My beautiful springer has just been at a home stay boarding for a week. It was a last minute placement as our usual house sitter was unavailable.
He is fine and was well looked after but the carer has given me all manner of advice which is dominance theory based (I imagine).
I should never use balls or other throwing/ retrieving games. This is his favourite pastime and ideal for me as I have small children so long daily walks aren't always possible. According to her, this makes him too excitable and dogs don't need to run He should be attending to me (as 'pack leader' all the time). She thinks I've 'encouraged him to race around'. I probably have, but didn't see anything wrong with this, especially as his recall is instant and bombproof.
When we trained him as a pup, it was only balls that could get his interest, so we built on this to get his attention! If there was another dog nearby, he would come to us to wait for the ball.
Anyway, he won't be going back there, but I need reassuring that I haven't got it all wrong!