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Do you think this unethical practice? And is there anything I can do?

58 replies

EveryLittleThing · 19/01/2016 14:17

Ok - am prepared for "I told you so" but hope that you won't as what I need right now is help Sad

I posted on here recently asking advice on choosing a cockapoo. I explained that I had put a deposit on a planned litter (show cocker mum) but was then offered the chance of a puppy from a litter (working cocker mum) just born that had one extra puppy in it. The deal was that I was offered the chance to visit the puppy and if it didn't suit I would remain on the list that I had paid the deposit on.

Well, having considered all the helpful advice that I had received on the thread, I thought perhaps I should take more time to consider my options. Especially as we have had some family circumstances arise which I have found rather stressful and I didn't want to make such an important decision whilst I feel unable to think clearly. So I emailed the breeder and explained that we were not in a position to continue at the present time and could she return the deposit.

She has refused telling me that she had turned away good families and that she would now have to go to the trouble of re-opening the list.

My issues are as follows:

A) I asked breeder to email me T&C at the time of deposit - she didn’t
B) I dont recall her at any point telling me the deposit was non-refundable
C) the deposit I gave was for the next litter - not the current one - as far as I am aware at the time of the deposit the list for that planned litter had not even been opened.
D) our deposit was not transferred to the first list as she suggests - She told us explicitly that we would remain on the 2nd bitch’s list and just have the option of a pup from the first litter - i.e. we were merely offered a chance to have a puppy sooner if we wanted one.
E) given that we were on the second list, which has barely been opened, the deposit should be fully refundable as she would NOT yet have had to turn anyone away - the bitch isn’t even in season yet for heaven's sake, let alone pregnant.
F) surely this goes against best practice for breeders - I don't think she should even have taken a deposit until she had at least confirmed a pregnancy.

I spoke to a KC breeder about another breed that was recommended to me from a poster on my last thread - she said she never takes a deposit until her puppies have reached the ground.

I feel really let down. I know I shouldn't have ever given her a deposit in the first place, but is there anything I can do or have I lost my deposit?

Sad and Blush

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tabulahrasa · 20/01/2016 12:08

" I do worry though about taking on a dog that already is set in its ways and I might be fearful of trusting it esp around DD."

You have two huge advantages with an adult rescue rather than a puppy...firstly you've missed the tiny land shark period, where everyone in the house is cut to ribbons by their baby teeth.

But also, if a dog has an issue you're not able to deal with, you know it's not the dog for you straight off the bat, there's no raising a puppy and hoping everything turns out right...you can make a decision knowing exactly what the dog is like whether you want that one or not.

EveryLittleThing · 20/01/2016 12:11

Hi Maitland - yes, she is a member of the breed club and I have approached them - no response as yet Hmm.

Thank you, Shriek - I know that perhaps legally speaking there is not much I can do - but its the moral position I can't stomach. If I had pulled out after pups were on ground or even after pregnancy was confirmed I could understand - but I have stupidly paid a deposit for thin air. And I don't believe she should have asked for it.

I just think that any decent person wouldn't think twice about a refund in the circumstances: I haven't inconvenienced her in any way so what harm has been done that warrants her taking £250 off me? She's doing it just because she can. She knows full well she will get her money back once she opens the list and takes deposits from others.

BTW - when you say "and that's not a term of taking the deposit" - but there were no terms - she explained nothing, either verbally or in writing - does that make a difference do you think?

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EveryLittleThing · 20/01/2016 12:13

Tabulah - I hadn't thought of it like that! I will look into this and talk to the family about it. Thanks for the advice :-)

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Floralnomad · 20/01/2016 12:26

There are plenty of pups and slightly older pups in rescue , Battersea is a bit different because it's really the luck of the day you visit as to what they have in . We got our dog from Battersea ,he was about 15 / 16 weeks old , not house trained or trained at all , it was just luck that on the day we visited he had been in for the requisite 7 days that they have to keep strays and they deemed us suitable caretakers for him . Many Tears rescue usually has lots of youngsters and I'm sure lots of other posters could point you in the right direction when you are ready to go ahead .

EveryLittleThing · 20/01/2016 12:34

Thanks so much, Floral - dd was really looking forward to a full puppy experience - how lucky that you were there on the day they had a puppy in! I will definitely look at Many Tears.

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lougle · 20/01/2016 12:35

She asked for a deposit. You could have said no! You made a choice. A bad choice, but still a choice. There is no protection in law for freely made bad choices.

EveryLittleThing · 20/01/2016 12:52

I know, lougle - and I feel terrible and stupid - I just don't understand why someone would be so obstinate about it under these circumstances, that's all. Sad

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Booboostwo · 20/01/2016 13:39

I fear you may be stuck with the deposit.

