I fostered a girl, Ava 7 weeks ago, was told she was "a little shy"
She was terrified of men.
We worked with her and had contact with a potential forever home, but Wendy Feathers got wind of the fact she loved her crate and went full on psycho on me - Was a Friday night was peppered with emails all evening, they tried to get me on a video call with 3 others, then I received 2 voice notes, an hour apart and well, it was clear shed had a few glasses of red between the two! Was very intrusive and borderline psychotic in my opinion.
She told the potentials they weren't suitable and was very rude and unkind to them and blocked them.
Last week I get a call telling me shes being collected by the van today and she needs to be ready, again I voiced my concerns about men taking her and that being put back in the van would not be in her best interests but I was ignored.
I told them she was even scared of my adult son, I believe shes been at the hands of abuse from a man, but they wouldn't listen.
Two men show up tonight, one took her from me, she freaked and bit him, he grabbed her by the throat and slammed dunked her to the gravel - swear if Id not been there he would have battered her.
Message the group im told she must get in that van she "needs to move on"
She had wet and soiled in fear and they did not care.
I told them she deserved better and left the group as I was absolutely distraught, my son who was also on the group then got peppered with emails about me and how she only.thanked him for his hard work and actually blamed.me for the attack saying id put my emotions on her.
She's a vile woman and ill never foster from then again.
We knew Ava personally and despite what we said "shes our dog we know best"
I've just got to hope she's safe and that trauma hasn't undone the 7 weeks of progress we made before she got shoved back into a sterile cage that she spent 3 days in terrified