We really don't know what to do with our 13 month old beagle or how to help him. He's a sweet dog a lot of the time and loves cuddles but has snapped at ds (6) a lot, normally when the dog has something in his mouth.
He chews everything he can get hold of, eg memory card, dishcloth, tinfoil, woolly hats etc etc etc. He's even chewed most of one doorframe. We have baby gates on the kitchen doorways, but he leaps over them from a stand still. He has almost stopped weeing in the house but poos everywhere and then chews it up and drops it around the house.
He has a crate for when he is left on his own (max 3 hours no more than once a week) and when we return he's cocked his leg on the bars so there's wee everywhere. He's very rarely left on his own, and goes to work with dh on the two days I'm out all day. However when we do leave him he barks continuously and the neighbours are starting to get a bit fed up. Apparently he just does not stop.
We really don't know what to do. He's exercised regularly and loves going on runs with dh, but will come back and behave just the same. DC2 is due in 2 months and I'm panicking slightly because we have no way of separating him from the baby - baby gates don't work and if we close the door he barks continuously and chews the door frame until he opens the door. I do not like the idea of him running around the baby, especially if he's got a pooey mouth, or if he's going to snap. He's the most stubborn dog I've ever encountered and has reduced me to tears on a few occasions just due to sheer frustration.
I am desperate for some advice. We do not want to rehome him as I believe a dog is for life, but there has to be some way that we can get on more harmoniously. Please help!