If you are thinking of a rescue puppy choose carefully. Ideally the puppies should be in foster care, even better if there are children around. They should be with their mum for at least the first 6 weeks of life and the mother should have a nice temperament. You need to get the puppy around 8-10 weeks old and take full advantage of the socialization window which closes at 14 weeks (well worth taking some time off work to spend settling in and socializing the puppy).

lougle · 20/01/2016 13:40

Well to be fair, the circumstances are pretty much the same circumstances anyone would back out in. You've changed your mind. I really don't think the seller is being obstinate for refusing to refund the deposit.

wannaBe · 20/01/2016 14:00

Actually, I think the thing which would go in the oP's favour legally is the fact that there aren't actually any puppies, or even a certainty of any puppies, and there is no contract which states how soon a litter of puppies is due and when you can therefore expect to take your puppy home.

A deposit can only be made on a product or service (I don't like to talk about living animals that way but ykwim) which can actually be delivered, and upon entering a contract with the payment of the deposit, the other party is obliged to give the buyer a reassurance of the delivery of the product or service.

This is different to paying a non refundable deposit on a litter which has already been born and where numbers of pups are known. The breeder would only take a deposit from the number of people who were going to have puppies. The fact that she is taking deposits before the litter has even been conceived means that she is in fact obtaining money by deception as there are no certainties. Alternative it is proof that she is running a puppy farm, if she is prepared to breed as many pups as she needs to to fill her orders.

OP I would go to small claims court without hesitation. Just because some breeders do things a certain way doesn't mean that this one will get away with it. I would also contact the RSPCA and report the breeder as a potential puppy farm....

EveryLittleThing · 20/01/2016 16:01

Booboo and wannbe - thanks very much for your comments - really helpful. I will look into rescue but unless I can have a puppy that I feel confident about I won't be taking any risks! I will also look into small claims. I have heard nothing back from the breeders club as yet which is a bit worrying. May well get in touch with the RSPCA.

lougle we'll just have to agree to disagree. Of course the circumstances are not the same - yes, I have backed out - but not at any cost or inconvenience to the breeder - no puppy have even been conceived so what practical reason does she have to hang on to the deposit. It's pure greed.

Are you a breeder?

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EveryLittleThing · 20/01/2016 16:02

*puppies

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needastrongone · 20/01/2016 16:03

Hi Every. I posted on your other thread. I am really sorry it's turned out this way. I am no lawyer, but you are right, the moral thing to do would be to return the money. I would. She's hardly a 'hobby' breeder is she? Doing it for the love, if she won't return your money.

I would definitely contact the breed club and update them. No T&C's and no 'non refundable deposit' specification.

I might also be tempted to reconcile myself to losing the £250 by considering the long term. You have, quite rightly, put a lot of time and effort into thinking about this. Your dog will be with you for 10 plus years. Divide the £250 by 10 years, and it might be easier to palate?

I am really sorry it's ended this way. It's probably why so many threads get strong views expressed on this subject. There's so much opportunity for money making at the expense of a living thing.

You will get the right dog, and you will enjoy that dog for life. I have no doubt you will be super owners.

Still going to tell you to get a working cocker though Grin

needastrongone · 20/01/2016 16:04

And if you do go for a pedigree puppy, they usually cost less than the 'oodles' do anyway! You might not lose overall.

wannaBe · 20/01/2016 16:11

Tbh I would never take on a rescue either but there is no right or wrong on that one.

I would definitely look into small claims, or even just threaten it, she may back down then, especially if she thinks her Hmm reputation is at steak.

If you are not successful though I would consider it a lucky escape, worst case scenario you could have ended up with a puppy farmed puppy with all manner of health issues.

I adore cocker spaniels and have always wanted one. Not able to have one though Sad

tomatodizzy · 20/01/2016 16:52

I can see your concerns with rescue. All the dogs usually have a history and the centres are really good at matching people with the right dog and that can take a lot of time. Also have you considered fostering? We fostered our mini Pinscher, we were told she was not an ideal dog for children, other dogs, cats and chickens but we ended up keeping her because she fitted right in and is a lovely little dog.

DrunkenUnicorn · 20/01/2016 18:20

I kinda see where lougle is coming from....

The fact that you agreed to pay a deposit on puppies that were not on the ground yet is neither here nor there in terms of a deposit that is there to deter time wasters/people letting her down. You've changed your mind and pulled out..

Maybe it was foolish to agree to put a deposit down when the bitch was not mated yet but you willingly agreed. Maybe she has taken advantage, but I can't see that she's in the wrong- she agreed to provide you with a puppy from an upcoming litter, she can still do so, in my experience deposit goes back if she can't keep her end of the bargain.

