Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

The doghouse

If you're worried about your pet's health, please speak to a vet or qualified professional.

1 year old hurt our dog - help

30 replies

DinoSawrRAARR · 27/07/2018 12:34

I’be posted in the dog section as the last thing I need is a bunch of people telling me I’m a bad mum!

I’ll try to keep it short, I have a 18 month old son and a 2.5 year old sheepdog.
Dog is fantastic with son, just wants to play and is very patient. They are NEVER left alone or unsupervised.
Also we’re all living in a small house due to our house having some work done and us having to move out short term.

My son has started to pull dogs fur, ears and tail and I feel he does it for attention.
I’ve tried:
giving him into trouble (saying NO! Sharply and then saying “we don’t hurt”)
taking son away from dog and then giving the dog lots of attention
taking the dog away from son (although I feel like this is punishing the dog as she then has to sit behind the baby gate in the kitchen)

Nothing seems to work and I’m just really looking for advice.

Today dog walked up to my son and lay down and son hurt her really bad. She handled it very well but I’m very conscious that I do not ever want her to feel scared or she needs to bite etc so I just need some advice really - sorry for the long post

OP posts:
DinoTheFriendlyRhino · 28/07/2018 08:38

@Jesus

Oh I know - I wasn’t being snappy at you. I was agreeing that I was pretty prepared to be told I’m a bad dog owner and was happy to find all the answers supportive!

Grin

Sorry if it came across passive/aggressive it wasn’t at all Smile

OnTopOfSpaghetti · 28/07/2018 08:58

@itshappened your poor catSad

JesusInTheCabbageVan · 28/07/2018 09:40

Dino Grin We had exactly the same thing with our dog when DS was the same age, BTW. I was nowhere near organised enough to come up with a long term solution, so it was just a case of hover and intercept.

LaurenJade96 · 28/07/2018 19:05

I’m having a read through all the replies on here and finding it very helpful!
I have a 4 year old chihauaua, and I’m due to give birth next week. Absolutely terrified about what to do when he starts pulling poking and hitting the dog, especially given her size!
Let me know how it goes and if anything works for you! Smile

Milkshakeminer · 28/07/2018 19:07

This happened with me when my son was about 4, I ended up signing the dog over to a rescue for its own benefit Sad

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread