can now put my dog in a room alone wide awake and being annoying (and with the presumption of being overtired) and he whines for 2 minutes vociferously and then zzzzzz. They need their sleep and will sleep a bit easier than an overtired baby when left to it imho.

Mj312 · 30/06/2019 13:02

Our pup is left for 40 minutes for the school run at a time and he has been absolutely great. I use Alexa to play classic FM to him , and use it to drop in to check on him while waiting for the kids to come out. He was left for an hour a few days ago when it was sports day and was fast asleep on my return. Have you tried leaving the radio / TV on for them when you go out? I'm guessing our pup is that used to noise now he doesn't like the sound of silence 😂

MsMarvellous · 30/06/2019 14:49

Using the radio is probably an excellent idea 😂.

We've just been to a small child's birthday party and he has behaved so well! Very pleased. No nibbling at all and only one attempted quiche theft.