I wonder if any of you experienced puppy owners can help me. We have an adorable welsh springer spaniel who is 9 weeks old and who we got 5 days ago. I am finding it all a bit overwhelming to tell the truth, a bit like when I had my 2 dd's. We have a crate in the kitchen and I'm doing my best to make it as nice as possible- blanket, treats etc. However, the poor thing is getting increasingly more upset when I put him in there. He will go in on his own with the door open when we're about but as soon as we shut the door to leave her ( half an hour at the most to pick up the dd's) or at night he howls and cries and can do for quite sometime. I have tried putting a kong with treats in and covering the crate but doesn't seem to make a difference. He has also started peeing in there on his bedding and ripping up the newspaper, even if he's left in there for 15 minutes or so. Last night he woke at 4 and I let him out although he'd still done a wee in his crate, and put him back in with a kong and treats and he cried until 6.30 and weed again in it. He is just beautiful at other times and seems really happy and not generally nervy apart from this and we haven't had many accidents in the house. Would you just leave him to cry it out, or something else? I should also say that I am a sahm so I'm around practically all day with him bar the trips to pick up/ drop off dd's. I would appreciate any help.Feeling quite down about it all today. I think the responsibility has just hit me.