I wonder, suggs21, do you know Wendy personally? Funny, because you sound just like a parrot of her. I was waiting for her to send someone to her defence. A lot of what you have just stated their is the exact information they like to tell people on their public front.
So because you had a positive experience (if you are even a real adopter and not one of Wendy's shills) and others have, does that mean everything is legitimate?
The fact you have had a positive experience does not discount my experience and the experiences of many others that she tries to block and hide from her page, and the evidence that has came to light about Wendy and her sham rescue.
The FACTS are that she has:
- Lied and manipulated me into taking my dog back to her kennels. She specifically said that she did not want to find a foster home for him just yet due to the behavioural issues I stated and would prefer to spend 2 months assessing him at her kennels in Mexborough, to be sure we find him the home that he needs!
- Promised to keep me fully updated on the process and his progress and run his advert past me before it went live. She even offered to send me a legal contract to ensure that she divulges all of the dogs behavioural issues that have came to light to any future adopters.
- Stated that she would give me a refund, albeit a lesser one, when the dog was eventually adopted. She stated this would be at least 2-3 months whilst she goes through the whole behavioural assessment and eventually gets him adopted. Like I said, it wasn't my main priority to get my money back, at this point I did think she maybe had made a genuine mistake in his advert, but the fact is she LIED.
- He was collected on the Sunday by a driver. Wendy messaged me, the very last message I received from her was 'I will update you next week after assessment. x'
- Next thing I know, she has kicked all other admins from the group chat and removed me, blocked me from her personal profile and the Wags profile.
- A family member went onto her page and she has advertised my dog with an absolute, completely pack of LIES. I am the only person in the UK that has spent 2 weeks with this dog in a home environment, Wendy knows NOTHING about him. This dog is the opposite of what she put on her advert. He is very anxious. Very nervous of cars, outside noises. Afraid of bikes. He is EXTREMELY destructive in the house and I think this likely stems from his anxiety. Like I stated, on a short drive to the beach, he chewed and ripped through the actual lining of my boot. I noticed that the more anxious he got (if a car came close) the more he would chew. He chewed through his lead and 2 seat belts. He rips everything in his reach if you don't constantly watch him. He is VERY rough when he plays. He obviously has not learned play boundaries, from humans or dogs, as he was also rough with my cousin's dog on the beach and made him squeal. Wendy tried to pass this off as general 'puppy mouthiness', but when you have a 10 month old Labrador cross biting your arms and your hands like a 10 week old puppy would, it is not just something to be shrugged off. It HURTS a lot. Like I said, I have evidence of the bruises all up my arms and my forearms where he jumps up and bites when he is excited. If that were to happen to a child, that is really not good. Most importantly, he is AGGRESSIVE. He has food aggression. Wendy tried to tell me he is not aggressive when I told her this. I find that absolutely hilarious considering she has never ever met the dog in her life 😂 whilst I am stood there, with video footage of the dog growling, snarling, lungeing and nipping anything that goes near his food bowl when eating, she tried to tell me he is not aggressive 😂 stupid woman. She has advertised this dog, this dog she knows nothing about, as this perfect family dog. She has stated that he COULD possibly be homed with younger children but we are saying older than 8 because of his playfulness! Not mentioned a single THING about his rough play and food aggression! She has stated all of these positive things about him, as if she knows him. They're all false! She is purposely hiding his true nature to get him adopted. I found her statement on his advert that 'a little more practice and training in positive lead work will add the finishing touches to this boy' HAHA what a pack of lies!! There is going to be one very upset adopted when they realise he is the opposite of her advert! And it is absolutely fucking heart breaking because this poor dog, he is not going to get the home he needs. I understand that you have to put some positive things on an advert to try and find an adopter, but she is NOT being honest about his nature and the fact he is food aggressive, very rough, very anxious and very destructive. He needs an adult only, experience home, with someone that is willing and has the time to deal with his behavioural issues. What she is doing is completely irresponsible and downright disgusting!! Please explain, because other people have had a positive experience, how this is okay???? What would you say if the dog bites a child and gets put down? Wonder if you are all so quick to jump to her defence then!
