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Am actually starting to get incredibly depressed at my dog and her behaviour now, although it’s all my fault.
Apologies for such a long post to come...
She’s walking on lead past other dogs now with little to no reaction.
She’s much more sociable with smaller dogs (I hadn’t let her meet bigger ones and definately no ‘bouncies’ as she is worse with them)
But I met a greyhound the other day, he was so calm and lovely and placid.
I wasn’t going to let them meet due to his size but the owner thought they should.
Her whole approach was so confrontational, direct stare, upright stiff tail and posture and she silently snarled at him.
Gentle soul he was he just calmly walked away from her.
Then a little while later she approached him again, more relaxed this time but still tense then out of nowhere he yelped! And refused to have any more contact with her.
I did hear an audible clack so I assumed she had air snapped maybe and frightened him?
Then today, two small dogs.
I wasn’t concerned really, I thought she’d be fine.
They all bounced about, all apparently fine.
She decided to follow one, not in a particularly confrontational way I didn’t think.
The other dog looked uncomfortable so I was about to recall her when all of a sudden the little dog yelped.
I can only assume she either managed to nip him through the muzzle or muzzle punched him.
Absolutely no provocation whatsoever.
I just feel so deflated. And nervous incase these dogs are yelping because she’s managing to nip them.
The worst thing is she is not like this with the dog walker.
She has no problems whatsoever with her.
She is perfectly sociable, sofa/toy sharing, playing, eating in other other dogs presence.
I am confident that my dog is this way because of me.
Because I am such an anxious pathetic individual.
I have GP diagnosed anxiety and I am noise sensitive and tense pretty much all the time although I try really really hard to be cool and calm I think the dog picks up that I’m not.
I have tried so hard aswell.
I have read so much literature on dog body language, watched so many YouTube videos.
Tried CARE for a huge amount of time, then switched to balanced training because CARE seemed to be making her worse, not better.
I just feel really depressed and fed up actually.
Tried to talk to DH about it but he doesn’t understand, I hinted that maybe we should try and rehome dog as she would be happier with a calmer, more confident owner.
But he’s all ‘oh don’t worry, just keep her on lead all the time’ and ‘how do you know it’s even your fault you can’t control the actions of others’
Well first of all I feel incredibly cruel keeping an active working breed that LIVES to run free on leash permanently and secondly, if she’s only horrid with me how can it not be due to me?!
Course, the way she is going I will indeed have to keep her on lead permanently.