Lots of breeders ask for a deposit up front so they know they definitely have homes lined up, others refuse to take a desposit until they've met you and are happy with you taking one of their babies, so they can easily back out if they feel it necessary. Neither is 'wrong', just personal preference and you can see pros and cons for both.

DrunkenUnicorn · 20/01/2016 18:24

If it makes you feel any better, I don't think it's a case of a naive purchaser being taken advantage of.

I know of a friend who recently lost a litter due to a complication and had to spay the bitch for health reasons. She lost her £500 stud fee. The agreement in our breed is free return to stud dog to try again if no puppies- no refunds, as you're paying for a stud service not puppies... That was a kicker but no ill feeling, that was the agreement. I think this is similar.

LizzieMacQueen · 20/01/2016 18:52

Show cocker. We have 2 now and they are brilliant dogs.

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Do you think this unethical practice? And is there anything I can do?
BooAvenue · 20/01/2016 19:10

Well really, what did you expect when you decided to buy from a 'breeder' like that?

I think you'll just have to suck it up and take it as a lesson learned.

I don't think what the breeder was doing in taking a deposit was particularly unusual.

When I used to breed working line dogs I would take a deposit from people before the bitch was even pregnant. Why? Because it takes a fucking long time to suss out if it's a properly decent home which I'd be happy to sell a pup to. Also because after the puppies are born if someone drops out then 8 weeks is not that long to find a committed and decent replacement owner for a puppy. I wasn't particularly up for doing home visits when looking after a large litter. Also, I didn't want people in or out all the time to "have a look" when they were born or stressing mum out when she was pregnant, much better to have it all set up before the pregnancy, then the families will come on a given day at the 4 week point to chose their pup (first to deposit gets first choice) and then again at 9 weeks to collect. I would hold a deposit for the next if the people who chose last didn't get the choice of their desired colour/sex and then return the deposit if we decided not to go for another litter.

needastrongone · 20/01/2016 19:33

In fairness, I think the OP sounds like a responsible, decent person who has had her eyes opened somewhat here. I trust folk too and try to think the best of them, rightly or wrongly.

So cross with this damn designer bloody dogs thing Angry

MidniteScribbler · 20/01/2016 20:26

yes, she is a member of the breed club and I have approached them - no response as yet

If she is a member of the cocker breed club and breeding cross-bred dogs, I suspect she won't be a member for much longer. Every breed club I know it is against the COE to cross-breed. No point in having a pedigree dog register if you're letting them mate with any old mutt in order to churn out puppies for profit.

Shriek · 21/01/2016 11:26

only just seen your reply to me, and question about term of deposit

I think you paid to reserve a dpup, that was the original verbal agreement from what you say, so that stands. If this bitch does not successfully breed to the sire planned (that your deposit is for), and she cannot therefore supply you with the dpup you get your money back.

I still suspect that as she has said that 'bitch is not in season' yet, do you know the intended bitch? Have you been to see these ddogs? met the breeder and can identify the bitch that was 'due in season' - i think that because she has offered you another it is likely that this bitch was in season and mating was unsuccessful and this is a load of cock & bull, but only you can know that from the dates she gave you and meeting the dam/sire of the potential litter.

If this is the case you are due your deposit, but you will have to gather your evidence so you can prove this to be the case, the season dates/proposed mating/sire/expected dpup arrival dates etc.

You might ask around of other breeders that know this breeder and discover it is all above board and she's good to her word, which means if she offers you a pup from the promised litter you can either pay the balance or lose your deposit. If promised litter doesn't materialise you have your deposit returned.

Shriek · 21/01/2016 11:32

i definitely disagree with taking and keeping deposits where no dpup is then offered!!!

this is completely bad practice. This is the breeders' risk. It is not down to potential dpup owners to pay stud fees and cover costs of this breeding risk. I think thats dispicable practice.

Poor potential owners to have paid for the breeders business costs. Money makers.

wannaBe · 21/01/2016 14:32

Yes, taking non refundable deposits up front for puppies that have not even been conceived yet is despicable practice. It just makes breeding a non risk exercise then doesn't it?

So, breeder is hoping to breed say, her Labrador. There may be up to ten puppies, so she takes a non refundable deposit of £250 from ten people, now she has £2500 to cover her costs. The dog is mated and something goes wrong and the puppies are stillborn or even the pregnancy doesn't take and she loses her £500 stud fee (as mentioned above) She will have insurance for vets fees at this stage so those are not a factor. So even given there are no puppies the non refundable deposit means she is still £2000 up. Win win for the breeder I'd say.