- Someone I knew messaged her asking about my dogs and responded to his advert. As soon as she started asking question, she blocked her. This is her standard response! Block everything and everyone that threatens to expose her lie! Notice how you don't see any negative reviews or comments on her official channels? Because she wants to hide the truth of the people that see the real person and truth behind this so called rescue.
- You say all of the WAGS workers don't take a profit and all have regular jobs do you? Do you KNOW that? Or is that you just repeating what she has told you? Can you prove that? Funny, because she failed to send me any evidence at all when I asked for evidence of the costs I contributed towards. If she is an incorporated association, why does she not have a CACS account hmm? Why does she get paid into her personal account? There are specific business accounts for unincorporated associations. The actual FACTS are, nobody knows where this money goes. She is about as transparent as a blackout curtain.
- I should also add, when discussing my dogs food aggression, the lady who adopted him from Romania stated that she knew the dog had food aggression and she just avoided him when eating. Wow. Thanks for put that on his advert Wendy! Instead I got told he was extensively tested around children! Would of saved a heck of a lot of heartache and expense if I had been advised before potentially letting him around a young family!
10. She posts all of the dogs on her page with these buzz words. Bombproof TICK. Child tested TICK. She knows exactly what she is doing. Her main priority is to get the dogs adopted and get the payment. She is NOT doing it for the dogs. She is doing for the money. This rescue is operating like a business NOT a not-for-profit. I wonder how she pays for her nice house is France hmm? Wonder if it is a coincidence that I found a Pinterest account online she has, where she had a folder full of large, expensive houses in France labelled 'my future French home ;)' 😂
11. A behaviourist made me aware of the fraudulent operations such as Wags. I consulted him to see if I could help my dog. He actually refused to take my money, which is a mark of an actual GENUINE person. He said he COULD help me in some way, but that it would only ever be to manage the aggression, as food aggression is not easy to remove. He actually told me that it would be best not to have a dog with this around a young family and unsafe. He told me that he has increasingly had calls for help from people who have rescued dogs from abroad, who turn out to be the opposite of their adverts. He stated that, once you have an issue and reach out to the rescue for help, they will DENY all knowledge. They will try and make you feel guilty, as if you are the one not willing to put the training in. That YOU should have seen this behaviour coming because YOU didn't do enough research. Completely avoid the fact they told you lies about a dog. Completely avoid the fact that a lot of people have never rescued before and put their complete trust in the people running the rescue to tell you the truth and have the best interests of you and the dog at heart, because, why would they? It never even crossed my mind that I could be being lied too. I was completely unaware of rescue scams. He also told me that making you feel guilty is the nature of the fraud. He told me that they play on your heartstrings. You blame yourself, naturally, for not having the experience to deal with food aggression. Wendy and her team gaslight you into thinking it's your fault and they had absolutely no knowledge of it. He also said that they want you to return the dog. They can then readvertise and get another couple of hundred pounds! Looking back over the messages, she was very forceful about having him back. She uses a lot of emotive language to make it appear that she is a very kind, helpful person that just wants what's best for everyone 'I am so so sorry about this, nobody wants this, nobody likes it when a dog turns out to be unsuitable, I can absolutely take him back, just say the word and I can get him collected for you, I could even get someone to pick him up close by and bring him to our kennels in Mexborough xxxx'. This is the type of messages she sent once she changed from the initial gaslighting techniques and realised I wouldn't fall for it.
12. There are other experiences of people that have went through the same thing as me. She has lied to them about their dogs, blocked people, tried to blame them, denied all knowledge of it. I know for a FACT that Wendy is a liar. She is manipulative. She blocks anyone that threatens to reveal this. She uses so many techniques that are actually really clever and she knows exactly what she is doing. She uses a technique called flooding when you first get an interest in adopting. She sends heaps and heaps of positive information over to you, and it all sounds great. You can't believe how well informed the whole process is. It makes you trust them even more, makes you absolutely sure this is the right dog for you, makes you trust that they are using the money as they say, despite how glaringly dodgy it all is. As my behaviourist said, you can't see the wood for the trees. When you have an issue, she most definitely uses gaslighting to make you question if you are at fault. When she realises she can't gaslight you, she manipulates you into thinking she is genuine and wants to do what's best for the dog and trusting her to take the dog back and do what's best. I don't need nobody to tell me she isn't these things, because I have FIRST HAND experience of her doing these things to me and I fell for it twice. I KNOW she is a fraud.
13. There is also evidence online that she does fund raisers that are also LIES. She posts fundraising appeals stating they need urgent cash to adopts dogs from 'kill shelters'. People have stated that they have been in contact with the managers of these shelters and the dogs are absolutely not as risk of being 'mass slaughtered'. People in those countries willing to help and rescue the dogs, on the ground rescuers, have been blocked by her from commenting! Why? Because as soon as they go there they will realise it is a sham! I completely believe this because that is how she operates! The block button is her best friend!
14. Now, of course there will be positive stories. If my dog had arrived and he turned out not to have food aggression and he didn't have the very rough and painful play behaviours, I would definetely have decided to keep him and work on his anxiety and destruction ect with a behaviourist. I would have decided this was not a big enough risk to my step children to not keep him and it would have been a success story. I'm sure there are many, many dogs that arrive with behavioural issues that are easier to manage and within a normal range that you feel capable of dealing with. If that were my case, I would of went away thinking Wags was a fabulous, legitimate rescue. I would have had NO idea of the truth of Wendys real behaviour and would have left a fab review and defended the rescue if I seen people slating it. However, the issues arise when you have a problem. If you have had a dog from Wags and had no problems with it, then you aren't going to see the truth because you aren't a threat to her. When a dog arrives that has a behavioural issue that is so in contrast to the dog you got told about and you feel incapable of dealing with it e.g. aggression, then it becomes clear that she is lying to you in her adverts. When you have an issue you experience the gaslighting, the blame, the blocking, the lies. Check her posts for yourself. You will not see any posts mention that the dog is food aggressive. You just see positive after positive. She downplays any negatives. 'he is quite boisterous and just needs a human to love him and show him the way'. You gave to understand that this rescue operates as a business. I am not saying to not offer your home to a rescue from abroad. If you want to take your chances that is your prerogative. But what I am telling you is that you CANNOT believe what you are told about the dog. You are taking a complete gamble when you get a dog from this rescue. And if you have any major problems when the dog arrives, then you will see for yourself who she really is. Also, you aren't paying to help a not for profit. You are paying for a dog like a business transaction. I have no doubt that she uses the money for these dogs to fund her lifestyle. My dog arrived very underweight by the way. I was actually told that there aren't enough resources in kennels to feed them all. I find that quite astounding considering she is advertising tons and tons and tons and tons of dogs on her pages for adoption. That is hundreds of thousands of pounds a year. She churns them out like a factory. On the face of it, wonderful. So many dogs being rescued. In reality, it is exploiting dogs and the kindness of people for profit. It is placing potentially aggressive dogs in unsuitable homes and risking injury to adults, children and risking the dog being taken and euthanised. Dogs being passed from pillar to post because nobody can deal with their aggressive and trauma and was told they were a gentle family dog with no trauma (as I was).
I am leaving this here now, I've said what I want to say and you can take from it what you will. I am a genuine person that has been living a nightmare for the last two weeks over this situation. I am approximately £1000 down after paying for my dog and all of his things and even worse, I will now think about him for the rest of my days and wonder where he is and if he found his forever people 😞 ask yourself, why would I come on here and post all of this and take up my time just to bad mouth a dog rescue operation and make fake claims!? What would I gain from doing that?
I guarantee as time goes by you will find more and more of these posts against Wags. The truth will come out about the disgusting woman that Wendy is in the end and I for one cannot wait.